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Topic: Do Aqua/Caps string people along?
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bullseye Newflake Posts: 24 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 25, 2012 02:30 PM
Aqua Sun with very strong Cap influences in his chart (Moon included). Is this a tendency of Aqua/Caps? Do they string people along to keep their options safe but open, or if they weren't interested would I not be getting texts from him saying that he likes me so much and that he needs to see me?The problem is just in the fact that he always seems so eager and has always initiated the hangout but its only ever happened once. The last time we were supposed to hang out he initiated it and said that he would let me know when he was back in town on the day. It wasn't set in stone because he was working all night out of town but I figured I'd get at least a text telling me if he couldn't make it. I was doing my own thing so I wasn't waiting around but I just expected a "Hey, won't be back in town until later than expected, sorry" or something. Is this bad? Normal? I personally took that as a sign that he wasn't interested and was fine with the whole situation but he just kept texting me a day or two later as if things were perfect. Im a really busy person so I don't have a lot of time to think about the things he does. Maybe I haven't given him enough reassurance because I rarely text him but whenever he is working he can go days and days without texting me so I don't ever want to bother him. I guess Im just confused as to why someone constantly tries to make plans but never really follows through with them. Its all talk with no action! Why not just leave a person be instead of putting in effort to text them and go through the motions if you clearly don't like them? IP: Logged |
Layla84 Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Orlando, Florida,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted October 25, 2012 02:32 PM
Well, Aquarius influences (moon, sun ,venus) are very freedom-oriented, and they like their independence. A lot of the time they like to keep their relationships friend-ship oriented. I knew this Aquarius guy who had like four girlfriends! Unfortunately, they can be flighty and forget to maintain relationships with others. You didn't say what your sun sign was? IP: Logged |
bullseye Newflake Posts: 24 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted October 25, 2012 02:39 PM
Haha I'm unfortunately the same way so I understand that he gets busy and flighty and needs space. I do too. I just don't understand why I get these insane waves of expression, where he seems so sure of himself and seeing me, and then its as if he retreats for a week and surfaces again. If you don't like someone leave them alone, OR maintain a very friendship-esque relationship, don't hint at being more than that. Maybe I'm too rational. I'm a Taurus. IP: Logged |
Layla84 Knowflake Posts: 54 From: Orlando, Florida,USA Registered: May 2012
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posted October 25, 2012 02:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by bullseye: Haha I'm unfortunately the same way so I understand that he gets busy and flighty and needs space. I do too. I just don't understand why I get these insane waves of expression, where he seems so sure of himself and seeing me, and then its as if he retreats for a week and surfaces again. If you don't like someone leave them alone, OR maintain a very friendship-esque relationship, don't hint at being more than that. Maybe I'm too rational. I'm a Taurus.
That explains it. Taurus people like stabilty. This has been said so many times but earth signs and water work well for you. Thought, you would think that because he has cap influences he would be a bit more reliable and stable. I'm like you though, i like stability and for someone to tell me where i stand. Just be straight with me! I hate flakiness like some aquarius and geminis can be. I like commitment and for the relationship to go forward in a coherent manner
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