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deepsal
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posted October 25, 2012 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for deepsal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
so I am a withdrawn/shy kinda guy I have moodswings for no apparent reason.and I am very picky about people who I talk with I am very impulsive..I usually dont talk to people and if someone does approaches me i tend to reply back in a word or two
like if someone asks me if the whether's hot as a conversation starter i usually say yeah,turn my back and start doing something else
but when it comes to my childhood friends I tend to be a bossy/know it all jerk kinda guy
i wasnt like this before and i moved in to a new city 3 months back and havent made a friend since...and its killing me from the inside...so I turned to horoscope...on doing some searching i found out that i am a Pisces guy with moon in airies which ate two very contrasting signs
i am 18 years old and i was born on 13.03.1994,new delhi,india

I would love if someone could shed light on what type of person am I and how I can make myself more social

Regards
Deepak

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CAY_512
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posted October 25, 2012 09:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CAY_512     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
94? I feel old lol
Do you know what time?


Sun 23° 01' Pisces
Moon 10° 01' Aries
Mercury 26° 01' Aquarius
Venus 06° 31' Aries
Mars 05° 02' Pisces
Jupiter 14° 22' Scorpio
Saturn 05° 17' Pisces
Uranus 25° 24' Capricorn
Neptune 22° 52' Capricorn
Pluto 28° 01' Scorpio

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CAY_512
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posted October 25, 2012 09:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for CAY_512     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know a Pisces Sun with Venus in Aries who is shy. Just accept who you are and try to find groups to join with similar interests. Meetup.com has lots of groups with many different interests. Don't beat yourself up for being shy.

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deepsal
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posted October 25, 2012 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for deepsal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
it s 10.20pm ist I think

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Libreo
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posted October 25, 2012 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Libreo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My daughter is a Pisces sun/Aries moon and just like you she can be outgoing around those she is close to, and shy with those she isn't. It's just your nature. Accept and love who you are

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Blanky
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posted October 25, 2012 11:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blanky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Deepak, don't worry. The Ruling Planet of Neptune is Pisces. And right now Neptune is actually transiting in Pisces so this is a strong transit for you. Neptune moves very slowly. With your Mars in Pisces at 5 degrees, Transiting Neptune (where Neptune is currently at in the universe) has been at 3 degrees, which is only two degrees away from being EXACT in order to conjunct your Pisces Mars.

Mars rules how we battle and how we get what we desire. How we fight. But when Transiting Neptune conjuncts (very close in degree)your Natal Mars, it is just more difficult to "pull" our energy together. We feel uncomfortable as that is what happens when Neptune conjuncts one of our personal planets such as Mars. Mars and Neptune have such different energies. Mars is all action and Neptune is action going everywhere, it's like you just can't "grab" the energy of Neptune. So of course you are not going to feel like yourself at this time.

And your feisty Aries Moon is also having a tough transit to deal with. Currently Transiting Uranus is he Moon rules

Mars wants to battle and Neptune makes it difficult to understand why we "feel" that uncomfortable. So right now, actually since this summer, Transiting Neptune almost reached 5 degrees, but not quite yet. So this Neptune Energy is making you feel uncomfortable and even rather rude to your friends which isn't really the "real" you. This transit can last for a year or more so really try to open up to at least one person even though you probably would rather hit him in the mouth! But this transit is trying to teach you how to properly use your Pisces Mars Energy and you will eventually understand how to let others know how you feel without so much discomfort. And you won't feel like being unkind to your friends either. This is just a time for you to really open up about what is bothering you and I do understand why you aren't feeling good about how you feel right now. This will get easier for you but you will have to work at this and it will get easier as times goes by.

It is hard to make friends when you are dealing with such a "now you see it, now you don't" kind of Neptune Energy. Neptune rules our "ideals" in life. How we feel about the things we cannot touch like love, forgiveness, and being compassionate. You'll get it. It is just a new energy that you are learning to deal with. Transits are temporary thank goodness.

You have a double-whammy right now too because Transiting Uranus in Aries has been conjunct your Aries Venus and in the next year will also conjunct your Aries Moon! This is why you are feeling "rebellious" almost because our Moon is our emotions and with the Rebel Uranus conjunct your Moon your emotions will be changeable and at times harsh too. Again this is temporary but will affect your emotions into 2013. That may seem like forever but it will pass quickly.

So realize that you have got some tough energy to deal with at present. Try to be kinder to your classmates and friends. I know it isn't easy right now but transits happen for us to learn something. You are young and so it feels so strong and you probably are having trouble trying to control these tough energies. But you will become more comfortable as time passes. You are just undergoing a tough time in life. Moving isn't easy and making new friends is even harder. Try to not be so "short" with others and go for a kinder response when asked a question. Just doing these two things should help you a lot.

I wish you well Deepak. Things will get much better soon. Keep an open mind and think before you speak and you will be a kinder person when these transits are over. Have faith. Everything happens for a reason.

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Blanky
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posted October 25, 2012 11:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blanky     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Deepak, Your mood swings are due to the Uranus transit which is almost conjunct you Aries Moon. This makes for great mood swings that happen so quickly! So just tell yourself that this is temporary and when the bad moods hit try to find something you enjoy doing. This too will pass and all will be better if you work WITH it than AGAINST it. So just stay busy with something you enjoy when a bad mood hits you. And again remember that it is temporary. Blessings to you Deepak.

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deepsal
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posted October 26, 2012 02:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for deepsal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Blanky:
Deepak, don't worry. The Ruling Planet of Neptune is Pisces. And right now Neptune is actually transiting in Pisces so this is a strong transit for you. Neptune moves very slowly. With your Mars in Pisces at 5 degrees, Transiting Neptune (where Neptune is currently at in the universe) has been at 3 degrees, which is only two degrees away from being EXACT in order to conjunct your Pisces Mars.

Mars rules how we battle and how we get what we desire. How we fight. But when Transiting Neptune conjuncts (very close in degree)your Natal Mars, it is just more difficult to "pull" our energy together. We feel uncomfortable as that is what happens when Neptune conjuncts one of our personal planets such as Mars. Mars and Neptune have such different energies. Mars is all action and Neptune is action going everywhere, it's like you just can't "grab" the energy of Neptune. So of course you are not going to feel like yourself at this time.

And your feisty Aries Moon is also having a tough transit to deal with. Currently Transiting Uranus is he Moon rules

Mars wants to battle and Neptune makes it difficult to understand why we "feel" that uncomfortable. So right now, actually since this summer, Transiting Neptune almost reached 5 degrees, but not quite yet. So this Neptune Energy is making you feel uncomfortable and even rather rude to your friends which isn't really the "real" you. This transit can last for a year or more so really try to open up to at least one person even though you probably would rather hit him in the mouth! But this transit is trying to teach you how to properly use your Pisces Mars Energy and you will eventually understand how to let others know how you feel without so much discomfort. And you won't feel like being unkind to your friends either. This is just a time for you to really open up about what is bothering you and I do understand why you aren't feeling good about how you feel right now. This will get easier for you but you will have to work at this and it will get easier as times goes by.

It is hard to make friends when you are dealing with such a "now you see it, now you don't" kind of Neptune Energy. Neptune rules our "ideals" in life. How we feel about the things we cannot touch like love, forgiveness, and being compassionate. You'll get it. It is just a new energy that you are learning to deal with. Transits are temporary thank goodness.

You have a double-whammy right now too because Transiting Uranus in Aries has been conjunct your Aries Venus and in the next year will also conjunct your Aries Moon! This is why you are feeling "rebellious" almost because our Moon is our emotions and with the Rebel Uranus conjunct your Moon your emotions will be changeable and at times harsh too. Again this is temporary but will affect your emotions into 2013. That may seem like forever but it will pass quickly.

So realize that you have got some tough energy to deal with at present. Try to be kinder to your classmates and friends. I know it isn't easy right now but transits happen for us to learn something. You are young and so it feels so strong and you probably are having trouble trying to control these tough energies. But you will become more comfortable as time passes. You are just undergoing a tough time in life. Moving isn't easy and making new friends is even harder. Try to not be so "short" with others and go for a kinder response when asked a question. Just doing these two things should help you a lot.

I wish you well Deepak. Things will get much better soon. Keep an open mind and think before you speak and you will be a kinder person when these transits are over. Have faith. Everything happens for a reason.


I dont know how to thank you for providing such a detailed rxplanation...thanks for the blessings ^_^
i hope i am not being greedy but can you pease tell what my planets say about me i am currently doing cpa and cfa i intend to make my name in the feild of finance is it the right career choice for me

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deepsal
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posted October 26, 2012 02:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for deepsal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by CAY_512:
I know a Pisces Sun with Venus in Aries who is shy. Just accept who you are and try to find groups to join with similar interests. Meetup.com has lots of groups with many different interests. Don't beat yourself up for being shy.

I know but there is always a room for change if I know what my problems are I can try to fix them or simply put a mask on

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lalalinda
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posted October 26, 2012 02:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello deepsal! Welcome to LL

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deepsal
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posted October 27, 2012 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for deepsal     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello deepsal! Welcome to LL


thanks lindaa

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