posted October 27, 2012 12:00 PM            

In my chart, I have Aries, Taurus, Leo, Capricorn/Scorpio/Aquarius(generational), and Virgo. Sagittarius too, although not as a planet.

I have been a loner most of my life. There were times I appealed to people, but it was very short-lived and I have NEVER been popular, that's for certain. I have never been the girl who could post a status as simple as "I drank a pint of milk and now I have to fart" and get 300+ likes. Even if I put on a ton of make-up and put on my best duck-face, arched back, hand on hip pose and take a pic and post it, I'm positive it would get 1 like at best. But maybe I am exaggerating here lol. I know I am coming off as a whiner, but to be honest I have no desire to appeal to the fb crowd, it's just something I noticed about myself.

But on a basic level, I could never relate to anyone, or open up.

The signs I lack in my placements are,
Gemini, Cancer, Pisces, and Libra. (though I have a bunch of Pisces Duads)

People, especially women, with these signs in their Sun or Moon are almost always incredibly popular among their peers, and are NEVER lonely. Of course I realize loneliness is a universal human experience, no one has never not felt this way, some people even prefer it, but I mean they (the signs I lack) will often always attract the support of others, and positive feedback without trying. If they are hurt or sad, people will rush to their aid.

Whereas whenever I was hurt or sad and tried to express it, I was re-buffed, told to get over it, at least I am not retarded/dead/amputated/sick/hungry/on the streets/other bullshat pain comparison argument.

And then on tumblr, I saw a post addressed to the signs Leo, Aquarius, Scorpio, and Capricorn. (I'm dominant in all these signs, tho Aqua not so much but hey birthday is ruled by 4/Uranus)

It said as follows:

Dear Capricorns, Leos, Aquarius, and Scorpios
I just thought I should share this with you,no one will be rushing to your aid. I know this sounds harsh, especially since these signs have the tendency to ensure that all their friends are o.k. and not ask for much help in return. The only reason the other signs don’t rush to your aid is because they know you can handle it yourself, you are some of the strongest people of the zodiac capable of miraculous feats and the other signs sense that strength. So I’m sorry to be the one to tell you this but you will never be the one who gets the sympathy vote, or have scores of people coming to comfort you, but deep down you have to know that you don’t need it. You are strong beyond measure, even when you don’t feel like you are.
-"The Rebel Shaman" http://the-rebel-shaman.tumblr.com/post/25621680280/dear-capricorns-leos-aquarius-and-scorpios

I'll also agree to take this down if it is considered plagiarism but It just clicked to me that maybe that's why I have often lived a rather lonesome existence. Well, besides 8th and 12th house placements and weak 3rd house, 7th house, and 11th house and air in general. Air = communication, socialization, objective thought, relationships. Yup.

So, if you could follow my semi-chaotic post, what is your experience with the signs that you lack? How do you compensate, if you do at all?

posted October 27, 2012 12:19 PM            

As a matter of fact in high school I was popular for being very... unpopular lol. Thing is I got use to being a loner as well, it use to bother me alot when I was younger, but now I actually enjoy solitude. Have only mabe a hand full of people I can talk to and trust. I just do my own thing most of the time, and its funny but I have had people before want to hang out with or befriend me simply because of the fact that I seem to not need any lol. Suppose that I don't care attitude is appealing to some. Never thought I would get married, but I finally did, turns out he is nothing but fire with earth placements(go figure). And he lacks air and water, so it works out since we balance each other out. And even though he has all that fire in his chart, he is also a loner as well.

I also have no planets in 7th, 8th, 10th, or 11th house...which are usually social houses.

posted October 27, 2012 12:36 PM            

My sun is in libra 8th house
Pisces rising
Leo moon
3rd house empty
Chiron in 7th

Im quite the loner....i admit that when i want to i can pull people to me but i usually keep to myself and this have made me at timew very lonely just when i needed someone

I lack earth mostly (just neptune and uranus in cap but those are generational)
I also have no virgo ,taurus ,gemini or aries

posted October 27, 2012 12:48 PM            

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Originally posted by libraschoice77:
I am mostly Libra and Cancer in my chart, I lack any fire(except my Saturn in Leo) and earth placements. Its interesting that you mention the signs that are usually popular and liked. I have those two signs you mentioned, and I am far from being popular.

As a matter of fact in high school I was popular for being very... unpopular lol. Thing is I got use to being a loner as well, it use to bother me alot when I was younger, but now I actually enjoy solitude. Have only mabe a hand full of people I can talk to and trust. I just do my own thing most of the time, and its funny but I have had people before want to hang out with or befriend me simply because of the fact that I seem to not need any lol. Suppose that I don't care attitude is appealing to some. Never thought I would get married, but I finally did, turns out he is nothing but fire with earth placements(go figure). And he lacks air and water, so it works out since we balance each other out. And even though he has all that fire in his chart, he is also a loner as well.

I also have no planets in 7th, 8th, 10th, or 11th house...which are usually social houses.

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posted October 27, 2012 12:56 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:

Im quite impractical and not very social but attract to me either flighty artistic types or people with lots of practical earth sign (especially virgo)[/b]

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posted October 27, 2012 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by doommlord:
I connect with what librschoice wrote very well

My sun is in libra 8th house
Pisces rising
Leo moon
3rd house empty
Chiron in 7th

Im quite the loner....i admit that when i want to i can pull people to me but i usually keep to myself and this have made me at timew very lonely just when i needed someone

I lack earth mostly (just neptune and uranus in cap but those are generational)
I also have no virgo ,taurus ,gemini or aries

Im quite impractical and not very social but attract to me either flighty artistic types or people with lots of practical earth sign (especially virgo)

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posted October 27, 2012 01:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
So, you would consider yourself more on the water dominant?
As a fire/earth dominant person I tend to attract super detached, flighty air types or psychic vampire water types lol.

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I am a water dominant ( pisces asc and saturn and scorpio mars, venus and pluto....mars and pluto are conjunct)

People in my life are usually the hardworking practical types who are very interested in money and property (while i keep my eyes on emotional satisfaction) so there is a connection of oppositions here

posted October 27, 2012 01:23 PM            

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Originally posted by ail221:
I lack a 5th house(virgo) and 7th house(scorpio) and Aries, Sagittarius and Pisces if I don't count my duads. I am naturally a loner I have more people say things like don't you feel XYZ way if something bad happens or something goes wrong or wallow in my misery but I kind of shrug it off I really don't see the point. I wouldn't say I am extremely popular in the classic sense either sure I could point a witty status on facebook and I'll get a good number of likes but that doesn't define me either. I don't know sometimes I just feel like I am drifting through the world.

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Wit is totally Gemini My Gemini 7th needs some! But yes I see what you mean, such trivial things should not define someone...

posted October 27, 2012 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Lazyscarecrow:
Wit is totally Gemini My Gemini 7th needs some! But yes I see what you mean, such trivial things should not define someone...

Hey random ?, you don't have to answer for your privacy but do you have a 7 birthday? (if you're into numerology)

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I think my moon in the 1st is dominating my other placements. I didn't mean for it to be a judgement some people love knowing their being heard or understood or seen I suppose that's the point of facebook and hey some people ever become facebook famous and launch themselves with fb.