posted November 01, 2012 10:19 PM            

I'll tell you mine and you'll tell yours...hopefully, lol

I'm kinda new to these boards and I'd really like to be one of gang. *Most boards I've went to I find people aren't that nice*... But the topic is this.

I been in a relationship for awhile and it's seems like it's falling apart.

Meanwhile a very handsome neighbor of mine has really touched my heart. Nothing is happing, not that kind of girl ...but I have to admit that there is something about him.

I don't know him well but I think we had something. When I looked up our synastry chart; I instantly thought that it was because of our Nodal connections. His NN is exactly conjunct my 23 degrees Libra MC on spica. Also my NN is exactly conjunct his Venus and Mars about 5 degrees away from my IC.

My vertex in conjunct his saturn and moon and his vertex is conjunct my AC/DC axis. On top of that it forms a grand trine between both of our saturn's and his venus and mars. None of the tradition aspects though with my sun in Cappy and his Sun in Gem.

Sometimes I can't even look at him, I get so many butterflies. I know our relationship isn't going to happen... But I'm still interested in what the connections mean.

Anyone has any experience with this? I'd love to hear any NN love stories that you think pertain to the connection. So far all the stories that I ran into during my research have been star crossed lovers, bad timing *like mine* bad circumstances. Hopefully someone has good news because most of the node info I've seen was natal and not synastry.

posted November 02, 2012 06:56 AM            

Pardon me if this sounds nosey, but can you tell us the degrees of your respective suns?

If not, I understand.

I love nodal connections in synastry. His Venus-Mars on your NN sounds hot.

My husband and I have the same nodal axis even though we are 18+ years apart.

posted November 02, 2012 05:01 PM            

I don't mind at all, happy to talk about it frankly.

My natal Sun is 4 degrees Cap and my Neptune is 5 degrees Cap. His Sun is 3 degrees Gem and his Jupiter in 4 degrees Gem. So neither of our sun's have singular energy.

The Venus/Mars conjunct the NN feels very hot for me, lol. But I was researching and I got a mixed jury on that one.

Some people said this was the aspect of unrequited love, some said it wasn't but that it helped the node person walk there nodal path easier and last but not least Jan spiller's book said the venus person is sure to fall in love.

posted November 03, 2012 03:34 PM            

It's interesting that your suns are almost exactly quincunx. There was a thread here a while ago about how quincunx is one of the better aspects in synastry, and a lot of people support that idea.

Also, I would that think his sun near the Taurus cusp makes your interactions with him more "earthy" than if he had a later birthday. Does he seem to look up to you, as a later stage of earth, kind of?

As for the nodes, that's interesting, what Jan Spiller said. I never heard that before. I guess it depends on how much you have evolved, to act out your NN energy. And what planets at your SN are holding you back, and how that manifests.

If you have a photobucket account and can copy the synastry chart and/or composite, it'll give us a better idea of what's going on.

Even if you decide not to, I hope more people will chime in with their thoughts. I love topics that cover synastry and the nodal axis.

posted November 03, 2012 07:56 PM            

I posted the composite and the synastry on photobucket here is the link.
http://s1287.beta.photobucket.com/user/Baaaafish/library/

As for your question about him looking up to me. I'm not sure if those are the right words because he is about 9 years older than me but I'd say that there is a certain respect there and he's always there when I need him. He's a very dependable guy (especially for a Gemini, lol) and I think he sees that in me too.

If there is any way you remember the what the name of the quincrux thread was call, that would be great because I'd love to read it!

It's a very weird feeling with this guy, it's not completely sexual. I just feel mesmerized by him. I defiantly think it's the nodes I'm feeling. Take a look at the charts and let me know if you think this is a nodes romance or something else.

posted November 04, 2012 01:07 AM            

^ without the spaces

I always have a hard time explaining that, I'm mostly computer illiterate.

Anyway, if you are 9 years apart, is his NN near your SN and vice versa? That'd be significant.

I went looking for the quincunx thread, found it, and realized it wasn't as rich in quincunx material as I originally led you to believe! In fact, the thread is full of petty arguments between members...not worth skimming through to find the few observations about the quincunx.

posted November 05, 2012 01:43 AM            

It was a very uranus secret love affair that was bad bad bad bad buttttt we truly loved each other. We shared something different that fit, we just understood each other and we both agreed it felt like being at home with each other. Completely. Very passionate relationship, but, he was a player. He admitted his ways lived with his ex wife and would actually call me at 2 in the morning somtimes just to tell me he really always loved me and wished things were different. I blew him off and called him out in his lies and how disgusting he was so bad the man would have a tear run down his face. a year of trying to push him away I finally gave up since he wasn't giving me a real relationship but he still didn't wanna go away, so I came up with a plan, I lied to him and said I was pregnant but don't worry I'm ganna take care of it. He called me a week later apologizing saying because of the pregnancy he finally realized how dumb he's been acting and him and his ex wife are getting re-married on the date of the original date, which is ironicly my birthday

posted November 05, 2012 07:47 AM            

@ Baaafish,

Thanks for posting the charts! I'm working from the second link since the charts are clearer there.

Is that his correct birth time?

I'd love to know if he has moon conjunct Saturn in Leo, conjunct your Vertex, that would explain a lot of the deep feelings you might have. Then his Vertex conjunct your Lilith and trine your moon, wow.

I can't see the degrees, but it looks like his NN is conjunct your SN and vice versa, and that's also great.

Also, his Venus-Mars in Aries trine your Sag Saturn gives longevity (but have you read about Aries Mars and Venus? They might bother your Cap sun, or he might be sex crazed actually...though Mars-Venus trining Leo Saturn might tamp that energy down a bit.)

His Juno conjunct your Venus I'm no expert but Juno is the marriage asteroid and that looks big to me.

Looking at the composite chart now:

Yahoo, your composite sun is conjunct my moon. I approve of this relationship. Just being silly, but I was getting a warm vibe here for some reason.

And with a composite 3H sun in Pisces, it makes sense that your communication with him would be enhanced, mutually sympathetic, and warm. That might feel better to you since your sun is sextile this composite sun, while his sun more or less squares it (but I don't know the degrees, so take that with a grain of salt.)

Looks like your composite Saturn in Libra might play into the nodal axis thing you have going on in synastry. It might give you that karmic/fated feeling about the relationship, it might also be a bummer.

Composite Juno near your Neptune-Saturn in synastry. Hmm! That's a puzzle, what do you make of that?

Lilith in the 7H is another puzzle to me. Will that make you feel stronger when you are together, more real? Then you have Vesta (devotion asteroid) on the DSC...a good sign, if other factors line up.

Also, the sun-moon opposition along the IC/MC axis is significant, but this isn't something I've researched much (what IC and MC in synastry or composite signify.)

The composite chart doesn't scream "long term relationship" to me, but I am a novice, so bear that in mind. There is usually a cluster of planets with relationships that go on and on; we've been talking about the "love stellium" here (have you seen those threads, by chance?) Love stellium is sun-Mercury-Venus close together in the chart.

Is he a Dragon, and are you an Ox?

That's all for now, wish I could help more, I am always rooting for my fellow Cap women in love.

posted November 05, 2012 02:56 PM            

Since your Venus is trine your Mars, you also have your Mars trine his Juno -- another Juno connection that Magi says is sexual.

I also had my NNode conj partner's Venus in my first real relationship. Very significant, romantically, it seemed to me. It was the first time I understood what all the "fuss" was about. It was like I was seeing in color for the first time, and understanding all the happy love songs for the first time.

Annie at Cafe Astrology says:

"Venus conjunct, sextile, or trine other person's North Node

posted November 05, 2012 05:45 PM            

@ JLyn, I'm sorry that happened to you. Sounds like you guys might have a SN as well as a NN connections simply because you still seem to have a lot to work out. Or possibly created one for the next life time.

@ Faith! Wow where do I start. Yes his birth time is accurate. This guy hits me hard all over my chart. There are a lot of karmic aspects in the synastry. But not so much in the Composite chart.

His Moon and Saturn conjunct my Vertex, I defiantly feel that one. The first time I meet him, I didn't care about him at all and the second time I was a goner! To be honest the saturn in this chart has me hooked and you would never know it. We are both so contained but on the inside, I'm on fire!

As for the sexed crazed, I can see that. He's tooo sweet/proper and I think there is defiantly an underbelly to him, a more daring side. I don't think he's a player though just more of a sexual deviant, lol.

I have read a bit about Aries venus/mars but I'm a Cap sun and our planets are almost trined so I thought it wouldn't be much of a problem. My sister's moon is supposed to square my moon but it's trined and our emotional connection is great! But I do hurt Aries feelings really easy. My roommate is a mars in Aries and sometimes I can hear his heart break when I say something harsh.

As for the Composite I agree with your theory of it not being a long term relationship. I think most relationships with strong NN and saturn connections don't get off the ground and the one that do stick!

As for the MC/IC in the composite chart we both live in the same place and work in the same field so yes it makes a lot of sense. And I would love to work with him.

Lilith in the 7H, I'm reaching at straws but I would think it would be about a lack of commitment or diving into the depths to discover the darker side of our relationship once committed. It's like we are a couple when we are in a room together but we forget about it when the other is not around. Get it?

By the way he's a Dragon and I'm a Tiger!

@ Jovian, You are totally right about it being hot but in a marriage way not in a rip you clothes off way. The Venus conjunct Juno aspect in the chart means that we are attracted to each other in spite of circumstances. Like different backgrounds, life styles etc. But it is very sexual as well. Do you think it's feel more on the planet or the asteroid side?

His NN is directly on my MC/IC axis which is also conjunct his venus/mars conjunct my NN and I agree it feels very romantic. Do you feel you were more in love that you Venus partner?

And lastly for everyone...
My mind tells me he was into me. He was doing a lot of nice little things, but he could just be being his Gemini flirty self *being a good neighbor*. And I know a venus/mars Aries man would be direct with me and he hasn't. But when he found out I was in a relationship he acted a bit shocked. He repeated it a few times. What do you think? He was into me, right? Sorry hate to go all school girl on you, can't help it, this guy is amazing!

posted November 05, 2012 10:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
Hi everybody,
Sorry for the extra long report!

@ JLyn, I'm sorry that happened to you. Sounds like you guys might have a SN as well as a NN connections simply because you still seem to have a lot to work out. Or possibly created one for the next life

Love Baaa

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posted November 06, 2012 09:52 AM            

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
I have read a bit about Aries venus/mars but I'm a Cap sun and our planets are almost trined so I thought it wouldn't be much of a problem.

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Oh! that's better. I couldn't see the degrees/orbs.

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
As for the Composite I agree with your theory of it not being a long term relationship. I think most relationships with strong NN and saturn connections don't get off the ground and the one that do stick!

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Do you mean NN-Saturn in composite? Let's see...you have Saturn square the nodes in composite...do you see that as a "deal breaker"?

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
Lilith in the 7H, I'm reaching at straws but I would think it would be about a lack of commitment or diving into the depths to discover the darker side of our relationship once committed. It's like we are a couple when we are in a room together but we forget about it when the other is not around. Get it?

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Hmm! The first part makes sense to me, but the way I've known Lilith makes me wonder how you could ever forget! Maybe being together brings out a part of you that even you don't see unlesss he's there?

Sorry, I've designated myself your marriage counselor already.

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
By the way he's a Dragon and I'm a Tiger!

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Oh good. Dragon/Tiger is a better couple than Dragon/Ox IMHO.

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
My mind tells me he was into me.

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OMG he was totally into you! Juno conjunct Venus, what more can I say???

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Originally posted by Baaaafish:
Sorry hate to go all school girl on you, can't help it, this guy is amazing!

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Are you kidding? We at Linda-Land live for this stuff!