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Topic: should I text him (scorpio friend) happy birthday? :)
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enchantress Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 02, 2012 09:51 AM
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starmoon Knowflake Posts: 355 From: Registered: Sep 2011
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posted November 02, 2012 11:45 AM
quote: Originally posted by enchantress: ...or just post it on his facebook wall?it's my best friend's birthday on sunday but he has work the whole day and besides, its our study break so he didn't plan anything for his birthday and rather prepare for our upcoming exams.I always greeted him in person before but this time as I said he has work so I won't be able to see him. I just want everyone's opinion, preferably guys, should I text him in the morning of his birthday or just post happy birthday on his facebook? My scorpio guy crush is turning 18 thank you to anyone who would care to help!
do both :-) send a morning text to start his day right and post it later (in case he misses the text, you're covered) IP: Logged |
quinnlycanastro Knowflake Posts: 338 From: Registered: Jul 2012
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posted November 02, 2012 11:47 AM
You could've got him an actual card and given it to him the last time you see him before his birthday...IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow Knowflake Posts: 1080 From: Silent Hill Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 02, 2012 12:02 PM
I think either one would make him quite happy.IP: Logged |
blackestcashmere Knowflake Posts: 34 From: san francisco, ca, USA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 02, 2012 01:23 PM
A scorpio would appreciate a simple birthday wish or card. Its the thought that counts so text him in the morning -- i also am smitten by a a scorp man IP: Logged |
greatquincunx Knowflake Posts: 79 From: Houston Registered: Jan 2012
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posted November 02, 2012 02:09 PM
>_>Am I missing something? Its a text message .. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini Knowflake Posts: 229 From: Los Angeles, Calif Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 03, 2012 03:33 AM
Both text and facebook are juvenile and indirect and it's a big deal?! Damn this just shows how "old" I am (even though I was born in the 80s).What ever happened to being personal and direct? Why not call him up and say Happy Birthday? Why not ask him to do something for his birthday? All the fuss about indirect "affection" is so silly. IP: Logged |
enchantress Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted November 03, 2012 07:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by a_may_gemini: Both text and facebook are juvenile and indirect and it's a big deal?! Damn this just shows how "old" I am (even though I was born in the 80s).What ever happened to being personal and direct? Why not call him up and say Happy Birthday? Why not ask him to do something for his birthday? All the fuss about indirect "affection" is so silly.
As I said before, I always say happy birthday to him in person but this time I can't because he has work. And it will be awkward if I call him because we are not even going out. And besides my parents are not a fan of a girl making the first move or even explicitly showing that I like someone. They think that right now is not the right time to think about boys or even to fall in love. Do you know how much I try to hide what I truly feel inside for the sake of pleasing my parents? Do you know how much I try to force myself to see my best friend as only a "friend" and nothing more? Do you know how much it will cost me revealing my true feelngs to basically anyone? I'm so sorry to sound rude but things are definitely harder for me I just wanted to stand out from the crowd and have him see me as someone and not someone else but I don't want to break our friendship either by scaring him away. IP: Logged |
heartstrings Knowflake Posts: 374 From: the pineapple under the sea Registered: Aug 2011
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posted November 03, 2012 07:21 AM
text him in the moring to start his day, add a thoughtful message in it too and he'll love it! Facebook is too mainstream!! IP: Logged |