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Topic: Gemini males.. your opinions (others are welcome too)
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7thGuardian
Knowflake Posts: 415
From: Transylvania
Registered: May 2012
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posted November 05, 2012 06:52 AM
  
That's not really uncommon around here - this being an astrology forum... ^^ - and I didn't knew much about it either till i got in to it, one your ago - the Sun sing was all i knew - and used to find it bogus based on daily/monthly horoscopes... but - a friend recommended me an astrologist for a natal chart - and... from that point - i changed my mind ... ^^ realizing it's more to it than the Sun sgin (a lot more), i was already in to psychology - but at first was kinda hard to learn - confused about "where i should start"... yet with time and being something i liked - turned-up to be easier than i expected... it can take a lot of time to learn all about astrology (not a complete chapter either)...but if it's something you find appealing - it's worth it, i still have a lot to lean myself... ^^... you can give it a try... Astrology is mostly knowledge related but you could do well even with Tarot Cards ...that's something i'd be weak at and you seemed advantaged from this point of view.  IP: Logged |
Pisces-Sweety
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: unknown
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 03:49 AM
Minor update: A few weeks ago I asked to see him in his office.. he told me that maybe we should meet outside instead(After he's done).. unfortunately, he was late and I left. We never rescheduled. Today, this girl I know who works with us asked to see him in his office .. he told her he's busy working. O_O Am I still blowing this outta proportion? I'm so confused.. IP: Logged |
a_may_gemini
Knowflake Posts: 229
From: Los Angeles, Calif
Registered: Sep 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 04:08 AM
LOL He's a regular Gemini person!I'm a Gemini Sun, Mercury, and Venus and I can tell you, whenever I meet the male version of myself, we talk a heavy storm and if we see each other again, we may not say a word to each other again. It's not that we have anything against each other, we sometimes don't find interest in a person on a consistent level. We're also uber detached and aren't emotional (regardless of Moon sign). I have Pisces Moon, and even I've been accused of being insensitive at least once by everyone that's ever met me- except for other Geminis and heavily air laden people. Point being, Gemini people are social and don't take much stock in others just because we like talking to everyone. Just because a Gemini jokes with you, asks you to hangout with them, or even hugs you or gives you some affection- that doesn't mean that Gemini wants you further than that moment. Hate to break it to you Pisces, you're barking up the wrong tree. You're better off with your opposite of Virgo. IP: Logged |
7thGuardian
Knowflake Posts: 415
From: Transylvania
Registered: May 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 05:56 AM
You may Geminis are so detached - that us June Geminis don't recognize you as our own... ...just kidding ^^ quote:
I'm a Gemini Sun, Mercury, and Venus and I can tell you, whenever I meet the male version of myself, we talk a heavy storm and if we see each other again, we may not say a word to each other again. It's not that we have anything against each other, we sometimes don't find interest in a person on a consistent level.
...yet if it happens on a consistent level - there can be more to it than that - with males (me being one) can be an interest in a connection as a friend - wile with females... well, i'm sociable for most part - but if i stick to one female - might be more than that... yet - not love... with Love - i can't bare to take things slowly and hide it from her - but that's cause i have Moon in Aries - so i'll ask her out as soon as i realize that... and tell her that i like her... if she doesn't feel the same - and makes it clear that there can't be something between us - that's also good to know, so i can move on to something else - and from that point - i became detached of that person... quote:
We're also uber detached and aren't emotional (regardless of Moon sign). I have Pisces Moon, and even I've been accused of being insensitive at least once by everyone that's ever met me- except for other Geminis and heavily air laden people.
...not all Geminis are alike - with Mercury in Gemini - you also think like one... personally i have Mercury in Taurus - the difference between me and you from this point of view - somebody asks you a question (out of the blue) - you might come up with a clear answer on the spot... wile in same situation - i might gave a vague and weak answer - wile 3 days from now, might get back to that person and clear things - wile in all that time i thought a lot about that answer... - we still don't know much about this specific Gemini - he could be more like you, like me... or like others... quote:
Point being, Gemini people are social and don't take much stock in others just because we like talking to everyone. Just because a Gemini jokes with you, asks you to hangout with them, or even hugs you or gives you some affection- that doesn't mean that Gemini wants you further than that moment.
At hearth - yes, all Geminis want to say something - in any given situation... but there are a lot of Geminis out-there who don't stand-up from this point of view... if you never get with them in private... them being Geminis - can be the last thing on your mind... and i am such Gemini... - i remember an interview for a job - where the guy who scheduled me for an interview wasn't there and i was told to wait - yet his secretary was just doing her thing (by her reactions, her giggles - was probably on some social network )... but she kept making brakes moving from here to there as if she wanted to engage me in a conversation - she even tried and it took more than 40 minutes till that guy got back - time in which, she asked me if i want a drink of something and just replied "No, thank you"... or if i'm from around, from the local city - and just replied "Yes"... she took me for a very serious person (i did displayed a serious look in all that time), one which doesn't say much... one who's not sociable at all... she even said that to one of her colleagues - and said it so i can hear wile smirking... - she was that kind of secretary that liked to talk... but she didn't got any signal that i'd be willing to do that... which i wasn't - i don't talk to everybody... just like that - like many Geminis would. ==== Regarding the Gemini in this topic - so far i must agree... seems normal Gemini behavior... and Pisces dear, Geminis can be confusing - some of the things said about us, like - displaying multiple personalities... well, it's true in many cases - expect those with strong earth signs placements... but if we're interested in someone - we tend to take a move... "beating around the bush" - is not a Gemini thing... depends how much of him is Gemini... and it also depends on some aspects... yet - if he got in to you, if he's wiling to talk to you "on a private level" - he'd start making moves in this direction... ...side note - if you make him aware that you're interested... well, some Geminis - might respond with interest if he finds you attractive - but that from a sexual point of view... "having some fun"... but again, not all Geminis are the same... some are to earth bound to play around like that. IP: Logged |
ComplexGem
Newflake Posts: 15
From: Concord, CA 94531
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 05:41 PM
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Originally posted by Pisces-Sweety:
Okay so there's this amazing gemini at work. We talk very often.. if I don't talk, he will.. even if it's just for 2 min. I'm just a little confused, see.. we usually talk about work but after a while, he changes the subject. Sometimes our conversations are brief. He smiles a lot and he has a gorgeous smile. When he smiles, I can't help but smile and blush.. and when I blush and then he does too. O_O He's really nice but the problem is.. I don't know if he's just being friendly or if he really likes me. Ps. I'm a pisces with a Virgo Moon
Hello Pisces-Sweety! Being a female Gem myself, I can recognize some of the behaviour you described. If you really like that Gemini specimen (hehehe) my suggestion would be to get some courage and make a move. I'd start by engagin in the conversation he initiates, or initiating conversation other than work related with him. Don't fear, the Gemini would probably enjoy the conversation, and would not judge how bizzare the topic, as he will find it entertaining and fun, or at least distracting. After that, ask him to informally "grab some lunch with you the next day" to continue the crazy conversation. Gemini may not be dazzled or inlove with you just yet, but I can safely assure you that he will not say no, to an opportunity to get to know you at a more personal level and try to figure you out (one of our secret hobbies lol). Be yourself and I'm sure you two will at least enjoy a few fun lunches, dates until you either realize he's too abrupt or he'll fall madly inlike with you!
Step out of your comfort zone and enjoy the wild ride!! Hehe IP: Logged |
mockingbird
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posted November 06, 2012 09:07 PM
My husband's more like 7th than May_Gem.He's a Gem with a Saggi Moon, Taurus Asc and Merc, and Aries Mars/Venus conj (and a ton of Saturn contacts), and, while he can be incredibly sociable and chatty, he very much has an "off/on" personality - sometimes he needs a bit of distance from most of the world. He also responded more to directness than would some other Geminis. All of his Fire and Earth likes to know where a person stands in matters of the heart.
I asked him out (twice) and asked him for our first kiss.
That seemed to get his gears going.
And, yeah, I'm a Pisces Sun and Merc (with an Aqua Moon, Scorpio Asc, Taurean Venus, and Leonine Mars). And he is, in some respects, more sensitive than me - but my Moon can really throw things for a loop and he has some heavily modifying aspects to his heart.
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ksushil970
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted November 07, 2012 04:04 AM
Just try to control on your thinking about him, and try to know the truth. He is smiling by looking at you, it doesn't mean that he likes you. It can be just attraction, so try to concentrate on your work.______________________
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astrofan123
Knowflake Posts: 135
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted November 08, 2012 01:13 AM
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Originally posted by a_may_gemini:
LOL He's a regular Gemini person!I'm a Gemini Sun, Mercury, and Venus and I can tell you, whenever I meet the male version of myself, we talk a heavy storm and if we see each other again, we may not say a word to each other again. It's not that we have anything against each other, we sometimes don't find interest in a person on a consistent level. We're also uber detached and aren't emotional (regardless of Moon sign). I have Pisces Moon, and even I've been accused of being insensitive at least once by everyone that's ever met me- except for other Geminis and heavily air laden people. Point being, Gemini people are social and don't take much stock in others just because we like talking to everyone. Just because a Gemini jokes with you, asks you to hangout with them, or even hugs you or gives you some affection- that doesn't mean that Gemini wants you further than that moment. Hate to break it to you Pisces, you're barking up the wrong tree. You're better off with your opposite of Virgo.
this fits Gemini males that I know. and some of them were born in June. this is just coming from my own experience, it may or may not be true in your situation.
my suggestion is to keep it friendly and formal for a while. if he really is interested, he will make a move, bold step.
don't take anything he says or does seriously before he makes the move. I have Gemini moon and I have been warned about going overboard with flirting where as I don't mean to and I don't feel as flirting. maybe this is my moon or lilith in H5 possibly true both IP: Logged | |
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