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Topic: Intense/Explosive Synastry aspects!
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FieryAries9108 Knowflake Posts: 28 From: USA Registered: May 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 12:25 AM
I recently looked up my synastry with someone I have felt uneasy around and it makes so much sense now, It's so tense between us it's a bit scary, I actually wanna hide from this person sometimes... (due to the tension between us) How should I deal with these aspects?Here are some of the aspects between us. Sun Opposition Venus 1.84 Sun Square Mars 6.02 Sun Trine Uranus 0.88 Moon Quincunx Sun 4.11 Moon Quincunx Mercury 3.85 Moon Trine Saturn 2.50 Moon Square Neptune 2.18 Moon Quincunx Pluto 4.15 Mercury Quincunx Sun 5.63 Mercury Quincunx Mercury 2.33 Mercury Trine Saturn 4.02 Mercury Square Neptune 3.70 Mercury Quincunx Pluto 5.67 Venus Trine Sun 4.22 Venus Trine Mars 3.95 Venus Quincunx Saturn 5.84 Venus Opposition Pluto 4.18 Venus Opposition Ascendant 0.61 Mars Square Moon 6.50 Mars Quincunx Mercury 1.30 Mars Quincunx Venus 4.70 Mars Square Chiron 4.99 Mars Quincunx P. of Fortune 1.67 Saturn Opposition Sun 3.15 Saturn Sextile Mars 5.02 Saturn Square Saturn 4.77 Saturn Sextile Neptune 5.08 Saturn Trine Pluto 3.11 Saturn Trine Ascendant 1.68 Uranus Quincunx Moon 6.86 Uranus Quincunx Mercury 0.94 Uranus Square Venus 5.07 Uranus Quincunx Chiron 5.36 Neptune Quincunx Moon 3.99 Neptune Quincunx Mercury 3.81 Neptune Square Venus 2.20 Neptune Sextile Jupiter 3.70 Neptune Quincunx Chiron 2.49 Neptune Quincunx Lilith 2.99 Neptune Square Node 1.22 Neptune Quincunx P. of Fortune 0.84 Neptune Quincunx Vertex 0.68 Neptune Quincunx Midheaven 5.98 Pluto Square Sun 7.39 Pluto Square Mercury 0.57 Pluto Conjunction Saturn 5.78 Vertex Square Sun 1.52 Ascendant Square Venus 5.70 Chiron Square Saturn 0.13 Chiron Sextile Pluto 1.78
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FieryAries9108 Knowflake Posts: 28 From: USA Registered: May 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 12:41 AM
Any advice would be very appreciated!IP: Logged |
birdy Knowflake Posts: 522 From: Sunny Registered: Dec 2011
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posted November 06, 2012 12:43 AM
So intense you want to hide? Does that sound like a relationship that will handle the long haul? Relationships that feel like that don't work out too much. Saturn Opp Sun? This one is extremely difficult to work out unless you're a Capricorn influenced but even then it's pretty unbearable. IP: Logged |
StacyLewis Knowflake Posts: 46 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 03:40 AM
quote: Originally posted by birdy: [B]So intense you want to hide? Does that sound like a relationship that will handle the long haul? Relationships that feel like that don't work out too much.
Actually it depends on the person. Heavily Plutonian people like that kind of intensity. IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 04:11 AM
Pluto square mercury is BAD.....and since its the closest aspect, its better to hide.... lolSun Square Mars Mars Square Moon Mars Square Chiron Saturn Opposition Sun Uranus Square Venus Neptune Square Venus Pluto Square Sun These aspects are not helping either....maybe a sudden attraction,if, was due to venus square uranus and venus square neptune....but overall there are not many positive aspects or aspects at all...since most of the quincunxes are also too wide and wont count. Haha...finally its for you to decide...looks pretty explosive to me IP: Logged |
FieryAries9108 Knowflake Posts: 28 From: USA Registered: May 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 10:26 AM
quote: Originally posted by birdy: So intense you want to hide? Does that sound like a relationship that will handle the long haul? Relationships that feel like that don't work out too much. Saturn Opp Sun? This one is extremely difficult to work out unless you're a Capricorn influenced but even then it's pretty unbearable.
I have no choice, I kinda have to get to know this person better, what would be your advice in overcoming these difficult aspects?
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FieryAries9108 Knowflake Posts: 28 From: USA Registered: May 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 10:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by sillyme: Pluto square mercury is BAD.....and since its the closest aspect, its better to hide.... lolSun Square Mars Mars Square Moon Mars Square Chiron Saturn Opposition Sun Uranus Square Venus Neptune Square Venus Pluto Square Sun These aspects are not helping either....maybe a sudden attraction,if, was due to venus square uranus and venus square neptune....but overall there are not many positive aspects or aspects at all...since most of the quincunxes are also too wide and wont count. Haha...finally its for you to decide...looks pretty explosive to me
How do you figure out what aspects "count" ? what degree do they have to be in? Also would you have any advice on how to deal with these hard aspects? I somewhat have to find a way to get a long with this person? Also would you say any of these aspects create sexual tension? IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 984 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 10:35 AM
Pluto square Sun is an intense synastry aspect to have that can make Pluto really have the upper hand over the Sun, want to control them or monitor them, and depending on other aspects, really influence their identity and decision making. It all depends also where Pluto and the Sun are respectively posited in the house overlays/natal chart, and what signs. A Scorpio Pluto in the 12th could yield hidden power struggles and undercurrents of manipulation only felt by the Sun. The Sun in Leo could potentially give someone who appreciates all the focus from Pluto without realizing how much they are actually being put under Pluto's thumb in the end. So anyway. This aspect is one to look out for. It's quite tricky to have in synastry because it can either give open or subtle power struggles. Combine this with Mercury square Pluto, this could also show intense arguments and obsessive thinking between you two- one person is unable to let anything go, maybe both. IP: Logged |
FieryAries9108 Knowflake Posts: 28 From: USA Registered: May 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 04:37 PM
quote: Originally posted by sweet-scorpion: Pluto square Sun is an intense synastry aspect to have that can make Pluto really have the upper hand over the Sun, want to control them or monitor them, and depending on other aspects, really influence their identity and decision making. It all depends also where Pluto and the Sun are respectively posited in the house overlays/natal chart, and what signs. A Scorpio Pluto in the 12th could yield hidden power struggles and undercurrents of manipulation only felt by the Sun. The Sun in Leo could potentially give someone who appreciates all the focus from Pluto without realizing how much they are actually being put under Pluto's thumb in the end. So anyway. This aspect is one to look out for. It's quite tricky to have in synastry because it can either give open or subtle power struggles. Combine this with Mercury square Pluto, this could also show intense arguments and obsessive thinking between you two- one person is unable to let anything go, maybe both.
Thank you for the info, but who would be the more obsessive one? IP: Logged |
sillyme Knowflake Posts: 52 From: Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 07, 2012 03:57 AM
quote: Originally posted by FieryAries9108: How do you figure out what aspects "count" ? what degree do they have to be in?Also would you have any advice on how to deal with these hard aspects? I somewhat have to find a way to get a long with this person? Also would you say any of these aspects create sexual tension?
All aspects count....but it is the closest aspects that directly hit you ( within 3 deg)...also it is the harsh aspects that are felt more strongly than the soft ones...so if any harsh aspect is too close..it will be felt deeply...and sometimes because of that we cannot feel the pleasantness of other aspects... Why dont you check the composite chart, that way you can truly check whether you two can get along well or not.. And i guess here mars square sun and mars square moon can point to sexual tension or attraction..also uranus square venus..for sudden attraction
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FieryAries9108 Knowflake Posts: 28 From: USA Registered: May 2012
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posted November 07, 2012 12:36 PM
quote: Originally posted by sillyme: All aspects count....but it is the closest aspects that directly hit you ( within 3 deg)...also it is the harsh aspects that are felt more strongly than the soft ones...so if any harsh aspect is too close..it will be felt deeply...and sometimes because of that we cannot feel the pleasantness of other aspects... Why dont you check the composite chart, that way you can truly check whether you two can get along well or not.. And i guess here mars square sun and mars square moon can point to sexual tension or attraction..also uranus square venus..for sudden attraction
Alright thank you and are aspects of a composite chart more accurate then synastry aspects?
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