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Topic: Leo Man -Libra rising, Venus in Virgo - How To Know Where He Stands?
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ComplexGem
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Concord, CA 94531
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 06, 2012 04:45 PM
  
Hello everyone,
I'm lookig for some insight, please. Met this nice Leo (Libra rising, Venus in Virgo, Mars in Scorpio). By the third date our chemestry had grown to be amazing! Now seeing eachother for six months. But he has gradually become very complacent with me reaching out to him. He will not do so, unless I haven't contacted him in a couple of days and only texts, doesn't call. Before our firs intimate encounter (and I say this because I make love but not sure if he makes love to me or sees it as only "sex" - which is amazing BTW!!), we agreed to be exclusive and I have kept to my word and plan to do so, for as long as I am with him. But not knowing where he stands on our "friendship/relationship?" kills me. I told him how I felt about this before and he said that he is not playing games with me, but he needs more time to be certain (didn't say certain of what!!) I recently realized that I love this man and if I knew it would eventually become something more official, I wouldn't mind waiting as long as he needs. But I feel like it would be a waste of time for me to continue "this" much longer without him showing more interest and commitment to "us". I have attended only a couple of social events with him/his friends, and he's attended a couple of mine. But we continue to introduce eachother as "friends". He has not introduced family. He has met my children. We go to public places together, so I don't necessarily feel like he's trying to hide me. But... Am I missing the obvious? Am I better off moving on? Should I continue to wait for this gentle Leo?Thank you for reading and for your insight! ------------------
Sun 15 D Gemini
Rising 20 D Scorpio
Moon Gemini
Venus Leo
Mars Libra IP: Logged |
ZezeLoves
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Palm Harbor Florida USA
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 07, 2012 01:23 PM
My only experience with a Leo was the attraction was amazing, the sex unreal but the connection was not there... He wasnt ready to give what I needed. He is now married so it just wasnt meant to be for he and I. IP: Logged |
Sassurfrass
Newflake Posts: 3
From: dallas,tx,usa
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 07, 2012 02:42 PM
my boyfriend is a leo sun and moon with libra rising, venus in virgo, and mars in capricorn! lol, good thing you live in cali or id think he was cheating! you need to go to astro.com and run a synastry chart. pay close attention to how your personal planets and ascendants interact. if you sign up for a free account and run their free astro click partners report it will give an interpretation for you. now im also a gemini, and when it comes to my bf he's not always your typical leo (but remember we r so much more than our sun signs)he doesnt take criticism well, and he wants you to praise him. you've gotta look good. he wants to be able to show you off. they can be very finicky when it comes to committing. you have to understand that everything is about them! now this is just my opinion, but from looking at your situation id find someone else just because since you are a single mom you will need more support than a leo can give. sorry  IP: Logged |
ComplexGem
Newflake Posts: 9
From: Concord, CA 94531
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 07, 2012 10:16 PM
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Originally posted by Sassurfrass:
my boyfriend is a leo sun and moon with libra rising, venus in virgo, and mars in capricorn! lol, good thing you live in cali or id think he was cheating! you need to go to astro.com and run a synastry chart. pay close attention to how your personal planets and ascendants interact. if you sign up for a free account and run their free astro click partners report it will give an interpretation for you. now im also a gemini, and when it comes to my bf he's not always your typical leo (but remember we r so much more than our sun signs)he doesnt take criticism well, and he wants you to praise him. you've gotta look good. he wants to be able to show you off. they can be very finicky when it comes to committing. you have to understand that everything is about them! now this is just my opinion, but from looking at your situation id find someone else just because since you are a single mom you will need more support than a leo can give. sorry
Thank you Sassurfrass! I will do that. My Leo guy sounds very much like yours. He is, however, very shy. He will be in the conversation but hardly ever in the spotlight. In social events he will almost look uncomfortable and hangs with me most of the time. I am more of a social butterfly... he may be "using" my social skills to get that spotlight that I can tell he enjoys so much. But when we are alone, he is not shy with me at all. We also have great conversation and he gives me very good advice (only when solicited BTW). He's not judgemental as Leo's are often described but he is rather self conscious (although very handsome and polite). IDK - I'll have to report back... Just when I'm giving up on him I gain interest again UGH!! I'm such a Gemini!! hehe! TTYL - Thanks again for the resources!
Cheers! ------------------
Sun 15 D Gemini
Rising 20 D Scorpio
Moon Gemini
Venus Leo
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