posted November 06, 2012 10:50 PM            

But the are u or both of the people seeing something
That isn't there.. Hence the rose colored glasses..

posted November 07, 2012 04:44 AM            

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Originally posted by suireen:
I still don't understand Squares.
I'm sure that they're problems but like in a good way or bad way? Or does it depends?
Like.. You know how some arguments make a positive "spark" but sometimes a negative "spark"
I'M CONFUSED!! ;0;

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They are called hard aspects, challenging aspects that imply blockages between the forces/planets involved... where you have square - you're challenged to take action, it's like an urge - but in same time you deal with the feeling that "this is to hard, i can't do this, why the fk' do even i do this..." - yet, if you keep trying eventually you'll get there and it will feel like a real accomplishment - since that road can be very hard and painful... as one would put it - true happiness.

I recommend this Movie: The Pursuit Of Happyness - it's a very good example of what Square is all about.

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In terms of natal chart...with Trines - you're naturally talented/gifted in that area - so you won't have a hard time doing those things, you'll get great results which can impress those around "except you" - it's something you can acknowledge "mainly" from the reactions of others - wile for you it's something you consider "fine..." but you don't feel a deep satisfaction, since you didn't work very hard to achieve those results - at worst was tiring (demanding a lot of time) but not very difficult.

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posted November 07, 2012 07:27 AM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
They are called hard aspects, challenging aspects that imply blockages between the forces/planets involved... where you have square - you're challenged to take action, it's like an urge - but in same time you deal with the feeling that "this is to hard, i can't do this, why the fk' do even i do this..." - yet, if you keep trying eventually you'll get there and it will feel like a real accomplishment - since that road can be very hard and painful... as one would put it - true happiness.

I recommend this Movie: [b]The Pursuit Of Happyness - it's a very good example of what Square is all about.

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In terms of natal chart...with Trines - you're naturally talented/gifted in that area - so you won't have a hard time doing those things, you'll get great results which can impress those around "except you" - it's something you can acknowledge "mainly" from the reactions of others - wile for you it's something you consider "fine..." but you don't feel a deep satisfaction, since you didn't work very hard to achieve those results - at worst was tiring (demanding a lot of time) but not very difficult.

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In terms of synastry between two charts - well, here it's more complicated... same principles applies - but sometimes things don't end well and those who use a synastry - have to understand that "EVEN HERE - IT'S MAINLY ABOUT THE INDIVIDUAL"... some square can help strengthening the bound wile others - can brake it... as a woman you're not challenged to live with a violent man - cause obviously, nothing good can come out of this - yet after being in that position and manage to get out - which is your success, you've a learned a lesson from this - and might really appreciate future relationships which men that are not like that - which you'd try to avoid at all costs... wile with trines - again, things work well - but there is a possibility for boredom to settle in if there's enough challenge in terms of evolution for that relationship.[/B]

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posted November 07, 2012 07:39 AM            

Sun square Mars synastry may cause "storms"/fighting.

Sun square Saturn is hard, but super-binding.

Moon square Mars, according to her, is likewise difficult but weirdly binding. Moon can neither feel happy for long with Mars, nor pull itself away.

Moon square Jupiter causes friction over religious issues (my husband and I have this, big time.)

Moon square Neptune may cause suspicion and jealousy based on false impressions.

posted November 07, 2012 08:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquacheeka:
Very good question. I wonder about this myself since my boyfriend and I have one square and it's the moon signs. I didn't realize squares from outer planets are harder to deal with, very interesting.

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The Moon alone in square is one of those aspects that can strengthen the relationship - you two have a hard time relating with each other on a emotional level in terms of nurturing one another - or dealing with each-other's mood swings... yet, being aware of this information can work in your/his advantage - you have to acknowledge that both of you are different from this point of view - and try to understand "those differences" - learn to adapt to each-other's mood swings and needs in terms of nurturing (as long as it doesn't imply violence) - it can be hard and time demanding, but if this the main problem and the rest is good - it's worth it... being something important in a long term relationship (to be able to nurture each-other in times of need) - which will strengthen the bond - you'll get to experience love at a different, more advance level. ^^

posted November 07, 2012 05:28 PM            

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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
The Moon alone in square is one of those aspects that can strengthen the relationship - you two have a hard time relating with each other on a emotional level in terms of nurturing one another - or dealing with each-other's mood swings... yet, being aware of this information can work in your/his advantage - you have to acknowledge that both of you are different from this point of view - and try to understand "those differences" - learn to adapt to each-other's mood swings and needs in terms of nurturing (as long as it doesn't imply violence) - it can be hard and time demanding, but if this the main problem and the rest is good - it's worth it... being something important in a long term relationship (to be able to nurture each-other in times of need) - which will strengthen the bond - you'll get to experience love at a different, more advance level. ^^

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