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Topic: aspects showing relationships will improve
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Astro keen Newflake Posts: 4 From: Oxford, UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 14, 2012 07:04 PM
Are there any specific configurations in synastry or composite charts to indicate that the relationship will improve as it progresses. Or in other words, getting to know each other better is likely to strengthen the relationship; love will not fade.Does anyone have any personal stories to tell about their charts? Would love some advice. I'm in a new relationship and am secretly terrified it may not last - a very self-defeating fear. IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 2579 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted November 14, 2012 07:48 PM
Hmm, you need time for improvement. Typically we look at Saturn contacts to try and guess the longevity. My husband's Saturn is right on my Venus, for example. I liked him first and it took a while for him to respond. Our marriage has gotten better over time.Transits can also make or break a relationship; Pluto was transiting conjunct that my Venus/hubby's Saturn when we got married. I think some of us have had experiences with certain synastry aspects that make us think, "I'll never try THAT again!" For me, it would be moon conjunct Mars (if I were single.) That gets WORSE over time, I think. Starts off great and crashes. Looking forward to hearing others' replies. Good luck! IP: Logged |
CosmicKarma360 Knowflake Posts: 666 From: here and there Registered: Sep 2010
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posted November 14, 2012 08:25 PM
I'll 2nd the Moon/Mars conjunct. I once knew a couple with that in their synastry. It was all passion, passion, passion all the time. They got married, then split within two years. It was ugly.IP: Logged |
Belage Knowflake Posts: 1107 From: USA Registered: Apr 2009
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posted November 14, 2012 09:16 PM
Improvement means that people work on themselves and on the relationship, so I would look for positive Saturn and/or Pluto placements. IP: Logged |
Evolved1 Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Chicago, IL USA Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 14, 2012 09:19 PM
How bout Saturn Conjunct Sun for longevity?IP: Logged |
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1287 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009
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posted November 14, 2012 09:40 PM
Moon/mars becomes irritation as time goes on...passionate & hot in the beginning then when it ends you are left with "wth was I thinking???" IP: Logged |
Astro keen Newflake Posts: 4 From: Oxford, UK Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 04:40 AM
Thanks!!I don't have a moon/mars aspect. Phew! And I have a mixed bag of Saturn aspects and many good Pluto aspects in synastry: Saturn sextile venus Mars sextile Saturn Saturn Square Sun Saturn Square Moon Saturn Conjunction Ascend These are offset with good Jupiter placements which I believe keep the relationship light as Saturn can get too serious or heavy. Is it true that the composite chart would be the one to refer to see how the relationship pans out? Any other thoughts on this? IP: Logged |