nubianviolet
Newflake Posts: 2
From: washington,dc,usa
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted November 15, 2012 07:29 PM
  
Well I'm a Gemini woman (my chart says my sun sign is Gemini, my AC (ascendant)is in Taurus, and my moon is in Aquarius). About 4 and 1/2 months ago. I was formally introduced to a Virgo (Sep. 14th bday) at a Memorial Day picnic. I had seen him before at church but didn't really pay any mind to him while all the other ladies were salivating over him. I suppose they we reacting like that because he is handsome (easy on the eyes) like 6’4’’-6’5’’ broad physique and he is in the army. Anyways I got to know him better at the picnic when he became my partner in spades card game. What intrigued me was that we were able to understand each other very well as far as our strategy for spades went and he had me laughing so hard... great sense of humor... so of course being my nature, now I wanted figure out more about him. I then began to search his hand for a ring and lo and behold, a ring on his ring finger. I sighed and murmured of course all the good ones are taken. So I left it at that. I see him at church the next day, he makes a b-line and comes directly to me and talk... we had a good convo that's that... weeks pass by see him at church again and he comes over and talks to me. I recognize he doesn't have his ring on. While he is talking to me, one of the elderly woman in the church comes over to talk to him (she kind of is like my grandparent away from home). She then asks him how his wife is doing. He then says I'm currently going through a divorce right now (I'm like Yay but Nay to much baggage already right) and then she proceeds to ask if he has any children. Another bomb drops he says he has son (think he said like 2 or 3yrs old.) So I'm thinking now totally way too much to deal with. After all that we had long talk about our aspirations for furthering our education, careers, and what not. Well an occasion arises where I had to cook for his brother and sister-in-law which was long overdue but now it included him. Because of his situation he stays with them now. I cooked an amazing 4 course meal which he devoured (and complimented me heavily on my chef expertise) and we got to talk some more about a plethora of things. After that I don't see him for weeks. I really didn't mind it, because it gives me a chance to get over my crush on him which I thought I did. Until I see him 2 Sundays ago at church. This time he comes to me and says I missed you so much (I look at him with a look of question on my face) and I said you did? And he said yes I really did. With arms out stretched he asks are your not even going to give me a hug which I did. I then began to badgering him and said if you weren't always m.i.a. maybe you wouldn't miss me as much huh lol...(which I then figured out that he was m.i.a so much because he goes to see his son.. which I thought in as much was the case)so we had some more convo and banter. Then I told him to keep in touch and we parted but of course I couldn't leave at that. I motioned towards him that we should exchange numbers and he told me He was going to send it to me via Facebook message but it is better to do it in person. So we exchanged and I never tried to make contact with him the whole week. So I see him again this past Sunday and he comes to me right after service and strikes up convo as I am trying to converse with him another lady butts into our conversation ( which I then thought about it and I recollect my memory. I realize that she always does that every time I try to have a conversation with him) so we all get to talking. So in the convo, I brought up a point about him being m.i.a. all the time that is why he misses everything... and from there on... he kept on nit picking on everything I said (In a playful banter type of way I guess I deserved it. I started it) then he would start staring in my eyes and not breaking eye contact felt like he was trying to see something in my eyes but it was weird(even though there was another person in the convo). So I had to step out to do some things and left him with the other lady. When I had come back he was still talking to her and he came over to talk to me and the lady followed. We had little bit more playful banter and then he had asked if I still stayed at my last apt and I was like no I moved. (in front of the other lady which I think she likes him as well)he was like so when I come back in town, I was wondering if you would like to hang out sometime and I was like sure that sounds cool. From there we talked a few minutes more and we departed.Ok sorry for this long story but I had to give a background and how we interacted with each other from my viewpoint. I am trying to understand what the deal with this Virgo man is. Does he seem to like me as just a friend... or is he possibly interested in me or trying to get to know me. Then I come back to my senses and remember yeah he is going through a divorce has a child... that is a lot of baggage... He couldn't possibly want to try to take on anything else. I don't know what to expect from hanging out but I know that it can give me the answers to all my unanswered questions. Another thing there is a lot of females all over him and to be honest I am not for it. I would rather let another girl have him than to try vying for his attention. One I am old enough to know that is childish and unnecessary conflict, I do not plan on having. There is plenty other fish in the sea. (Just for extra info I am 25 and he is possibly 27 or 28… I think) so I am leaving it for you guys, to give me your unclouded and unbiased advice and thoughts.
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Lindaland
posted November 16, 2012 10:47 AM