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Topic: What transits cause disagreements with friends?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2733 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 18, 2012 03:37 PM
Or not hearing from friends for a long time?I have Neptune going through my 9th house right now, which I know the 9th isn't a "friends" house, but it's ruled by Aquarius, which naturally rules the 11th house, and the 11th house (the one of "friends," etc) is where my personal planets are. It's probably not that complicated but I'm throwing it out there anyway. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1059 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 18, 2012 04:20 PM
What aspects is Neptune making at this time? Also, what's your 11th house ruler doing? What planets are transiting your 11th house? I find this to stir up issues: A. Saturn transiting the 11th can make you feel like your friends are too busy and ignoring you, or maybe the vice versa. It can lead to loss of friends or maybe feeling like friendships have become a burden to you. B. Pluto doing something with the 11th/11th ruler can lead to unexpected change and upheaval in terms of friends and social groups. C. Harsh aspects to 11th house planets/11th ruler from Mars could cause disagreements and butting heads with friends. People born with 11th house Mars have a tendency to argue with friends sometimes, I've seen. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2733 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 18, 2012 04:42 PM
Oh... I think t.Neptune might actually be conjunct my MC right now, actually. I was looking at the symbol Neptune the first time, not the degree. My 11th house ruler is Aries, and Mars is transiting my 7th house and about 4 degrees away from Pluto, which has been in my 7th house for awhile now. The disagreements haven't been big blowouts (thankfully) but more the "cold war" type. IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1059 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted November 18, 2012 04:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Oh... I think t.Neptune might actually be conjunct my MC right now, actually. I was looking at the symbol Neptune the first time, not the degree. My 11th house ruler is Aries, and Mars is transiting my 7th house and about 4 degrees away from Pluto, which has been in my 7th house for awhile now. The disagreements haven't been big blowouts (thankfully) but more the "cold war" type.
That's Ok. Pluto conjunct your transiting Mars, which rules your 11th house, will most surely cause the 'cold war' stubbornness and avoidance of friends you are talking about. Pluto is a volcano awaiting to erupt and it usually won't give for anything. It also causes subtle undercurrents of change that aren't clear at first but then blow up in your face. It can cause distance and isolation/loner attitudes to some degree as well. It all adds up since it's touching your 11th house ruler in a radical way, with the conjunction. Not only that, but Mars is transiting the 7th of relationships as well. So it's probably feeling like you are going through some isolation in terms of relationships now, and Pluto is slowly but surely changing the way you are seeing/feeling about friendships and relationships.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2733 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 18, 2012 05:02 PM
Definitely! I also appreciate your input because if I explain it to someone else (you), I can see the cause and effect clearer.And yes, my view on friendships are definitely changing but more so because I'm growing more confident in who I am, and my personality. Lately I've been making more friends with Sagittarius and Gemini (my DSC, and ASC) people and I decided I love them! They take understanding but once you do you realize they are very sincere people with ADD. I also trust them to be honest when something is wrong vs. either totally blaming me, or bottling it up. That being said...what about Venus transiting my 5th, and Mars in my 7th. Is that good for dating? IP: Logged | |