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asclibrasagsun
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posted November 21, 2012 10:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Under what transits does love usually come to you?

Sun Conjunct Venus?

How often does that transit happen in a lifetime? How can you calculate this?

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posted November 21, 2012 02:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Dreaming111
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posted November 21, 2012 02:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The title for some reason had me singing...
*love to love ya baby.* haha

I dont even know if that was during my time or not.

I know that in synastry. It means infatuation and true love from one side.

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posted November 21, 2012 02:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 21, 2012 02:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 21, 2012 03:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by violet7887:
lol i was singing that sonng too.

i dunno about one side..me and my bf have an exact conjunction of Sun-Venus and i'd like to say we both love each other..very much.


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posted November 21, 2012 03:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:

I know that in synastry. It means infatuation and true love from one side.

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posted November 21, 2012 04:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for depth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
An astrologer predicted that I can oogle at men only for 2 more years, after which I'll be married. I don't have a guy and am not likely to find one anytime soon. So I don't really know from where this husband will pop up. Hopefully, I marry for love and am loved back.

Transits for 2015(I'm counting only the slow moving planets) :
Tjupiter in 7th. (7H is in Leo and Sun in Sag)

Grand trine :
Natal Sun in 11H trine Tjupiter in 7H trine Turanus in 3H.

Tsaturn conjunct Natal Mercury(5H and 8H ruler)/Venus/Nnode in 10H. I don't know how important is the fact that natal Saturn sits in the 1st.

Tpluto conjunct Natal Uranus(chart ruler)/Neptune and square Juno. Pluto rules my 10th so I guess a sudden change in status.

Turanus opp Natal Juno(I've the square natally)

Tneptune square Natal Venus.

And no, Tvenus conjunct Natal Sun doesn't really bring love because it happens every year. But it often does when it shows up in Solar Returns and Progressions. Astro.com generates these charts.

I checked the transits for my longest relationship(and stable! phew) and there's nothing striking going on with the outer planets. Just a few easy aspects that don't usually create much noise. Anyways, transits for the day it became official -

TVenus, TMars, TMercury opp Natal Jupiter
(dispositor of my romantic planets and houses).

TMoon conjunct Natal Venus/Mercury/Nnode in 10th.

TNnode conjunct Natal Mars.

TNeptune square Natal Mercury/Venus/Nnode.

T-Square :
I've natal Saturn square Pluto. Tsun in the 4th tightly opp. Pluto and sq. Saturn that day.


My 1st relationship :

TVenus conjunct Natal descendant.

Tmoon in 7H square Natal Venus/Mercury.

TMars in 7H square Natal Venus/Mercury.

TSaturn conjunct Natal Moon.

Grand Trine :
Transiting Uranus/Jupiter trine Tvenus/descendant trine Natal venus/merc/Nnode.

T-square :
I've Moon square Mars natally. The transiting Sun opp Mars and squared Moon that day.

Tsun in 5H.

Tmercury in 5H partile opp Natal Sun. (5H is in Gemini)

Transiting Uranus at Aries Point. My chart ruler had completed a cycle.

There seems to be a pattern linking Venus, 5H, 7H and 8H and their rulers.


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posted November 21, 2012 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by depth:
An astrologer predicted that I can oogle at men only for 2 more years, after which I'll be married. I don't have a guy and am not likely to find one anytime soon. So I don't really know from where this husband will pop up. Hopefully, I marry for love and am loved back.

Transits for 2015(I'm counting only the slow moving planets) :
Tjupiter in 7th. (7H is in Leo and Sun in Sag)

Grand trine :
Natal Sun in 11H trine Tjupiter in 7H trine Turanus in 3H.

Tsaturn conjunct Natal Mercury(5H and 8H ruler)/Venus/Nnode in 10H. I don't know how important is the fact that natal Saturn sits in the 1st.

Tpluto conjunct Natal Uranus(chart ruler)/Neptune and square Juno. Pluto rules my 10th so I guess a sudden change in status.

Turanus opp Natal Juno(I've the square natally)

Tneptune square Natal Venus.

And no, Tvenus conjunct Natal Sun doesn't really bring love because it happens every year. But it often does when it shows up in Solar Returns and Progressions. Astro.com generates these charts.

I checked the transits for my longest relationship(and stable! phew) and there's nothing striking going on with the outer planets. Just a few easy aspects that don't usually create much noise. Anyways, transits for the day it became official -

TVenus, TMars, TMercury opp Natal Jupiter
(dispositor of my romantic planets and houses).

TMoon conjunct Natal Venus/Mercury/Nnode in 10th.

TNnode conjunct Natal Mars.

TNeptune square Natal Mercury/Venus/Nnode.

T-Square :
I've natal Saturn square Pluto. Tsun in the 4th tightly opp. Pluto and sq. Saturn that day.


My 1st relationship :

TVenus conjunct Natal descendant.

Tmoon in 7H square Natal Venus/Mercury.

TMars in 7H square Natal Venus/Mercury.

TSaturn conjunct Natal Moon.

Grand Trine :
Transiting Uranus/Jupiter trine Tvenus/descendant trine Natal venus/merc/Nnode.

T-square :
I've Moon square Mars natally. The transiting Sun opp Mars and squared Moon that day.

Tsun in 5H.

Tmercury in 5H partile opp Natal Sun. (5H is in Gemini)

Transiting Uranus at Aries Point. My chart ruler had completed a cycle.

There seems to be a pattern linking Venus, 5H, 7H and 8H and their rulers.


My Venus is currently progressed to the 4th house, when I look at the astro.com natal + transits + progressions combined it is right at the beginning of the 4th house, how long will it take for it to enter the 5th house? I am just so confused about the timing for all these things

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posted November 21, 2012 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted November 21, 2012 04:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sorcha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mostly I've noticed that there are NN conjunctions to personal name asteroids or asteroids Karma or Valentine. Often conjunctions to my Vertex from Saturn. Also when Pluto moves from one house to the next relationships tend to begin for me.

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posted November 21, 2012 04:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for violet7887     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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asclibrasagsun
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posted November 21, 2012 05:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by violet7887:
hmmmm....i am sun and he is venus. yes i can see the obvious points. if you do not mind...what went wrong?..why did it end? and how long where you together..

yes and even i think synastry can be very elusive here and there...what is meant for you isnt written anywhere..when its meant, it happens.


lucky you being the sun, no wonder he adores you. I hope you truly love and respect him in return and will never hurt him like I have been hurt as the female venus.

it ended because he betrayed me. I'm just going to keep it short. he abused my trust and thought that he could do whatever.

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posted November 21, 2012 05:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 7thGuardian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As Hamlet used to say:

"To love, or not to love: that is the question..."

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asclibrasagsun
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posted November 21, 2012 05:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by 7thGuardian:
As Hamlet used to say:

"To love, or not to love: that is the question..."


True. You love you experience "happiness", you love you get hurt. Better to be more detached. But that is so not in my nature.

I love partnerships

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posted November 21, 2012 05:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 7thGuardian     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
as the original saying... this to was a trick question ^^

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posted November 21, 2012 08:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
lucky you being the sun, no wonder he adores you. I hope you truly love and respect him in return and will never hurt him like I have been hurt as the female venus.

it ended because he betrayed me. I'm just going to keep it short. he abused my trust and thought that he could do whatever.


I was the female venus too. And I was betrayed by the sun as well. Eventually I learned that he didnt love me for me but that I adored him so much...

He liked the attention and comfort. He loved that I loved him. lol...I too felt like I got nothing in return. I was only important to him if I kept him happy. He would only try hard if he felt like he wouldnt receive adoration/ care.

He didnt respect me nor take my needs into consideration as much.


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posted November 21, 2012 08:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I was the female venus too. And I was betrayed by the sun as well. Eventually I learned that he didnt love me for me but that I adored him so much...

He liked the attention and comfort. He loved that I loved him. lol...I too felt like I got nothing in return. I was only important to him if I kept him happy. He would only try hard if he felt like he wouldnt receive adoration/ care.

He didnt respect me nor take my needs into consideration as much.


DING DING DING

Yeah. It is ******* ridiculous.

Are you in a relationship now though with someone who respects you? I am going crazy...I really want to be in one ASAP where the other person actually loves me back...and it is not all imaginary and stupid.
I just want to do it to spite him too

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posted November 21, 2012 08:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
I was the female venus too. And I was betrayed by the sun as well. Eventually I learned that he didnt love me for me but that I adored him so much...

He liked the attention and comfort. He loved that I loved him. lol...I too felt like I got nothing in return. I was only important to him if I kept him happy. He would only try hard if he felt like he wouldnt receive adoration/ care.

He didnt respect me nor take my needs into consideration as much.


Hey Dreaming111, you were the one that did that tarot reading for me in the other forum! It was very accurate. the person betrayed me....I wrote back to see if you could do a follow up, I would be so happy and thankful if you could help - or just take a look at the new post I made in the personal readings forum

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posted November 21, 2012 08:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anonymidarkness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
An astrologer told me I will marry at the age of 22.I think he talked about my solar arc meeting venus arc or something.

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posted November 21, 2012 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
An astrologer told me I will marry at the age of 22.I think he talked about my solar arc meeting venus arc or something.

Interesting! what kind of chart needs to be drawn up for this? Would it be called the solar arc chart?

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posted November 21, 2012 09:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
DING DING DING

Yeah. It is ******* ridiculous.

Are you in a relationship now though with someone who respects you? I am going crazy...I really want to be in one ASAP where the other person actually loves me back...and it is not all imaginary and stupid.
I just want to do it to spite him too


Haha, we have like minds.

No, I am not in a r/s.
I realize that I wanted to focus on my career and myself for a while. You know be an even more beautiful me and rub it in his face. hehe Nah, I really cant think about relationships or revenge, but it would be nice when I am done with improving myself to have a r/s.

Initially I wanted to make him jealous and what have you. But what is the point? So let us say, he gets jealous. Then? Nothing changes he still is the same jerk he was, and I wasted all the energy to make him jealous and wasted time to impress him essentially. hehe

It is still hard to remember how you are mistreated and unappreciated. I try to block that out of my mind. Try is the key word.

Reality is that there are more idiots and underdeveloped personalities. Reality is that there are more jerks than gents. Reality is that even with the gents to find someone, who matches your mindset is rare rare and rare. So .... I am not focusing on finding a guy. If a find someone, it will happen when it does and probably when I least expect it. (It is nice to get surprised right?) haha

So now I am gonna pretend...that I dont care....lol...Universe surprise me!

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posted November 21, 2012 09:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by asclibrasagsun:
Hey Dreaming111, you were the one that did that tarot reading for me in the other forum! It was very accurate. the person betrayed me....I wrote back to see if you could do a follow up, I would be so happy and thankful if you could help - or just take a look at the new post I made in the personal readings forum

Of course I will do another reading for you.
I am glad -- well not glad that I was right abt someone betraying you--that the reading made sense.

I will try to crank more out tomorrow.

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posted November 21, 2012 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Haha, we have like minds.

No, I am not in a r/s.
I realize that I wanted to focus on my career and myself for a while. You know be an even more beautiful me and rub it in his face. hehe Nah, I really cant think about relationships or revenge, but it would be nice when I am done to have one.

Initially I wanted to make him jealous and what have you. But what is the point? So he gets jealous. Then? Nothing changes he still is the same jerk he was, and I wasted all the energy to make him jealous and wasted time to impress him essentially. hehe

It is still hard to remember how you are mistreated and unappreciated. I try to block that out of my mind. Try is the key word.

Reality is that there are more idiots and underdeveloped personalities. Reality is that there are more jerks then gents. Reality is that even with the gents to find someone who matches your mindset is rare rare and rare. So .... I am not focusing on finding a guy. If a find someone, it will happen when it does and probably when I least expect it. (It is nice ot get surprised right?) haha

So now I am gonna pretend...I dont care....lol...universe surprise me!


LOVE everything you said! The hilarious part is that right when he and I ended our crap, I literally received a phone call the next day from this one guy who "wanted to get to know me". Went on two dates with him...almost barfed 30 times...told him that we need to split up and go our separate ways LOL. Just want someone I am attracted to

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posted November 21, 2012 10:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for asclibrasagsun     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Dreaming111:
Of course I will do another reading for you.
I am glad -- well not glad that I was right abt someone betraying you--that the reading made sense.

I will try to crank more out tomorrow.


Thank you!

Just for reference here is what I posted on your readings thread:

Well you were right, about one week after you gave me the reading I had an argument with the person I trusted the most and he betrayed me. It was not pretty.
He and I still see each other daily though and will be in each other's life for quite a while. We have cut off our "personal" relationship and try to not communicate regarding those issues at all. I am constantly trying to avoid him, and he is not as nice as he used to be to me too.
I have already gotten a tarot reading done by someone on here and asked if he and I will be in an actual relationship in 2013 and whether or not I should forgive him and the answer was YES to both questions, however, I am still having problems with forgiving him.
I was wondering if you could pull three or four cards for me in order to help interpret the situation AS OF right now and HOW it would change in about one month?

Once again, I would like to thank you for the reading,thanks so much

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