posted November 21, 2012 05:10 PM            

if you're interested, I'm sure he'd be glad/amused to know~ I don't think Taureans or Scorpion moons have issues with women who are straightforward~ ^^;

if you're being wishy-washy with your intentions his water moon will probably pick up on it, feed into his Venusian ruled Sun shyness/complacency and get bored... that's only natural...

gotta go in for the kill~ (and,to be sure... I don't mean with aggression~ lol although some Scorpion Moons seem to be amused by that sorta behavior~ I don't think the Bulls are so inclined towards over-zealous infatuations.)

--- good luck~ ^^ <3 (go for it!)

posted November 21, 2012 06:25 PM            

Have I done anything to upset him or something..?
During Monday, I only met him once, in my Math class.
And during Math class, we were partnered up with people that the teacher chose.
He was partnered with someone else, then when the teacher called my name and a guy's name, I saw in the corner of my eye, he suddenly looked at the teacher and looked at me. Then he lowered his head, and continued what he was doing before that..

posted November 21, 2012 06:45 PM            

no point in being shy about it... worse thing that can happen is he says he isn't interested... not the end of the world, plus with the show of self-confidence will boost his opinion of you. He could take you up on an offer of friendship first, or you could end up having a date sprung on you impromptu-like~ which is something -guys- I knew in high school/jr high did a lot - to avoid that awkwardness of emotion vs expectations...

keep it honest, and casual ~ but, don't be afraid to take the risk of being the first to approach him.

---- just as a silly sidenote~ I pursued (not aggressively) the same guy from my 6th grade year to senior year of high school.... I was turned down every time (I only asked once a year, and it became something entertaining for everyone in the class to look forward to~ It was very scary at first~ and to this day he's one of the few guys I approached first~ and I never did get him to go out with me... even casually as friends~ ^^; there were never hard feelings between us, that awkwardness passed really fast, and we are really cool with each other today 10 years later and living in different countries~ we still have contact and everyone jokes about the yearly dismissal~ I'm very proud that I had made that move, he admitted some years after high school that he was impressed... (I was dealing with an Aqua sun for what it's worth)... It doesn't hurt to try though~ you can become friends, you'll be able to build something out of whatever his response is, and eventually may get to date~! But, not until you move~~~ don't doubt yourself so much, you did nothing wrong!!! And, oh don't expect him to jump into anything fast either~ expecting a Taurus to run into anything... hehe that's a funny thought!~

But, he's likely got a soft spot for something - otherwise he'd not be playing coy/doing the eye-thing~~~

you got his attention, now you gotta use it to your advantage~ <3 speak to him 1 on 1, ask him questions... find out if he's seeing anyone... and mention iunno --- upcoming game/dance... see if he has a date/wants to go... even if it is with mutual friends/crowd.

^_^

posted November 21, 2012 11:55 PM            

Suireen's love interest is a school age Tauro~ Can you remember always being confidant enough to flirt back in those early years? Some boys are easily intimidated/confused by their emotions at that stage right???

What would you suggest she say/do to determine if he /is/ really being observant, or "checking the water", or not that into her???

Flirting pointers from the Bulls-mouth, will help~!? <3

pleeease?

posted November 22, 2012 12:35 AM            

Safe would be telling a common friend, which she did. I suppose hanging out in the same group helps. U know at least they'd have said hi by now.

Taurus pretend not to take hints so they'd really be sure. I don't do that anymore lol! He could be doing that.

posted November 22, 2012 12:43 AM            

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What if he has weeny voice? Only eyes lol!

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@ ^ ROFLCOPTER~~~~~~~~~

<--- never met a Taurus with a voice I didn't like! ^m^

If that happened I'd be heartbroken </3

---------- I just suggested what I did, because at that age, both men/women should learn to face rejection... that's why I included my most morbidly embarrassing, very Cappy-experience. It helps soooo much more to get over that challenge in life early, and learn to laugh at yourself a little~

posted November 22, 2012 02:47 AM            

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My ex was a Taurus sun, Scorpy moon with lots of Taurus and a Gemini mars, he was very straight forward actually. I reckon if a man is interested in you enough they will make a move, and assert themselves, you don't need to do anything. I mean he knows you like him, let him ask you out. If he doesn't even have the guts to do that, you're better off actually. Who wants sb so timid?

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posted November 22, 2012 08:44 AM            

Sun 4°01' Taurus
Moon 19°26' Scorpio
Mercury 6°06' Я Taurus
Venus 9°36' Taurus
Mars 16°49' Я Virgo
Jupiter 18°39' Aquarius
Saturn 13°15' Aries
Uranus 8°31' Aquarius
Neptune 29°56' Capricorn
Pluto 5°02' Я Sagittarius

posted November 22, 2012 09:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Yeah they can be shy with people they find attractive, but they will still do it if they are into you enough.
My guy has really similar placements (same Venus and mercury) but he just has a different mars and rising. Leo risings are pretty confident, but Mars in Virgo makes them more slow moving, more analytical and shy. I still reckon though that you should wait for him to make the move.

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posted November 22, 2012 10:10 AM            

It's not that I disagree with anyone who would say "let him do all the work"~

but....

putting yourself, and your intentions out there doesn't make you a commodity or something... in fact in this day in age it would make you a novelty~ and even more sought after. It isn't the 1950s, and even if it were they still had Sadie Hawkins dances!~

Somehow being confidant and self-reliant as a woman still makes people uneasy/disagreeable/judgmental... that putting yourself "out there" will hurt your public image, or self image somehow... for the life of me I don't understand this... (maybe it's my SAG-VEN-URA speaking?)

You both seem to be experiencing a typical school crush, it happens... the only way you will truly "know" for certain how one another is feeling is to broach the subject with each other. You can be the stereotypical girl taking on the timid role~~ you can hold your breath and wait for his response until your face turns blue... and some years down the road... live to regret not making any attempt to actively pursue your own interests. (imagine finding out he was smitten with you the whole time but was unsure how to approach you because he didn't know how you felt?! - happens all the time.)

These are truly life lessons~ everyone goes through them, regardless of signs. You will have to approach people, and compete with people after your academic years for many reasons... you will be turned down, you will be embarrassed, and you will pick yourself up, dust off and carry on. ~~ (~my love for Saturn~ he'll teach ya'!~)

Asking one guy if he wants to go see a movie together isn't such a big deal, and it won't make you into "pushy/easy"-(whatever image buggers people off so often when a young girl takes initiative)....

be you, be open, and have fun with it~!

Just keep your chin up~!

Confidence, honesty, and a sense of self-integrity are the greatest features anyone can have!~

-------- that's all I'm sayin' - wish you all the luck in the world Suireen~ I hope it all goes well!~ <3

posted November 22, 2012 12:14 PM            

We looked/stared at each other for months before I asked him a work-related question to try to break the ice. It led to us saying hello, then slowly he asked about my weekends etc. The slow pace almost drove me crazy and I doubted many times if he even liked me.

One day I was in his store and he approached me... something possessed me to be bold... he asked what I came in for and I told him I must be there to see him. He then asked if I was on fb which led to later on asking for my number (very politely, so sweet). I found that I just had to let him know I was receptive and he would (in his own time) pursue and make the move.

They play their cards very close to them, takes a long while for them to trust and feel safe letting you in, they are amazing at seeing what people really are (good and not so) that I think it makes getting close quickly hard for them.

posted November 22, 2012 05:34 PM            

--- you're sweet as a Georgia peach you know that, kiddo!?!

~ he's probably thinking, "how considerate" ~~

one inch at a time~~ progress is progress!

<3

posted November 22, 2012 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
Yay!~

--- you're sweet as a Georgia peach you know that, kiddo!?!

~ he's probably thinking, "how considerate" ~~

one inch at a time~~ progress is progress!

<3

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