posted December 11, 2012 08:57 AM
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Originally posted by Thermidor:
Would you talk about real attraction or just friendship ? Could you compare that Moon conjunct ASC with Moon conjunct Sun ? I need to see the difference.
Of course, the others can answer too to my question.
Of course. Well when I really thought about it I have had the Moon-Asc Conjunction twice. And I've had the Sun/Moon Conjunction 4 times.
1. Pisces Male with Cancer Moon Conjunct my Sun/Asc/Mars in Cancer.
This guy and I have had a physical relationship and he is one of my favorite people but I've never really felt like we truly gelled together emotionally. Nor did he. But we are truly friends, and I adore him to bits and pieces. However I think the Opposition to my Moon from his Moon was what made things uncomfortable for me, ultimately he is way too over emotional and reactive for me. And not at all reliable (despite him being a Virgo Asc). Overall we have an emotional attachment to each other where we deeply care for each other, and years can go by but we also try to stay in contact in some form. But not overboard.
2. Cap Sun Conjunct my Cap Moon Female
This girl is one of my favorite people, she is someone who I admire and think the world of. We are also very similar. I do attribute this to us living together and having Trine Moons (her Virgo, mine Cap). I also think that her Sun being in my 7th, her being a Venus in Aquarius and me being an 11th house Venus greatly helped. Again also a emotional attachment, but more earthy as in knowing we have each others back. We also try to keep up with each other and be supportive of each other.
3. Libra Sun/Cancer Moon Man and my Sun/Asc/Mars
This is a guy I dated but didn't feel deeply for. He actually was too clingy and complained way too much for my taste. Not only that but he was WAY too fickle. We did end up being facebook friends, but nothing else. Not much of an emotional connection.
4. Cap Sun/Aries Moon man and my Cap Moon
This guy was someone I was very attracted to and he was attracted to me (my Taurus Venus was in his 7th). I felt a natural affinity with him despite his Moon being Square my Moon. However his Sun/Asc/Mercury were all in my 7th so I think that had a lot to do with it. Not much of an emotional connection, but I will say I way very attracted to him. We were never really friends. He stopped talking to me in true Sco Asc fashion.
5. Cap Asc/Aqua Sun man and my Cap Moon
This is the one pure romantic experience I had with this aspect. It is also going to be the longest.
This is the one where I will say it was and still is a pure emotional relationship. I'm not even over him. And him being an Aqua this relationship DRAINED him because it was very emotional and not at all objective. In fact when it comes to me he is unable to be objective. He recently told me that I was the last serious gf he had and we dated over 2 years ago. And try as he did to truly assert his Aqua Sun/Aries Mars non emotional self he would ALWAYS defer back to this aspect and express feelings. And then try to be his frosty Aqua self after...then I'd say something emotional and then the frostiness would go away.
This relationship also drained me, I'm a Cancer Sun/Asc/Mars however my Venus is in the 11th, and my Sun/Asc/Mars/Mer all aspect Uranus. I also have my Sun/Asc/Mars Conjunct in the 1st, so I'd also try to assert independence and a "just friends" stance, and it never worked with us. As a Venus in 11th, and him being an Aqua we both can be friends with just about everyone (and I do tend to stay friends with exes), however with us we can dance around friendship but things are always emotional with us. We also incorporated our families into us being together. Family was talked about alot, and emotional expression and needing me (on his part) was also expressed. I was the 2nd person he told his family about, and he was the 2nd person I told my family about. We ended in college because we met around the time he was about to graduate and he used to always say he wished me met me sooner, and that the timing was off with us as he didn't want to factor someone else into plans b/c he wasn't attached to even staying in a place b/c his family was there. He still says this, that he doesn't want an obligation, or serious gf. And that he wants to pick up and leave and not have anything influence his decision.
I will say that overall we have a lot of emotional aspects that also add to this. We have Trine Moons, Opposite Asc, his Moon Conjunct my IC (his Moon and my IC both Square Uranus...so his experience of me is wholly the same as his Moon in Virgo Square Uranus. And my IC/Uranus aspect is strong b/c I'm a triple Cancer. So his energy is also familiar to me). My Venus is in his 4th. His IC is Conjunct his Aries Mars (my Mars is in Cancer in the 1st). His Venus is in my 7th. My Moon and Jupiter fall in his 1st. My Sun/Asc/Mars/Mercury all fall in his 7th. My Mars and Sun Conjunct his DC. So there are a lot of things going on that added to this. But overall I will say that there was no way around it, this was and to this day is an emotional relationship. I will be honest and say I am still in love with him and would get back together with him as i would want a future with him.