posted November 26, 2012 10:35 AM            

So I recently met a lovely Sag guy and we've been dating for about 2 weeks now. As the title suggests, he has a venus in Capricorn (and moon in Aries) so I sometimes don't know how he feels about me. I know its still early, but we seem to get along really well. I'm a Virgo sun, Sag moon with a Scorpio venus.

My scorpio venus makes it a bit easier to show how much I'm interested but with him its not so easy. We talk often, and we've hung out about 5 times in the span of the two weeks, but at times he seems a bit withdrawn.

posted November 26, 2012 05:48 PM            

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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:

maybe look for him to make silly hiccups in communicating with you, any sudden moments of turning beet red, or perhaps --- actually stumbling about physically.... I found mine did that a lot in our "dating" phase. haha

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Thanks lalalinda!

@SaturnineMoth

The guy I'm seeing will sometimes joke about things that I almost feel like he's being serious about.

For example:

When he came over to watch tv with me, when it was time for him to leave he jokingly teased me saying, "You probably want me to stay the night don't you," I brushed it off and laughed but I kinda got the feeling that maybe he wanted to stay the night and that was his way of bringing it up lol.

posted November 27, 2012 04:46 AM            

...Despite delivering everything through humor, he definitely wouldn't say such a thing if he didn't truly want it, in my opinion. Actually, speaking as a Cap Venus, that was pretty direct, I'd say!

And Sag wouldn't waste his time on something he didn't want. If he's spent all those dates with you already, he's into you!

posted November 27, 2012 11:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Jovian:
My sun/venus as well. I agree that he is definitely into you, if he said that. Despite Sag confidence and humor in general, Cap Venus adds seriousness to love matters, and wanting to feel secure that you are interested before he goes too far...thus being indirect and making a joke, so he can play it off, stay cool, and not feel foolish if it turns out you aren't into him as well. In addition,Cap Venus needs to appear as if they're in control and they've got their sh*t together. That may contribute to the sense you have of feeling he's withdrawn.

...Despite delivering everything through humor, he definitely wouldn't say such a thing if he didn't truly want it, in my opinion. Actually, speaking as a Cap Venus, that was pretty direct, I'd say!

And Sag wouldn't waste his time on something he didn't want. If he's spent all those dates with you already, he's into you!

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That makes me feel a little better. The reason I say that he seems withdrawn is because when we first met he was pursuing me like crazy lol. Texts every morning, calls every night, then all of sudden it just kinda trailed off quite a bit. Now I feel like he'll only text/call if he hasn't heard from me in a day or two. Perhaps he's just gotten comfortable?

posted November 27, 2012 03:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Welcome!

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posted November 29, 2012 09:16 AM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
Hi I'm a sag sun with capricorn venus. From what he said, I can tell that he wanted to stay with you that night.

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So, do you prefer to date a variey of people or just focus on one person that you really like?

posted November 29, 2012 12:18 PM            

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Originally posted by jupitersgirl:
When I fall in love with someone I would do everything to be with that person (I never act sticky or clingy or needy though, I make them want me.) .

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Its interesting what you said about making the other person want you. I'm wondering if this is why it seems like he waits for me to call/text him sometimes...

If you don't mind, I do have another question. Sags are known to be direct right? So if he wanted to be in a relationship he would just come out tell me that versus just letting things "flow" into one?

posted November 29, 2012 09:44 PM            

Very unlikely you'll get direct verbal assertions of deeper feelings anytime soon. I definitely agree with Jupitersgirl that communication is more physical...and indirect with Cap Venus. Be patient. Cap Venus can have deep and lasting feelings, when he gets attached to someone, but they are never going to be worn on his sleeve. And such worthwhile feelings take time to develop. If he is continuing to be in contact with you, then you are at least somewhat significant to him.

...You are engaging his Venus. Definitely a good thing, in a potential romantic relationship.

posted December 17, 2012 09:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Jovian:
Hi Yea. I agree with Jupitersgirl (BTW your English is great :^) It is the initial outgoing Sag Sun that helped him initiate all the early actions with you...which he wouldn't have done if he weren't interested. However, that part is easy--almost automatic--for Sag Sun (and Aries Moon, I'd say). Now, though, realizing he does have even deeper feelings for you, the Cap Venus is kicking in, and he is feeling more vulnerable and is being cautious and won't rush into things, if he isn't sure you are right for him and are going to reciprocate these deeper feelings. So, as Jupitersgirl said, Cap Venus waits for the other to assert their desire for him.

Very unlikely you'll get direct verbal assertions of deeper feelings anytime soon. I definitely agree with Jupitersgirl that communication is more physical...and indirect with Cap Venus. Be patient. Cap Venus can have deep and lasting feelings, when he gets attached to someone, but they are never going to be worn on his sleeve. And such worthwhile feelings take time to develop. If he is continuing to be in contact with you, then you are at least somewhat significant to him.

...You are engaging his Venus. Definitely a good thing, in a potential romantic relationship.

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So I know it has been a while, but the Sag and I are still dating. Just this past weekend he came over to visit and he actually stayed the night. I was really surprised that he didn't really joke about it he just said he wanted to stay over and that was that lol.