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sand
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posted November 26, 2012 10:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus males. . .smoldering, sexy and attentive. But can it really be that good? Well, based on my personal experiences of 13 years spent with a Taurus man, I can say yes - and no. I guess it just depends on how "progressed" your Taurus male is and how submissive he may be to the stimulation of his five senses.

So before I begin, I'd like to state that there are many, many Taurus men out there that are wonderful husbands, lovers and friends. That being said, I'm sure that you are now guessing where I'm headed with this. . Yep - I'm delving into the "dark side" of the Taurus mans nature as many of my personal observations over the years centered around such activity. So my apologies to all you wonderful Taurus males out there.

Taurus folks, as many already know, are all about the stimulation of the five senses. When these stimulations are of a positive nature, they love music, good food, the outdoors, sensitive touch and all things sensually related.

However, Should A Taurus Fall Prey To The Stimulation Of Darker Senses


Lookout!

It's a folly of gluttony, abuse and self indulgence. Taurus males, in particular, can become steeped in drugs, alcohol, casual sex, gambling and the like. He may cultivate relationships, both sexual and platonic, outside of a committed relationship as a Plan B of sorts.

Taurus men are passive by nature and, being ruled by the planet Venus, that of love, romance and money, have a natural tendency to draw people to them rather than seeking people and relationships out. Taurus is all about security, I should know - I AM one.

Nothing pleases a Taurus, male or female, more than stability, a cushy living situation, and security, both financial and emotional. Due to that nature, a Taurus man generally will not act aggressively towards people or situations that secretly they wish to attach themselves to.

Rather, a Taurus man will somehow manage to draw those people or relationships to him. And our Taurus males, in particular, are very good at doing so.
Sextrology refers to the Taurus males motto being one of "I WILL". . . .have you in the palm of my hand.

And For Taurus Men, That's It In A Nutshell


Strong yet quiet, masculine yet sensitive, sexual yet unaggressive, these guys have mastered the technique. And once he's caved to stimulation of his darker senses this becomes one of his favorite pastimes. He'll spend many a day and hours of time cultivating "situations" that he will ultimately reap rewards from at a later date. Thus making all his time and effort worth it.

A Taurus man will place himself into environments where these situations are more likely to happen and he'll simply sit back and wait. He'll show up time and time again and do this repeatedly until he finally achieves the rapport he's been attempting to build. All the while, he'll be acting coy and clueless in an attempt to disarm you of any agenda you may think he has.

You see, for our Taurus male, that IS his agenda. . . .to disarm you (especially women) and make you think he has no agenda. He wants you to relax and feel comfortable around him, not threatened. And in order to do this he realizes that he must repeatedly make his presence known time and time again so that those around him drop their guard.

And once your comfortable and your walls are down, that's when the real work begins. His plan is now in motion and it'll brew at such a slow and steady pace that you'll be none-the-wiser.

Here's a Tidbit of Insight Into Your Taurus Man

He operates behind the scenes, always keeping his intentions guarded and others in a constant state of guessing. He is a man of reaction - not one of action. He forces others to play their hand before revealing his own, all the while, he's working his angle behind the scenes.

By doing so, our Taurus man leads a rather stress-free life. He hangs back in situations, being the master of all he surveys. This ones like a kid in the candy store of life. A huge appetite for pleasure, but lacking the inability to exert abstinence or self-discipline, he's all about the stimulation of the five senses. A come hither kind of guy. His lifelong goal is to be idolized, idolized, idolized - and worshipped by others.

Therefore, Taurus men play a rather submissive role in life and in relationships. If you ask a Taurus man where he'd like to go for dinner that night, most likely, his response will be, "Wherever you'd like to go." He's not much of a decision maker and, honestly, doesn't prefer to wear the pants in a love relationship. This behavior gets Taurus men farther in life and without much effort having to be placed into it. He finds that he usually doesn't have to fight for that which he wants. He waits, he watches, he evaluates. He's a strategist.

Once his goals are securable and within his reach - he charges straight for them. He's not a risk taker by nature. He plans and plots, waiting for his desires to ultimately reveal themselves to him. Our Taurus male tends to build his own small harem of worshippers in life. He may pal around with younger individuals that look up to him in some way.

He may develop a harem of female admirers on the side, of whom he will always refer to as only "friends. A dating pool of sorts, from which he can pull from at his leisure, if need be, or if his preferred stable relationship should happen to sour in his eyes.

And by souring, I mean - if you stop worshipping him and the idol that he envisions himself to be. So ladies, if you find yourself involved with, or gunning for, a Taurus male you may find one of the nicest, most attentive and sexual guys on the planet - or you might find yourself trapped in a sea of confusion and self doubt.

When dealing with a Taurus man it might pay to ask questions and study body language. Most important of all. . . .find out where's he's spending most of his time. That will give you a glimpse into his motives and the situations that he's attempting to attach himself to.

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posted November 26, 2012 10:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Archylas     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
As a Taurus female, I can relate very much into this. :P Feeling safe and secure is very important to me.

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posted November 27, 2012 03:16 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for twinswans     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
awesome piece !

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posted November 27, 2012 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You just described my bff's boyfriend with eerie accuracy.
Minus the smoldering, sexy... I really don't find him attractive at all.
One time standing in the kitchen he told me, "You know, if I'd never dated A (my bff) first, I would have hooked up with you in a heart beat."
Me: "You would have tried."
There may be others out there though
Well done

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posted November 27, 2012 06:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^such a gross thing to say!

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posted November 27, 2012 08:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for aquaguy91     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
wow... sounds justs like my dad and he's a taurus.

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posted November 27, 2012 09:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Sextrology refers to the Taurus males motto being one of "I WILL". . . .have you in the palm of my hand."

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posted November 27, 2012 02:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by sand:
^such a gross thing to say!

haha yeah, you're telling me.

He's made a lot of comments like that toward me that make me really uncomfortable. He's my best friend's long time boyfriend, and the father of one of my nephews though, so I'm kinda stuck with him lusting after me. I'm not giving up basically my sister because he can't keep his mouth shut. It bothers my bff a bit, but she trusts me so there's no issues between her and I.

I can absolutely see the way he works in everything that you said, or at least he attempts to be that way. And apparently his charms work on others, just not this chick

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posted November 27, 2012 05:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^actually I'm just trying to charm you too!

No I'm just joking, really is gross!

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posted November 28, 2012 01:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for teasel     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Taurus dad is the best! but the last Taurus I had feelings for, admitted to a previous gambling addiction, and ended up doing drugs, partying, etc.

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posted November 28, 2012 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StacyLewis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Large parts of that sound more like Plutonian/Scorpionic energy than pure Taurus energy.

The one I know, the description fits him sure, but to be fair, he's pretty Plutonian.

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posted November 28, 2012 03:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@sand
You probably are :P

I remember reading in another post somewhere that you like Pisces, or at least some of our more feminine traits. And with my Taurus Moon, we'd probably hit it off fantastically, or butt heads continually lol

I gotta say, that despite the creeper comments from my bff's boyfriend, I DO like him usually. We can talk for hours and that's no small feat with me, Merc Rx in Pisces, and I really do feel like he gets and understands me, but there is nothing more than OBVIOUSLY platonic feelings/actions from my side.

So why would a Taurus man, who adores being adored, continuously (discreetly) chase something he clearly cannot and will not ever have? Wouldn't he tire of the gentle rejections or could he be using his "brother" status with me to stay close to "wait for the perfect time" even though I've made it quite clear that time would never come. Answer me that oh wise Taurean


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posted November 28, 2012 05:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Is it working?

Some bulls think it's impossible not to like them. Cough cough.. how light is this rejection anyway ms.mercpisces? It's possible he could feel the connection and think more of it. Taurus merc?

Just take a look at jack here..
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-409072/Jack-Nicholson-apologises-flirting-Kidman.html

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posted November 28, 2012 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by sand:
The Jack

"(...)sense of whimsy"

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posted November 28, 2012 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nvm

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posted November 28, 2012 08:44 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pisces-Sweety     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh!!! I love taurus men! They're so sexy and sensual. Your description reminds me of my ex. I still miss him a lot. He was something else! <3

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posted November 28, 2012 10:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There's definitely a lot of truth in the article from the experiences I've had with Taurus boys/men.

Been lucky to experience a little of the negative and positive sides to the male Taurus and female. Lucky because I've never been too bothered by the negative episodes they had. hehe

My three closest relationships with Taurus guys were very important to my personal growth and life direction, I believe now.

One, when I was 15, I was madly taken with a Bull who was a bit different than the average Taurus. He's the only one I've ever had birth information for, so I know that he had some strong Neptune/Uranus influences to his other planets that probably gave him a more Aquarian/Piscean personality. He was insanely intelligent. I made a huge fool of myself with him, and he's the only one of the three I pursued. It was a bitter pill to swallow, I'll say that much. I played a very nasty game and had it turn back on me. Not my wisest years/moment. Thankfully, he was a gentleman, and forgiving... although things never really progressed afterwards, and rightly so.

Another came into my life (after years of being acquaintances, and me knowing his reputation full well). But, I was barely 18 at the time and going through some pretty crazy sh-t at the time. He came in like a gallant knight, gave me direction (which I was to darn stubborn to follow for some time), that eventually lead me to finding the career of my dreams. He pretty much used me as he pleased -- like the article says - he had many a woman in his harem, and a huge appetite for compliments and earthly pleasures... he was wickedly charming, but never had any problem making decisions of any sort (contrary to the article), was very firm in his expectations of himself and others. But, we had a complicated relationship (to say the least), although it lasted the better part of 5 years off and on. We were addicted to each other, as partners and as friends, I don't know what would have become of me, weren't it for his intervention. If he wasn't such a gd player, we'd have made a great match! only wish I knew his birth information~ As it is I just know the day,year. ;;

The third fella' was more of a blind date, a mutual friend had sprung on me. I was in a very foul mood, having just been burnt by an exbf who took my hard earned money and ran.... literally, ran from the cops. I was at my worst in terms of appearance when we were introduced. Imagine a post-break up young woman, pjs, tattered hoodie, and a rats nest for a coif.... I was at a neighbors house when they'd arrived trying to battle the anger and blues, watching and making fun of what to this day, was one of the worst B-horror films I've ever seen. ~ I think he liked my humour. I still can't imagine what it was, 'cause if I was him I'd have left right then and there,very disappointed. hehe

Sadly, our mutual friend who introduced, and said Taurus, failed to mention that he had another woman in his life from his hometown. They were on/off high school sweethearts for some time, until said Taurus got into addiction, like the article says - some do. I was not aware of this until some time later though. Even though I was scornful learning I'd been a third wheel for three months, we never fought or argued about anything. He was just a very charming, self-assured, hard working and seemed to be well educated... so,finding out he'd smashed his exgf's porsche, and was struggling with coke addiction really baffled me. On top of that I found his gf/exgf's picture still in his wallet, she was a very lovely looking girl... I was dumbstruck. Hurt, but more angry that he'd been so careless. He was a guy who had it all, a father with money pushing him out of the house/business to stand on his own and be responsible, a gf who tolerated and supported him through his troubles for years, and coworkers and friends who looked up to him. But, he was a negative-stage Taurus... kept his demons well hidden, and lived in a state of somewhat denial/ambivalence to the distress of those around him. The time I found out these things, I had to walk away, or rather - had him drive me home.... I didn't ask him to do anything, but demanded he straighten up his act and go home, which was a pretty ballsy move if I do say so myself, being a little goat telling he big bull to move it~ ^^; He's still a guy I think about often, and wonder if he listened to my plea. I don't remember his birthday, only remember he was a bit older than me and born early in May. He was drop dead gorgeous... ;; my luck is terrible~ gargh

They all had something charming about them, and even if they didn't seek attention they usually attracted a good share of it no matter who they were with/where they were... They were all gregarious, and funny, enjoyed -pleasures of the flesh-, and each were very self reliant/determined to get what they want. They also all didn't care for others telling them what to do at any time.... played by their own rules. They weren't all sexy in the sense of idk Brad Pitt or someone is considered physically attractive.... the first one was "odd" and cleverly charming, the second was just super charismatic and somewhat controlling/demanding (of attention among other things), and the third was extremely dashing, playful....

I love me some Taurus~ what can I say... The Sun sign compatibility between Goats and Bulls seems to always work out well for me in one way or another. AND - I get along really well with female Tauruses, but I've always found them a tad different then the men... I suppose some of it is the other influences, and some is really just gender specific sides to the Sun signs... But, yesh~ I agreed with the article on most parts, and find Taurean people a joy to be around personally~! <3


---- sorry for being long winded again~ Just felt like sharing a bit of my crazy experience as a starry-eyed young miss infatuated with those clever and charming Taurus fellas.

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posted November 28, 2012 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Crashing Porsches.. Taurus are bad drivers IME too lazy to lift their bull hooves from the clutch..

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posted November 28, 2012 12:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
Large parts of that sound more like Plutonian/Scorpionic energy than pure Taurus energy.

The one I know, the description fits him sure, but to be fair, he's pretty Plutonian.


How is that Scorpio? I can't differentiate.

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posted November 28, 2012 12:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
oh - He mangled the car~ drove it right out into oncoming traffic (he was all coked up), and the other drivers couldn't avoid him.... he showed me the paper clipping of the wreckage~ god only knows how he survived, let alone - unscathed.... I think he was just grateful his face survived.... lol ugh

---- Maybe he had some of that Leo in him too... irresistibly adorable self-absorbed beau hunk~

Taurus #2 was an excellent driver, he could have been a stunt driver (seriously) ~ he liked his cars fast, expensive, and clean.... obsessively so!~ he was an EMT (among other jobs), well paid (double shifts at the time), and sought that danger--- by working in areas with high crime/gang activity~ the area he worked the most was one that required him to wear body armor.... cops had been using the ambulances there to do drug raids~ so emt/ems were being shot at by gang members at random....

----- Taurus are brash and ballsy~ when they gotta be it seems to me. lol

money - cars - women ;;
I don't know if that's the right order... but yeah - seems to be relatively Taurean influenced. haha

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posted November 28, 2012 12:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would rather die in that Porsche if face doesn't survive too!

Teh brash ballsy ones- Taurus with Aries. The ones born late April. I.e. Pacino was scarface

Lmfao not saying my order!

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posted November 28, 2012 12:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

Taurus Sun,Venus in Taurus

There’s something you need to know about Taurus sun, Venus in Taurus: Besides Taurus, Venus in Aries, no other sign claims such an extensive collection of persuasive men. It doesn’t matter who they are—it’s just frightening.

Sometimes they’re morally PC, but most times, they don’t see beyond their own totalitarian-dictatorship agendas. They want to control the masses with their political ideals, found in their songs, their paintings, their work—whatever. Just look at the influence these guys have over their peers. That’s a good indicator. You must be the ra-tional one. But beware of scary-guy factor.

Deep down, this man can be controlling. When he’s got the upper hand, though, you wouldn’t even know it. He’s like a Ziploc in the fridge: cool and contained. But that’s not his true self. And you’ve got to put him off his guard to make him off his rocker. For you.Here’s the one thing you need to be careful of, though: Since he’s so averse to talking things out, he’s prone to sneaking around (with others, Mammy) so that he doesn’t have to confront any problems. He goes out and does bad things. Risky, he is. Just sayin’. It all comes down to character. Or lack of. This Taurus can be soulless. Definition: Without a soul. And this can be dangerous because he seems like such a fun,down-to-earth, charming guy. Perilous.

Bottom line: There’s a tendency for this Taurus to go over the edge to Psychoville if he’s had a rough past. He can be completely unethical. Com- pletely. He’s like a volcano, ready to blow. And you don’t want to be there for it. ’Cause Mount Etna doesn’t erupt often—but it does erupt.
boyfriend potential rating:
Low if you let him master you—as he so deftly does others. Mezzo-high if you can stand your ground. Unbelievably high if he knows you’re the only one he cantrust—’cause he’s made so many enemies in the past, he needs at least one person he can rely on.

http://www.scribd.com/do c/57113229/He-s-Just-Not-in-the-Stars-Wicked-Astrology-Uncensored-Advice-for-Getting-the-Almost-Perfect-Guy-2006#outer_page_62

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posted November 28, 2012 12:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
lol ^ I've been mastered haha

anyway~~~~~


does the above article -feel- correct to your own experiences? ever been on the dark side of your Sun/Venus???

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posted November 28, 2012 12:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Taurus folks, as many already know, are all about the stimulation of the five senses. When these stimulations are of a positive nature, they love music, good food, the outdoors, sensitive touch and all things sensually related.

However, Should A Taurus Fall Prey To The Stimulation Of Darker Senses


Lookout!

It's a folly of gluttony, abuse and self indulgence. Taurus males, in particular, can become steeped in drugs, alcohol, casual sex, gambling and the like. He may cultivate relationships, both sexual and platonic, outside of a committed relationship as a Plan B of sorts.


^am probably still there.. I just don't have a fondness for gambling. It never amused me.

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posted November 28, 2012 01:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~ I've never once met an abusive Taurus~ that part of the article was a bit shocking~

they've all been super protective of the women in their lives~ not just partners -- mothers, siblings, grandmothers~ (well family overall), but all the males were totally against physical violence towards the opposite eex~ in a very extreme way~ unless the article means generally prone to violence - I can't see any of the Taurus people I know engaging in violence casually though~ not even the really nasty ones... - that part of the article buggers me, I guess~


WE all have those dark shades though, sometimes finding the balance between them is more complicated for some over others~ I've gotten away with living the dark side early on~ I think.... haha

---- I almost don't wanna ask~ but oh I so do--- what exactly are your addictions??? or does it fall under the "list" mentioned above?

--- don't say good food~~~ that's a given... Tauruses all over the world love them some delicious edibles~ <3 even the moons~ ;; (thankfully for this Taurus Moon--- I eat like a rabbit most the time, just so those moments of indulgence don't go straight to my thighs!)

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