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Topic: In Which Part Of Life Do You Want To Show Off?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 10:42 AM
Last night, I could not sleep, so I started counting aspects and not sheep, as I, usually, do.I came up with the show off aspect( or wear on your sleeve aspect) This only applies if you have a planet in your 1st house. Which House Ruler is it? That house is the one you want to show off about. I have R of the 6th in the first. I like to show off that I am of service. I, also, am a hypochondriac, which is classic for this position,as you "wear" your health on your body/outer manner( which is the 1st house, as you know) OK--Spill PS This is all in fun, for you uber sensitive types
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sand Knowflake Posts: 7480 From: Manila Registered: May 2011
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posted December 01, 2012 11:03 AM
1st, 12th, 3rd, 4th/IC, 6th. Am a show off I suppose. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 11:28 AM
quote: Originally posted by sand: 1st, 12th, 3rd, 4th/IC, 6th. Am a show off I suppose.
So, you have 4 planets in the 1st?
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 11:34 AM
I have the ruler of the third house on the ascendant, sometimes in the first house, sometimes twelfth, depending on the chart. I guess I feel comfortable talking a lot, being loud, driving around. Third house is pretty boring. I also like to write and communicate so I guess it's true. I definitely don't like to show off the neighborhood I live in though. IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 7480 From: Manila Registered: May 2011
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posted December 01, 2012 11:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: So, you have 4 planets in the 1st?
3 mars, pluto, Saturn. Mars rules h6. Saturn rules the IC and the 3rd. Pluto rules the 1st. So what do I show off? IP: Logged |
enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 589 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted December 01, 2012 12:01 PM
Hmm... You might have to help me with this one Ami. I've got Jupiter, Uranus, and Neptune in the 1st. Jupiter rules my 2nd house, but I am not a show off about money or what I own and I live rather modestly. Uranus rules Aquarius, but Aquarius is intercepted into my 3rd house. I have decent communication skills and I incorporate them into my job, but I'm not sure it's something I show off. Neptune rules my 4th house, and again, I'm not really a show off about my family either... They are all in Sagittarius, which is ruled by the Jupiter in the 1st. Sooooo... Not sure how it relates. I know my explanations were simplistic, but I was using the most basic the essence of each of the houses. Maybe you could explain more about what you were thinking??? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 12:11 PM
quote: Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme: I have the ruler of the third house on the ascendant, sometimes in the first house, sometimes twelfth, depending on the chart. I guess I feel comfortable talking a lot, being loud, driving around. Third house is pretty boring. I also like to write and communicate so I guess it's true. I definitely don't like to show off the neighborhood I live in though.
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StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 12:12 PM
Enchantress, do you idealize your family? Or if there's family problems, do you share them with others, so everyone knows about them? Do you strongly resemble any family members so people comment on it or are you named after a family member? It's not always about showing off but more what people know about you because of your personality. In your personality, is family important? Do you stress family time as your top priority to your friends and associates. This is where you see the Neptunian influence. Or, has your homelife been confusing and chaotic and that has left it's imprint on your personality? It can go either way. It depends on the aspects, too. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 12:14 PM
Well, the charts are always right. If something doesn't work, we are either in denial or we have the houses wrong imho Ruler of the 2nd in the 1st would be someone who wants to appear as if they are wealthy such as have an expensive car, clothes, pocketbook, shoes etc or look as if they do. It is a mindset, not the actual car etc ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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enchantress299 Knowflake Posts: 589 From: Registered: May 2009
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posted December 01, 2012 12:33 PM
quote: Enchantress, do you idealize your family? Or if there's family problems, do you share them with others, so everyone knows about them? Do you strongly resemble any family members so people comment on it or are you named after a family member? It's not always about showing off but more what people know about you because of your personality. In your personality, is family important? Do you stress family time as your top priority to your friends and associates. This is where you see the Neptunian influence. Or, has your homelife been confusing and chaotic and that has left it's imprint on your personality? It can go either way. It depends on the aspects, too.
I realize the first house is not only about "showing off," but this thread is about the first house and "showing off," so that is what I was addressing. I don't over idealize my family, but I do realize that I got lucky in the parent lotto at least. My brother leaves something to be desired, but c'est la vie... All families have their issues. But, like I said, I got lucky with my parents because they have always been supportive people. They can be critical, but not to the extent that I've seen other people's parents be. Honestly, I'm not super close to my family. I love them, but I'm very independent myself, and so I keep a certain distance. The irony is that I DON'T look closely like my immediate family. I am a throwback to my mom's side of the family. My middle name is my aunt's name, but it's not something I've ever gone by and most people don't even know what it is, because it's a unique name, so I don't share it. quote: Well, the charts are always right. If something doesn't work, we are either in denial or we have the houses wrong imhoRuler of the 2nd in the 1st would be someone who wants to appear as if they are wealthy such as have an expensive car( or as expensive as they could get etc) It is a mindset, not the actual car etc
But that's the thing... I DON'T try to appear wealthy in either objects or attitude!!! That is what I am telling you. If the charts are always right, that means there is a deeper explanation that you and I are not seeing. You can't just discount someone's experience because "the charts are always right." That's silly. The houses do have layers of meaning to them, and for good reason. Getting caught up in lazy/simplistic astrology is not the answer. IP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 1717 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 01, 2012 12:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Well, the charts are always right. If something doesn't work, we are either in denial or we have the houses wrong imho Ruler of the 2nd in the 1st would be someone who wants to appear as if they are wealthy such as have an expensive car, clothes, pocketbook, shoes etc or look as if they do. It is a mindset, not the actual car etc
Ami let me throw my 2 cents to it I think that the place where our ruler of 1st is where we tend to show off (ruler of ones appearance) while rulers of other houses in the 1st bring a strong effect over ones appearance What do you think?
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 02:06 PM
Please, explain more, DL. I am not sure what you mean.------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 02:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by enchantress299: But that's the thing... I DON'T try to appear wealthy in either objects or attitude!!! That is what I am telling you. If the charts are always right, that means there is a deeper explanation that you and I are not seeing. You can't just discount someone's experience because "the charts are always right." That's silly. The houses do have layers of meaning to them, and for good reason. Getting caught up in lazy/simplistic astrology is not the answer.
Well, I am simplifying something for interest and teaching purposes. That is why I said for people to take this with a fun attitude ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 235 From: GTA Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 02:58 PM
I think I get what DL is talking about~ perhaps you both are right in a sense~ The 1st House having the ruler of other planets in it would affect your appearance, but your own ASC ruler would affect your persona directly, but they're just two layers of the total image we wear. We'd have to consider the aspects made with the ASC itself, and then the ruler of that house, and then those that involve the ruler of other houses that fall into it. It all makes sense~ considering people are much more complicated than one or two effects on that house. ~ layers upon layers going into the image we project~ all that good stuff. For example: (I have zero planets in my 1st House, but may be projecting from my ruler being in his position-communication to Jupiter/Neptune - Mars/Pluto, as well as having the wide trine to Mercury direct, and square to Uranus from the ASC node itself.)
Am I showing off (in some sense) in areas of imagination, exploration, communication, and rebelliousness...?? probably~ iunno --- something like that, right??? --- did that make any sense~? Ami you fascinate me to no end~ I love how you are always coming up with different perspectives, you can totally see how passionate you are about astrology~ I admire you~ very, very much! It takes a lot to push any pseudo-science or science forward, and some people seem to drag on without developing these *new theories* ~ but only truly dedicated people will pursue new tangents, and push the boundaries~ which is what I see you doing here all the time. I really respect that. Thank you, always.
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4657 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 03:35 PM
i have venus in the1st,its ruler of my 3rd and 8th houses.not sure what that would mean.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 25 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 04:25 PM
Enchantress, I have an moon/Neptune opposition in my chart and I am very distant and don't have anything to do with most of my mom's side of the family so maybe the Neptune influence creates the weak bonds if it is a stressful aspect? Is your first house Neptune afflicted by sun or moon? IP: Logged |
britterfly Knowflake Posts: 618 From: Registered: Jul 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 04:36 PM
I have ruler of third and fourth in the first house. Third house being intellect, I do have an inferiority complex about my intellect, with a conscious need to prove myself intellectually. I definitely wear that aspect of myself on my sleeve. I also grew up with a deep love of expressing myself through writing. Surely some day soon I will write all those books I have been dreaming of writing!As far as having ruler of fourth house in first, I come across as nurturing and gentle, with a soft voice. I am a massage therapist by trade, and that work really suits me. I am frequently told that I would make a good mother. So I probably come across as nurturing. IP: Logged |
doommlord Moderator Posts: 1717 From: israel Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 01, 2012 05:02 PM
quote: Originally posted by Ami Anne: Please, explain more, DL. I am not sure what you mean.
the ruler of your 1st house actually rules the house of your "appearance" and your outer self you for example have it in your 9th house i dont even need to ask as people easily see you as an experienced and intelligent person...and a person of great faith too rulers of other houses in your 1st are house that must be worked so your "appearance will be held" you have the ruler of the 6th in your 1st you give a lot of service and help to maintain your "appearnce" you also take very good care of your health and you personally told me you look like c**p when in bad health or doing nothing (leaving the 6th house need unmet) i hope i was clear
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AshSkye Knowflake Posts: 415 From: Leicester Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 05:22 PM
My first house ruler is in the first house (Pluto), I don't know what this means, I like so show off my own self in general? IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 06:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by doommlord: the ruler of your 1st house actually rules the house of your "appearance" and your outer selfyou for example have it in your 9th house i dont even need to ask as people easily see you as an experienced and intelligent person...and a person of great faith too rulers of other houses in your 1st are house that must be worked so your "appearance will be held" you have the ruler of the 6th in your 1st you give a lot of service and help to maintain your "appearnce" you also take very good care of your health and you personally told me you look like c**p when in bad health or doing nothing (leaving the 6th house need unmet) i hope i was clear
Well, the one thing I was centering on in this thread was what we "hold" in our ego/outer manner/face to the world, which is the 1st house.I was just narrowing that down. Do you see what I mean? The person takes "pride" in the House which sends it's ruler into the first house. ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 06:33 PM
DL--The House to which the Chart Ruler goes is a major house in the chart. This house is super important to us, but not in the "ego" way I was trying to get at with this thread.I did this thread for fun,rather than a really serious study--just to kick ideas around ------------------ Passion, Lust, Desire. Check out my journal http://www.mychristianpsychic.com/
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KAMcA10 Newflake Posts: 4 From: Houston, TX, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 06:46 PM
I have Moon in the 1st, which rules the 11th House. So supposedly I want to show off my gains, network, and friendships. Venus is also in the 11th House. IP: Logged |
StacyLewis Knowflake Posts: 176 From: Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 06:50 PM
So, people with nothing in the first, don't want to show off...*blank stare*.I have nada in the first house but I fully admit I'm absolutely arrogant about my intelligence, and show it off. I don't see anything wrong with that. I'm proud of the fact that I'm smart, because I worked for a lot of it - I read my @$$ off when I was younger. I know a great deal, and when I'm in a position where I can share what I know (and help people in the process), I'm all for it. IP: Logged |
MillyX Knowflake Posts: 337 From: canada Registered: Feb 2012
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posted December 01, 2012 07:03 PM
I have ruler in the 12th & 6th in the first. I'm not sure how this affects me...I honestly don't like showing off, I like to stay in the background. IP: Logged |
Ami Anne Moderator Posts: 38411 From: Pluto/house next to NickiG Registered: Sep 2010
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posted December 01, 2012 07:18 PM
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