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posted December 03, 2012 04:34 PM
  
Taking cue from the Aquarius Venus threads, I wanted to ask the women with Sagittarius Venuses how do they show they are interested? How do they show their love? What is your definition of men being clingy (or alternatively, when a man you are interested in isn't showing enough attention/contact) in regards to dating? As a Sag Venus, what is it that you really appreciate from a guy you are dating? What is it from a guy you are interested in or dating that really puts you off (even though you know it was well intended on his part)? Those who have experienced dating someone with Sag Venus please reply :-) Those who have or dated someone who is Scorpio Sun and Sag Venus please reply ;-) (I know the whole chart is involved but try to respond from a Venus point of view) ------------------
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posted December 03, 2012 04:49 PM
Oh fun!I'm a Sag Venus. I've always liked travel, and back when I was single, that was one way a guy could get me to go out with him. Offer to take me someplace exotic, strange, or mysterious, and I would be up for romance in that context, more often than not. Edit: By romance, I don't mean sex. I mean having a relationship get started or move to the next level or whatever. I wasn't that easy.  IP: Logged |
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posted December 03, 2012 05:03 PM
GG asked:
I wanted to ask the women with Sagittarius Venuses how do they show they are interested?Saggie Venus here: If I like you, you will find out very soon! I don't play games, I don't beat around the bush. I would be all over you, no shame. If you don't get it, I will TELL you I'm in love with you. Sorry, too impatient for mystery. LOL. Q: What is your definition of men being clingy (or alternatively, when a man you are interested in isn't showing enough attention/contact) in regards to dating? A: No such thing. I've never met anyone who's been clingy with me. Even a Cancer with Taurus Venus is reserved and standoffish compared to a crazy Sag Sun Sag Venus gf.
Q: As a Sag Venus, what is it that you really appreciate from a guy you are dating?
A: Variety AND stability. I need an adventure buddy, who will go hiking in the rain with me or go search for an obscure landmark, store, experience with me and then help me get out of my soaked clothes so we can snuggle in front of the fire, eat yummy food and gaze into each others eyes. IP: Logged |
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posted December 03, 2012 05:44 PM
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women with Sagittarius Venuses how do they show they are interested?
If the feeling was mutual, (if I were sure I was as attracted/interested in the one displaying or confessing interest in me), there'd be no beating around the bush about it. I find it difficult to hide my enthusiasm in such cases. But - if I was unsure of their depth of interest or sincerity in interest towards me, or was uncertain how I really felt about them.... I'd keep them at a distance, usually letting them know outright that I had reservations on pursuing anything at that moment, (being polite, suggesting friendship - over courtship). If I was completely disinterested on the other hand, I'd want them to know that there was no chance, but be empathetic as possible in dismissing any advances and rebuttals. --- In other words - I can't hide my emotions with people I've just met any better than those I know and love for ever, the only right approach would be for me to be open and honest to the other person. --- something like that~ (trying not to let Uranus, or Mars/Pluto, or my Taurus Moon chime in is hard... but, this is as straight from my Saggy Venus as I can be. sorry.) quote:
How do they show their love?
It would depend on the setting~ I'm not the type to drag anything out, and can be very impatient at times... In a romantic way, the person I had feelings for would definitely notice the things I'd do for them, actions speak louder than words, right? I'm not good with words when my emotions are high anyway... I'd want to keep them amused, and keep the blood flowing... (take that however your mind lets you) If they were down, I'd get them out, if they were upset I'd give them space, if they needed a shoulder, then I'd want to be the first person they came too. It's important to really show that sincerity with your partner, I believe. And, the favourite word for Saggy Venus (in my experience) is "share"... you want to share your interests, and escapes, ideas, and feelings with your partner... and be able to trust them to be honest, and open likewise with theirs. >.<; (I'm sorry I write so much...) quote:
What is your definition of men being clingy
Clingy is alright during the right moments to some extent --- but, when someone starts to suffocate you, or negatively attach themselves to you and all you do~ (needing to call a bajillion times, showing up wherever you are at every place you go, and nagging about spending too much time apart --- for whatever unrealistic reason - be it work, family, or hobbies) those are some big nono's and it sends up a red flag that the other person doesn't trust their SO anymore. If you don't have trust you have nothing, or so I was taught. I don't mean to suggest I get out a lot, just for the record... lol Just to clarify - I'm saying when you (SAG-Ven person or not) have other priorities to take care of or are active in the community or fitness, and then your partner starts to misinterpret that time spent apart as meaning something it doesn't... lol I hope this isn't too hard to follow - just, I'm not talking about valid reasons for a person to get suspicious of the mate - like constantly being out with the guys/gals, at clubs, or mysteriously disappearing at odd hours of the night. Only when the clingy-ness comes from distrust --- or is damaging to the livelihood of (not just a SAG-Ven of course) but really anyone.... there are fine lines between wanting to be with someone 24/7 and actually trying to force yourself between them and who they are.... that kinda' clingy-ness is like an airhorn going off right next to your ear~ It would definitely make anyone upset, or ready to run. quote:
when a man you are interested in isn't showing enough attention/contact
In my earlier years - I couldn't get enough of either from someone I felt deeply interested in, to be honest. But, as I matured I think that things balanced out... I'd like to know that when apart they were thinking of me, as I would be them... so I'd hope they'd be the one to make the end of the day/week call to check in (out of concern for well being not out of distrust) - I don't need a call every hour, or every night... I don't need to now what they had for breakfast, lunch, and dinner ~ but it's fie if they want to share that information.... I don't need PDA, but I don't mind the once in a blue moon, surprise attacks~ lol I'd rather they not blatantly ogle the competition in my presence, but I don't need them constantly staring me down either... I think overall -casual- contact is best, and sincere, genuine affection/attention should be relative to the environment and mood~ Besides, they'd know when I wanted "all eyes on the prize"~  Sag-Ven really isn't the coy type~ quote:
As a Sag Venus, what is it that you really appreciate from a guy you are dating?
Respect --- respect sorta' encapsulates the whole concept of love, trust, and loyalty.... those are the only three expectations I'd place on anyone I loved. Add a dash of spontaneity, and a willingness to participate in my sometimes insane adventures (be it an uncharted, unplanned drive to a really unique diner I just saw on the tele, or a planned camping trip/hike, or jetting off to Costa Rica just because the urge hit me)~ that's the sort of fella' I admire and appreciate knowing, and sharing my time, (love) with... lol ~~~~~~~~~~ too much Venus talk for me! I'm moving back to Pluto now~  ~~~ (I totally agree with Faith and Yin's answers too!!!) haha --- spot on!  ------------------
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posted December 03, 2012 06:19 PM
Hey all who replied so far, thank you! I'm on my phone and the battery is dying. I'll respond as soon as I get home. Please keep the replies coming :-)------------------
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posted December 03, 2012 08:53 PM
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Originally posted by Yin:
GG asked:
I wanted to ask the women with Sagittarius Venuses how do they show they are interested?Saggie Venus here: If I like you, you will find out very soon! I don't play games, I don't beat around the bush. I would be all over you, no shame. If you don't get it, I will TELL you I'm in love with you. Sorry, too impatient for mystery. LOL.
Q: What is your definition of men being clingy (or alternatively, when a man you are interested in isn't showing enough attention/contact) in regards to dating?
A: No such thing. I've never met anyone who's been clingy with me. Even a Cancer with Taurus Venus is reserved and standoffish compared to a crazy Sag Sun Sag Venus gf.
Q: As a Sag Venus, what is it that you really appreciate from a guy you are dating?
A: Variety AND stability. I need an adventure buddy, who will go hiking in the rain with me or go search for an obscure landmark, store, experience with me and then help me get out of my soaked clothes so we can snuggle in front of the fire, eat yummy food and gaze into each others eyes.
@Yin, thank you for your reply! The woman I know is a Scorpio Sun, Sag Venus. I see some of what you say in not beating around the bush and directly letting your feelings be known. She has definitely shown this side. And I can definitely appreciate Sag Venus need to just go somewhere spontaneously as I've been doing that my entire adult life! My friends will all tell you that my nickname back then was "Road Trip" because I was known to be on my way to do a menial errand and just out of nowhere say something like, what direction do yall want to go? We'd agree on a direction, and just go! No destination was necessary! We'd just go! We did that so much when I was younger and I still do it occasionally now. It seems like Sag Venus, by the way you describe, basically want to "experience" together which is something I really like. Being that I have a Cancer Venus, I sometimes worry that I may call or text too much but its a conscious decision! I may text her once a week but I want to text her more, maybe every two or 3 days but I don't because I want her to have her space. I figured I'd let her set the tone of contact (this is speaking in general terms). ------------------
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posted December 03, 2012 08:54 PM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Oh fun!I'm a Sag Venus. I've always liked travel, and back when I was single, that was one way a guy could get me to go out with him. Offer to take me someplace exotic, strange, or mysterious, and I would be up for romance in that context, more often than not. Edit: By romance, I don't mean sex. I mean having a relationship get started or move to the next level or whatever. I wasn't that easy.
Traveling is something I like! I guess that is something I can attribute to my Triple Air personal planets. Thank you for your reply! ------------------
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posted December 03, 2012 09:17 PM
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
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(Cap Sun/Vir Asc) [QUOTE][b]women with Sagittarius Venuses how do they show they are interested?
If the feeling was mutual, (if I were sure I was as attracted/interested in the one displaying or confessing interest in me), there'd be no beating around the bush about it. I find it difficult to hide my enthusiasm in such cases. But - if I was unsure of their depth of interest or sincerity in interest towards me, or was uncertain how I really felt about them.... I'd keep them at a distance, usually letting them know outright that I had reservations on pursuing anything at that moment, (being polite, suggesting friendship - over courtship). If I was completely disinterested on the other hand, I'd want them to know that there was no chance, but be empathetic as possible in dismissing any advances and rebuttals. --- In other words - I can't hide my emotions with people I've just met any better than those I know and love for ever, the only right approach would be for me to be open and honest to the other person. --- something like that~ (trying not to let Uranus, or Mars/Pluto, or my Taurus Moon chime in is hard... but, this is as straight from my Saggy Venus as I can be. sorry.)Okay, so basically, you are direct. You won't have the guy trying to guess as to how you feel. You will be direct and tell him if you are sure he cares for you. I like that in people. It seems like Sag Venus does not like mind games and really respect honesty and truth. quote:
How do they show their love?
It would depend on the setting~ I'm not the type to drag anything out, and can be very impatient at times... In a romantic way, the person I had feelings for would definitely notice the things I'd do for them, actions speak louder than words, right? I'm not good with words when my emotions are high anyway... I'd want to keep them amused, and keep the blood flowing... (take that however your mind lets you) If they were down, I'd get them out, if they were upset I'd give them space, if they needed a shoulder, then I'd want to be the first person they came too. It's important to really show that sincerity with your partner, I believe. And, the favourite word for Saggy Venus (in my experience) is "share"... you want to share your interests, and escapes, ideas, and feelings with your partner... and be able to trust them to be honest, and open likewise with theirs. >.<; (I'm sorry I write so much...) So, after you have gauged the guy is genuine and he cares for you, you have moved to tell him the feelings are mutual and now you show him you care for him by trying to make him happy in a natural way. That natural way is basically, "experiencing" with them and trying to be there for them. Sounds a lot like Cancer Venus but with a bit of directness and the ability to give space added to it. This is really nice, I like this about Sag Venus. quote:
What is your definition of men being clingy
Clingy is alright during the right moments to some extent --- but, when someone starts to suffocate you, or negatively attach themselves to you and all you do~ (needing to call a bajillion times, showing up wherever you are at every place you go, and nagging about spending too much time apart --- for whatever unrealistic reason - be it work, family, or hobbies) those are some big nono's and it sends up a red flag that the other person doesn't trust their SO anymore. If you don't have trust you have nothing, or so I was taught. I don't mean to suggest I get out a lot, just for the record... lol Just to clarify - I'm saying when you (SAG-Ven person or not) have other priorities to take care of or are active in the community or fitness, and then your partner starts to misinterpret that time spent apart as meaning something it doesn't... lol I hope this isn't too hard to follow - just, I'm not talking about valid reasons for a person to get suspicious of the mate - like constantly being out with the guys/gals, at clubs, or mysteriously disappearing at odd hours of the night. Only when the clingy-ness comes from distrust --- or is damaging to the livelihood of (not just a SAG-Ven of course) but really anyone.... there are fine lines between wanting to be with someone 24/7 and actually trying to force yourself between them and who they are.... that kinda' clingy-ness is like an airhorn going off right next to your ear~ It would definitely make anyone upset, or ready to run. I can definitely respect this! Though I have a Cancer Venus and Libra Moon (two relationship oriented signs lol), my Gem Sun & Merc definitely do not like over-clingyness. I absilutely respect personal space, just as long as you let me in that personal space from time to time. I don't really have the need to be under someone 24/7 because I need air sometimes, and variety. Not variety from my S/O, but variety of life. I have a LOT of hobbies lol, (Im a Gem Sun afterall). So I can see where Sag Venus like it in the moment. Seems like you Sag Venus like everything in moderation with some extra from time to time. quote:
when a man you are interested in isn't showing enough attention/contact
In my earlier years - I couldn't get enough of either from someone I felt deeply interested in, to be honest. But, as I matured I think that things balanced out... I'd like to know that when apart they were thinking of me, as I would be them... so I'd hope they'd be the one to make the end of the day/week call to check in (out of concern for well being not out of distrust) - I don't need a call every hour, or every night... I don't need to now what they had for breakfast, lunch, and dinner ~ but it's fie if they want to share that information.... I don't need PDA, but I don't mind the once in a blue moon, surprise attacks~ lol I'd rather they not blatantly ogle the competition in my presence, but I don't need them constantly staring me down either... I think overall -casual- contact is best, and sincere, genuine affection/attention should be relative to the environment and mood~ Besides, they'd know when I wanted "all eyes on the prize"~ Sag-Ven really isn't the coy type~Okay, so again, you Sag Venuses like everything in moderation with a little extra as surprise from time to time. I'm the same way in I don't need to know someone's every move but if they wanted to share, I'd listen. I guess thats a slight compatibility in with cancer and sag venus, the want to nurture, but getting it done differently. quote:
As a Sag Venus, what is it that you really appreciate from a guy you are dating?
Respect --- respect sorta' encapsulates the whole concept of love, trust, and loyalty.... those are the only three expectations I'd place on anyone I loved. Add a dash of spontaneity, and a willingness to participate in my sometimes insane adventures (be it an uncharted, unplanned drive to a really unique diner I just saw on the tele, or a planned camping trip/hike, or jetting off to Costa Rica just because the urge hit me)~ that's the sort of fella' I admire and appreciate knowing, and sharing my time, (love) with... lol I am sooooo big on not placing cumbersome expectations on people in a relationship so I can definitely understand where you are coming from with the whole respect thing. I also like to keep it low pressure. And those trips are right up Gemini and Libra's alley! ~~~~~~~~~~ too much Venus talk for me! I'm moving back to Pluto now~ ~~~ (I totally agree with Faith and Yin's answers too!!!) haha --- spot on! [/QUOTE] Thank you for your reply SaturnineMoth! I replied in bold above! It seems as if Sag and Cancer Venuses have a lot more in common than not. They want the same things, but take a different approach to get the job done. ------------------
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posted December 04, 2012 07:31 AM
Anyone else?------------------
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posted December 05, 2012 09:30 AM
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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
Anyone else?
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posted December 05, 2012 07:44 PM
Well I know we are supposed to be flirts but I don't think I am. I'm a little on the shy side evn though I have a Libra sun (Pisces Asc). I do the eye contact thing when I'm interested and I smile A LOT. What puts me off? BOREDOM! Too much stuffiness and convention and materialism makes me yawn pretty quickly. I'd live in a mud hut tomorrow with my man if I could, rather than a nice brick house with all the latest mod cons, that's why I can't do Capricorn! I LOVE LOVE LOVE to laugh with my man and I love to do lots of things together. Sitting on the couch watching movies and eating popcorn has it's place but my idea of a perfect relationship is where we go camping, go for drives with no destination in mind, just drive, getting up at 5am to go and splash eachother in the water at the beach and watch the sunrise. I think the girl in The Note Book had a Sag Venus, the part where she just jumped out of the boat fully clothed. That's me.IP: Logged |
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posted December 05, 2012 07:46 PM
Oh and someone mentioned something about playing games, I seem to attract Cancerians a lot and their head games drive me insane. Sagittarius is an honest, blunt, upfront sign and I find this a major turn off. It's babyish.IP: Logged |
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posted December 05, 2012 07:58 PM
^ Capricorns with Sag Venuses like that too lol just sayin'~ <- least materialistic Capricorn on the planet~
we can have mud huts side by side Libreo <3
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posted December 05, 2012 09:48 PM
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posted December 05, 2012 11:55 PM
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Originally posted by Libreo:
Well I know we are supposed to be flirts but I don't think I am. I'm a little on the shy side evn though I have a Libra sun (Pisces Asc). I do the eye contact thing when I'm interested and I smile A LOT. What puts me off? BOREDOM! Too much stuffiness and convention and materialism makes me yawn pretty quickly. I'd live in a mud hut tomorrow with my man if I could, rather than a nice brick house with all the latest mod cons, that's why I can't do Capricorn! I LOVE LOVE LOVE to laugh with my man and I love to do lots of things together. Sitting on the couch watching movies and eating popcorn has it's place but my idea of a perfect relationship is where we go camping, go for drives with no destination in mind, just drive, getting up at 5am to go and splash eachother in the water at the beach and watch the sunrise. I think the girl in The Note Book had a Sag Venus, the part where she just jumped out of the boat fully clothed. That's me.
I guess this is why Gems and Sags get along well even though they are opposite because it sounds like both signs like the same things! I HATE routine and LOVE spontaneity! All those things you described sounds right up my alley!
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posted December 06, 2012 01:10 AM
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posted December 09, 2012 12:21 PM
I love confidence. Nothing makes me run away more than someone who is creepily overbearing, or is too scared to say how they feel. I like adventure on a date, whether it's going to an art museum to view the latest exhibition, or skydiving. I don't like expensive restaurants, but I like places with character, like an unusual menu for example.I show my interest by being straight to the point and asking someone out, but my moon in libra reins me in a little. IP: Logged |
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posted December 09, 2012 01:24 PM
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Originally posted by dadevi:
I love confidence. Nothing makes me run away more than someone who is creepily overbearing, or is too scared to say how they feel. I like adventure on a date, whether it's going to an art museum to view the latest exhibition, or skydiving. I don't like expensive restaurants, but I like places with character, like an unusual menu for example.I show my interest by being straight to the point and asking someone out, but my moon in libra reins me in a little.
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