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Got Gemini??
Knowflake

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posted December 04, 2012 08:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do you get along with your opposite sign friendship or relationship-wise?

Sag are opposite me and I get along with them VERY well. Maybe its because my Grandmother is a Sag and I love her to pieces lol. Or maybe its because I have a Libra Moon/Pluto and it sextiles Sag.

I dated an Aqua with a late Sag stellium once and she is among my favorite ex's.

How do you get along with your opposite signs and why do you think you do or don't get along?

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

And yes, I'm a guy!

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suireen
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posted December 04, 2012 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for suireen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmmm.. Not that you've mention this, I don't have any gemini friends that are girls.. Although I did have 2 guys whom I used to like a long time ago who are Geminis. Yes, they are wondeful friends. ^^ But a bit flirty.. I don't talk to them anymore though.. One of them moved, and one of them.. Idk he just stopped talking to me.. -3-'
Saggy sun~~~!

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posted December 04, 2012 08:30 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarsCollide     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sagittarians and Geminis are a natural pairing, opposites though they may be. I have seen MANY such astro couples.

In response to the thread questions: No, I don't...definitely not in the long term.

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Sun in Pisces
Moon in Sagittarius
Scorpio Ascendant
Mars/Venus in Taurus
Aries in Mercury
MC in Leo

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Thermidor
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posted December 04, 2012 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thermidor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I get along with Pisces, but I can't totally trust them, they're to wimp, not reliable enough, prisonners of their feelings. But I really like them, they're listening.

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Pisces-Sweety
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posted December 04, 2012 08:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Pisces-Sweety     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah I get along with Virgos. Mostly men though. I dont know many Virgo women. One of my exes was Virgo . He wasn't very verbal, he mostly showed his love instead. He definitely was my stronger half. He always tried to find a practical solution when I needed help. I never found anyone who was able to lift me
up when I was down. He was the first person I would go to. He was great. I really like virgos.

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Thermidor
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posted December 04, 2012 09:02 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Thermidor     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, thank you ^^

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LionFish
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posted December 04, 2012 09:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LionFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Virgo Suns, not so much. At first we seem to get along splendidly. Eventually though, we start nit-picking at each other until we're just bickering for the sake of it. Not fun.

Virgo Moons on the other hand

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Ceridwen
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posted December 04, 2012 09:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
For me that would be Gemini; I suppose I get along with them; there is no dislike on my part, but to be honest it is not an attractive sign to me either.

my 7th house is in Gemini and its ruler in Sagittarius conjunct Sun in 1st house, and I am more strongly drawn to Sagittarians to be honest.

Actually neither of the signs falling in my 5th, 7th or 8th house really "does" it for me.


However, having said that most of my friends have a Cancer ASC or Cancer-Moon, in my 8th house. Additionally they usually have an Air sign emphasis, Libra and Aquarius, but interestingly no Geminis. (Ruler of my 11th house is in Libra, and uranus is conjunct my 11th house cusp).

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sand
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posted December 04, 2012 09:11 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio suns. It depends. Not the dumb ones.

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mir
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posted December 04, 2012 09:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes I definetely can with AQUA, as long as it's not 'in love'.. I've Mars/NN in Aqua so that would explain a lot. I've given up pursuing them a long time ago as I simply don't seem to be able to connect on a deeper level. My other personal planets may only confirm it; scorp-moon, cancer-venus, virgo-asc./merc.

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RedScorp
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posted December 04, 2012 10:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for RedScorp     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Tauruses are pretty cool! Especially with some water.

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SaturnineMoth
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posted December 04, 2012 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I love my Cancer sisters and brothers~ !

(but with the guys it has to stay platonic, I find.)

-- A matter of taking the good with the bad:

Caps and Cancers are both moody signs, for me, dealing with Cancer women's negative spirals is natural, I love to be there for them, encouraging, and comforting.... but, I find they seldom can handle a negative Capricorn spiral. They might mean well, but in my experience, during dark times - and my cancer girlfriends know this fully well about me --- I need to be left to my solitude. I'll dig myself out~ it's what works. Then, we spend some time apart, and come right back together like nothing ever happened. I don't get in fights, or really find that I have many differences with the Cancer women in my life. In fact we've shared everything from clothes, to crushes... it really is a matter of flipping a magnet around... at times you crash together, and have a special connection, at others you gotta just drift away...but then it pulls you back in when the time comes. <3 Cancer

I've really only had one experience with a Cancer sun guy~ and it was enough. There was nothing wrong with him per se.... in fact, at tht time I was the one living out through my Sagittarius (venus) side... He was all about dedicating his time to his career, his vehicles, and his... bad habit. And, I wanted to just have fun. (17 years of being teacher's pet and I'd finally been overcome by the need to rebel and let loose. Boy, did I ever.) So, while we got on well, and he was a super "nice guy" (I know how awful that is taken by some men).... it just wasn't going -anywhere- ! emotionally it was a failure, intellectually a failure, and we didn't share the same ambitions/goals at that time.

The biggest issue in that relationship was in his need to have his desires indulged, to have full satisfaction on his part~ And, as big/driven as I am on serving (pleasing), and bringing my partner all the comforts I can afford. (Cap Sun - Tau Moon - Vir Asc = help others/comfort others) ...there's gotta be some mutual payout. Which he didn't care to provide at all. He was a very selfish lover in that regard. Some time later - after I'd ended it - we'd remained amicable friends~ even seeing each other around quite often... He'd fessed up at one point that he absolutely didn't care if his female companion was satisfied... (think you know what I mean).... which is just a damn shame. ----- selfish bugger. But, at the same time, he was a really, truly, amazingly sweet, and caring guy.

My friendships with Cancers is supported by having Cancer rule h11~ with Moon in Taurus, trine my Sun. ~ it probably doesn't help to have that Moon conjunct Chiron~ I do get burnt by my Cancer friends more often than I'd like.... there's a selfishness in all of them... but, you gotta take the bad with the good... and the good in them is always more abundant, and their mistakes are always forgivable to me.

Cancers

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You will do foolish things, but do them with enthusiasm.
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libraschoice77
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posted December 04, 2012 10:33 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for libraschoice77     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I get along well with Aries Sun, and even more so if they have a water or earth moon. Had a very good Aries friend years back, he always use to say I made him think and perceive things differently. Relationships with your opposite sign can be important IMO, you can learn alot from them.

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StarsCollide
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posted December 04, 2012 10:38 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarsCollide     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by LionFish:
Virgo Suns, not so much. At first we seem to get along splendidly. Eventually though, we start nit-picking at each other until we're just bickering for the sake of it. Not fun.

Virgo Moons on the other hand


Well said. Me, too, on both counts. Virgo moons and I are A-okay.

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Sun: Pisces
Moon: Sagittarius
Ascendant: Scorpio
Mars/Venus: Taurus
Mercury: Aries
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chosen?
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posted December 04, 2012 10:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for chosen?     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
whats scorpios opposite?

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SaturnineMoth
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posted December 04, 2012 10:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ Chosen?

Taurus

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hannaramaa
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posted December 04, 2012 11:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Libras have to be a certain type of Libra for me to like them. Otherwise I can see through their BS "charm." I prefer Libra/Virgos to Libra/Scorpio people.

However, I adore my DSC - Sagittarius! They're awesome.

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paulflo
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posted December 04, 2012 11:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for paulflo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes i do.

i was going to marry a leo and i have lots of leo friends..but we do clash as well, i guess its all part of the dynamic.

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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted December 04, 2012 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarlightSmileSupreme     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get along with all but Leo.

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inthemisosoup
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posted December 04, 2012 12:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for inthemisosoup     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get along well with Geminis. We can make superficial friendships but they are just that to me--a little superficial. Not superficial as in, cares about things that are vapid and unimportant but I don't get the depth or integrity I look for in relationships with them. If a Gemini has water (most likely Cancer) influence, it works better for me.

The ruler of my fifth is gemini, so I should supposedly like them romantically (and I have dated one in the past, but he had a grand water trine and it still didn't work out), but Mercury is in Scorpio, in the 9th house, and trining my moon. So there ya have it.

Opposite signs are supposedly able to coexist quite well, and there's an exciting buzz about them, but there needs to be more than just an opposite sun signs (maybe if sun aspects each other that would help some) to create a lasting relationship.

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posted December 04, 2012 01:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StarsCollide     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by inthemisosoup:
Opposite signs are supposedly able to coexist quite well, and there's an exciting buzz about them, but there needs to be more than just an opposite sun signs (maybe if sun aspects each other that would help some) to create a lasting relationship.
Supposedly is a good word, because it doesn't apply to my Sun sign opposite.

I get opposites attract envy, because I see Libras and Aries, Geminis and Sagittarians, Leos and Aquarians, etc. all hit it off.

Not so, not with my opposite. I don't like the conclusions I draw from that.

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Sun: Pisces
Moon: Sagittarius
Ascendant: Scorpio
Mars/Venus: Taurus
Mercury: Aries
MC: Leo

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anost
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posted December 04, 2012 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for anost     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've had mostly bad experiences with Taurus people, but I have a strong Sagittarius influence in my chart. I get on very well with Gemini women, with watery moons, but not the men.

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Odette
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posted December 04, 2012 06:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes!! I get along extremely well with Librans of both genders - specially the ones with a Scorpio Mercury trine mine.
It's very rare that I'll have a problem with a Libra person.. Actually I think it only happened once in my entire.

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earthypisces
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posted December 04, 2012 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for earthypisces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Truth be told, I adore most Virgos, and get along better with them more so than any other sun sign. I guess it's because of all of the Earth in my chart.

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Pisces Sun
Capricorn Moon/Venus
Taurus Ascendant
Aquarius Mercury
Leo Mars

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Suntiger
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posted December 04, 2012 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Suntiger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get along with Aquarius, both genders. Though I have more male Aquarius friends than female.

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Leo Sun, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Rising.

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