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Topic: Cap Mooners (Aqua sun)
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bullseye
Knowflake Posts: 59
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 03:35 PM
  
Cap in Venus toowould you ever say something you DIDNT mean to a girl just to keep her around? Is this like a Capricorn moon? I don't know if its the Sun/Moon or Venus that signifies this but I'm confused. I get these elaborate messages every now and again telling me how much I'm appreciated and how I'm such an amazing person and how lucky this person is to have me in his life. He gets upset when the thought of another boy comes into play even if its someone who has just complimented me (I'm well known and established and I do get very public proclamations from time to time). I feel reassured and I do think theyre genuine but I dont know if Im the only one getting these. The fact that he gets really upset when he feels like I'm moving on proves to me that he is a very Cappy (stability is altered, that scares him) but he hasn't committed to anything yet (Aqua sun?). Hes also all over the internet liking pictures of girls who are nothing like me and who portray themselves in a really outwardly sexual way which is so offputting (not saying that I don't like to enjoy myself but I think there is power in mystery and I love being able to surprise someone with that kind of sexiness versus baring it all for the world). I just almost feel like he is settling for me when in reality all he wants are the girls he seems to like pictures of because there is a very very consistent trend. Help? IP: Logged |
Odette
Knowflake Posts: 3667
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Registered: May 2012
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posted December 04, 2012 03:40 PM
Those picture can just be like watching porn though.
Would you have a problem with him watching porn for example?It doesn't mean much really. IP: Logged |
blugrey
Knowflake Posts: 1006
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Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 03:53 PM
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VenusDiSirius
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posted December 04, 2012 06:24 PM
I can't even number the times I read here that a relationship was rocky because of that liking business. Seriously,FB ruins lives. Or maybe FB is **** -arena,where they flaunt their macho likes. Nothing is pervvy in secret these days 
If only FB could devise a way for boys to,not like,but brand women on FB... Like cattle or something. IP: Logged |
TrueTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 349
From: California
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 04, 2012 08:24 PM
Similar to my past situation w a cappy moon guy. Does not want to commit, but notices everything and gets jealous...not in a mean way, but definitely makes it known. Jokes about it, but cappy moons will never admit to their feelings.
The guy doesn't know what he wants. He is torn between his desire to be alone and his desire for lovely women around, yet he knows that to keep a wonan around entails responsibility which he fears.
His Venus is the way he seduces you. In capricorn, he will act like he wears the pants in the relationship even tho you're not exclusive. He will also be authoritative. But his moon in Cap indicates that he dislikes emotions and avoids it at all costs...I think it takes an extremely long time for them to finally commit, esp. If they lack water.
In any case, they always want to play by their own rules and are cold toward other ppl's emotions. This may not be how they perceive it, but being uncomfortable w emotion makes them want to ignore them. It's easier.
He has sun in Taurus, Venus and Mars in Aries.My experience with an Aqua Sun with Cappy Moon was even worse. He had Venus and Mars in Pisces...sometimes he was so cruel. Whatever feeling I'd express, if it wasn't positive, then he'd shoot me down claiming I was drama. These ppl can be insensitive. It almost seems they pick and choose who they want to be nice to. Doesn't live by the golden rule...this one was superficial and arrogant. Did not live up to the mature Capricorn trait...i think that when a Cap doesn't enlighten oneself they embody the cold, indifferent, cruel sign of Cappy.
Similarly, if a Scorpio can become the calm in a storm and not hold grudges, they can learn to be more understanding. In the end, their behavior is far from mature. Taurus/Scorpio/Cancer IP: Logged |
Fishy Phoenix
Newflake Posts: 17
From: San Diego
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 05, 2012 07:50 PM
...this is funny but it sounds like me when I was younger...The intensity of wanting to keep you in his web and is jealous of others.If it bothers you why not just ask? Then there is no guessing. If he takes the time to say how grateful he is you are in his life that can't be anything but good. You don't know for sure about others getting these types of messages. Maybe that is paranoia. I have Cancer moon and I can say for certain that these emotions are genuine. Stability in a relationship means EVERYTHING to a Cancer. That should explain some of that. I have to say that most all guys will look at a hot girl wearing a piece of floss for clothing...but...most won't take her home! Maybe this is just my Scorpio talking but...why not dress up like one of those girls and have a fun time with it for a night. Show him you can be a little sexy and slutty sometimes. Trust me, it'll keep him on his toes and flip the role if you know what I mean  IP: Logged |
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