posted December 05, 2012 08:20 PM            

Story: I was recently out at a bar with some close friends. My sweet Cap friend Mel asked her friend to join us.

It just so happened she was an attractive and successful black woman near my age group. We got along quite well and I made sure to pay a little more attention to her so she felt more comfortable with a new group. I believe she was a Cancer.

A few drinks later she finds out I'm a Scorpio and asked me directly and with anticipation if it was true. I said that I was a Scorp sun sign and before I could utter another word she stuck her tongue in my mouth (literally) and said lets go!

I stepped back and did the one thing all Scorps do when in a difficult situation. Classically. Calm face with little expression and no emotion.

See, my guy friends think I'm totally gay sometimes and especially here. A hot girl wants to take me home right then and I said no!! What is wrong with me? They would ask...

Here is where she went wrong:

All the Scorps I know are actually quite picky. At least the evolved ones.

We like to be in control of our situations. Not all situations...just ours. A forceful tongue in the mouth is NOT the way to go...but here IS the way...

Be sexy but classy. Think of seductive Marilyn but not too slutty. Act like you are just . out . of . reach. Maybe just out of our league. Subtlety is a very powerful tool.

Trust me, we notice EVERYTHING. We pay very close attention to body language, eye contact, and especially facial gestures. Many people attribute extra psychic ability to Scorps when most of the time we are just reading the signs that are quite obvious to us. We are natural experts and unspoken language.

Additionally, we LOVE things which are below the surface. Like poetry. There are words on paper but the real meaning is in the depth of the poem.

Be subtle, classy, and especially sexy. You can make the Scorpio traits work in your favor.

It's also a good idea to put the idea of sex in his head. Once he can imagine that scene, I'm sure he will be the one doing the work.

posted December 05, 2012 10:08 PM            

Ahhh...the 'look' game. We are experts.

So, we MUST look away sometimes. In this case we really do get some very specific psychic information from sustained eye contact. It becomes uncomfortable often.

Here is what I would do in your place to get the ball rolling...

Look at him directly and on purpose with a sly and sexy look....but NOT obvious, NOT desperate, NOT needy...just a sexual sort of glance for a couple seconds... then a genuine sexy smile and then look away shyly...

That will certainly steam things up and get it moving in the right direction.

Just a side note...he could be like me with a Pisces Ascendant or moon. In that case some shyness can stand in the way.

Tip: We are Super Ultra Mega strategic. Leave him with advance notice of when you'll be around, when, where, what, how.... send out some intel out in the open so he can plan a 'casual' "oops, we just bumped into one another" "so. I've seen you around. you're cute" etc...

Get it?