posted December 05, 2012 08:20 PM
I'm a strong Scorpio so maybe I can help.
Oh, and a male Story: I was recently out at a bar with some close friends. My sweet Cap friend Mel asked her friend to join us.
It just so happened she was an attractive and successful black woman near my age group. We got along quite well and I made sure to pay a little more attention to her so she felt more comfortable with a new group. I believe she was a Cancer.
A few drinks later she finds out I'm a Scorpio and asked me directly and with anticipation if it was true. I said that I was a Scorp sun sign and before I could utter another word she stuck her tongue in my mouth (literally) and said lets go!
I stepped back and did the one thing all Scorps do when in a difficult situation. Classically. Calm face with little expression and no emotion.
See, my guy friends think I'm totally gay sometimes and especially here. A hot girl wants to take me home right then and I said no!! What is wrong with me? They would ask...
Here is where she went wrong:
All the Scorps I know are actually quite picky. At least the evolved ones.
We like to be in control of our situations. Not all situations...just ours. A forceful tongue in the mouth is NOT the way to go...but here IS the way...
Be sexy but classy. Think of seductive Marilyn but not too slutty. Act like you are just . out . of . reach. Maybe just out of our league. Subtlety is a very powerful tool.
Trust me, we notice EVERYTHING. We pay very close attention to body language, eye contact, and especially facial gestures. Many people attribute extra psychic ability to Scorps when most of the time we are just reading the signs that are quite obvious to us. We are natural experts and unspoken language.
Additionally, we LOVE things which are below the surface. Like poetry. There are words on paper but the real meaning is in the depth of the poem.
Be subtle, classy, and especially sexy. You can make the Scorpio traits work in your favor.
It's also a good idea to put the idea of sex in his head. Once he can imagine that scene, I'm sure he will be the one doing the work.
Good luck from your sexy Scorpio friend