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posted December 06, 2012 06:42 PM            

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my family could help me but the college is here in salinas and my parents dnt live in salinas and they want me to finish college so i can be a MA

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posted December 06, 2012 06:50 PM            

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Call them. You need an adult to help you. They don't have to be with you, they can still advise you from home and perhaps do some basic things you don't seem able to do for yourself (and they should know what's going on anyway). And once they're aware of what's going on then they're also the most likely to be aware if something goes wrong in case your sitch goes from bad to worse, and knowing your family is involved is will hopefully discourage your Aries stalker.

And again: restraining order. And get help in case the Aries reacts badly to the said order.

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posted December 06, 2012 06:56 PM            

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i am the leo he is the aries.. i told my parents about tht he is texting other gurls talking to them and they told me that to stick around till im done w skool so tht way i dnt have to depend on him or noone .. i guess im stuck w him for 10 months or a year ughh i love him but i cant be w him itz too much he said he hasnt been w noone else but i still need the respect tht he cant talk to othr women ..

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posted December 06, 2012 06:57 PM            

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Did you tell your parents that he bought you a frigging RING, paid a DEPOSIT for a WEDDING, and said he wasn't going to go away?

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posted December 06, 2012 07:02 PM            

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i only told my parents abut the ring and i told my mom what he said that he doesnt want me to b w none else.. my mom said he is crazy .. i didnt tell my parents abut him not letting me be happy

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posted December 06, 2012 07:03 PM            

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Good luck.

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posted December 06, 2012 07:04 PM            

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itz a hard case i should of not got skool here

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posted December 06, 2012 07:05 PM            

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Did I miss something here? They're 21 and have a child together, he wants to get married... has the church booked...and she says no because I think you're cheating on me?

Why is everyone freaking out like he's a monster?

He constantly tells her he loves her and if she doesn't answer the phone he texts her that he loves her...?

This sounds like a regular, highly dysfunctional relationship...poor communication, mixed messages....

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posted December 06, 2012 07:10 PM            

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well he is talking to other women like he has done tht scince we were going out i didnt knw .. i find out when i was living w him and he was still talking to them and he talk to an ex..

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posted December 06, 2012 07:15 PM            

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posted December 06, 2012 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by quinnlycanastro:
Why is everyone freaking out like he's a monster?

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For a damn good reason but since I'm not returning to this thread I'm not going to bother to explain what you should already know.

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posted December 06, 2012 07:22 PM            

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She's not once said she's afraid of him, or mentioned violence.

This is all about him texting/talking to other women.

A$$hole yes, but dangerous?

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posted December 06, 2012 07:25 PM            

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i know i told him look who u became with that phone he did listen i give him a lot of chances didn't listen oh well im going pray for now because my education is important so i wont have to depend on none

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posted December 06, 2012 07:30 PM            

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yes he has became violent he was grabbing me when i got his phone i threw it and he slammed it in the floor and yesthe other day i got his phone he got out of the shower to take it away from me because he hides his phone he is violent at time

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