posted December 08, 2012 01:31 PM            

How do you like to be contacted? Everyday? Every other day? Once a week? Less often?

Please differentiate if the rules change if you are committed to each other and in a relationship or you two are just getting to know each other.

I'll start.

I'm 34 male Gemini with Mercury in Gemini conjunct my Sun. If I just met someone, the standard is contact every 3 or 4 days. After a few dates and the chemistry is really good, every other day becomes fine. If we are a few months in and are committed, that's when every day becomes fine and no sooner unless its important!

When I was much younger, I wouldn't call a woman for weeks after exchanging numbers. Now that I'm older and more mature, I like to think those waiting games are quite unnecessary and foolish.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted December 08, 2012 03:19 PM            

I'm a bit contradictory with my need for contact from partners... I don't like routine, and prefer casual and spontaneous interaction in all things~ but, at the same time I hate to worry... so having a call at least once a week would be the bare minimum in a dating situation. once a night or every other night if we had anything of concern or interest to discuss. (like if one party was often busy or away with work... I wouldn't want calls over trivial matters nor would I make them... makes sense right?) But, at the same time if I cared I'd want to know they were alright~ haha --- so a brief call during those kinda' circumstances is super meaningful and works wonders on alleviating my worrywart tendency.

In my youth I had a much harder time being patient for a lovers calls, or visits~ I don't take kindly to the waiting game and will very unsympathetically end things if I'm left hanging. I don't care what the excuse was, and not a bit for mind games... but, everything was interesting back then and I could literally keep someone on the phone for ages. (like I go on and on here forever typing) --- but even worse!~ x_X luckily, those guys back then were just as happy to talk at length - and not many of them tried tomfoolery tactics, like suspense-building distance games....

I dunno if that's sun or merc driven about me though - it's more likely to do with my third house and Sag planets...

posted December 08, 2012 03:32 PM            

*I* will do the "hunting". If I am being pursued too strongly below will happen in exact order:

1: I will be turned off.
2: Communication will decrease from my side.
3: There will never be a romantic future. As friends? Perhaps.

In terms of communication I NEED at least ONE "good morning" or "hello, how are you" or "let's meet on Thursday at x time and x place" or "have a nice day, speak later" per day.

If I get flaked on when a meeting is set up, you're dead, unless excuse is really good.

Sadly, I live in a city where flakiness is a DNA trait and it makes me pi$$ed the F off! I have had SO many people come crawling back when grass wasn't greener but in fact, burnt to the ground, but by that time my view on that person has gone from A+ to F- and it can't be switched back.

posted December 08, 2012 03:46 PM            

Em. I talk a lot. I don't follow any rules (wait this amount of days and so on). If I'm interested, I end up talking nonstop about everything under the sun until one of us asks for a time out. I don't change when I'm in a relationship. I still talk and joke a lot lol.

I'm quite blunt about it, too. If I like someone I blurt it out. No shame here. If they don't return the feelings, I move on. I just think waiting around is a waste of time when I can be doing something fun, and I hate thinking about the "What if" situations.

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Leo Sun, Gemini Moon, Scorpio Rising.

posted December 08, 2012 04:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
What is your sign and what do you think proper or unproper dating communication etiquette entails? How old are you? Do you want to talk to and reach out to the object of your affection daily? Every other day? Once a week? Less often?

How do you like to be contacted? Everyday? Every other day? Once a week? Less often?

Please differentiate if the rules change if you are committed to each other and in a relationship or you two are just getting to know each other.

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Cancer Sun 3rd, Gemini Moon 1st/Venus 2nd/1st, Taurus Mars 12th/Asc

I prefer daily text contact even if its just a "Good Morning" or "Good Night". I don't expect to talk to someone everyday over the phone that's too much. If you can't talk or text just tell me everyone gets busy I understand but if someone doesn't contact me for weeks don't expect a text, call or visit anytime soon.

Just getting to know someone probably requires more effort on both sides especially if you don't know someone's communication habits and that getting to know each other phase is suppose to be fun and not a chore. Your suppose to want to contact one another and hear each other's voice,how their day went even physically interact with one another if you live near one another. Long distance relationships require more phone calls and skyping etc/

posted December 08, 2012 05:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Got Gemini??:
What is your sign and what do you think proper or unproper dating communication etiquette entails? How old are you? Do you want to talk to and reach out to the object of your affection daily? Every other day? Once a week? Less often?

How do you like to be contacted? Everyday? Every other day? Once a week? Less often?

Please differentiate if the rules change if you are committed to each other and in a relationship or you two are just getting to know each other.

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I'm a Libra Sun, sextile ASC, un-aspected. I have Jupiter conjunct Venus in Scorp, in the 11th. My 7th house is empty; Mercury my DES ruler is in Scorp in the 11th. My Mars is trine Pluto and in the 8th house in Cancer.

I'm 18 years old. I don't like contacting the person every single day though my Cancer Mars + Scorpio Venus does crave a good dose of loyalty and intimacy. I don't like being ignored for more than a two or three days by someone close to me. But I'm learning how to detach so if it's a new relationship, I respect their space and value mine and don't expect to hear from them every day. I give flexibility but sometimes I can become insecure [Cancer] which makes me want to ice them out [Scorpio] to protect my feelings and not be vulnerable. So I guess if they're too flaky and not talking to me at least every few days, I will become obsessed about it but that dies out quickly enough, and I'll ice them out.