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Topic: do you have good relationships with the sign or planet in your 3rd
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aquaguy91 Moderator Posts: 4766 From: tennessee Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 03:59 PM
maybe its just because i'm soo wind dominant but i value communication above all else when it comes to relationships. the moon falls in my third and i've noticed i communicate best with cancer women( libra a close 2nd) and as a result i have had the most success with them dating wise... cancer women are also more attracted to me then every other sign(thats probably because cancer falls in my 5th though). has anyone else noticed a pattern with this?IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1157 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 04:23 PM
I have Saturn in Pisces in the 3rd, 3H in Aquarius (edit, forgot to mention this). I communicate best with deeply profound, soulful people - other artists who are mature, or literally mature by age people... older people who have an interest in the arts. I do well with talking to Capricorn people. Only Cap who I have a harder time with has all these stressful Aqua planets that are hard to deal with. I also look for soulful communication in a partner since Saturn trines Mercury, my Descendant ruler. I exude this and try to find similar traits in others. Hard part is that many people of my generation do not exude profoundness, intense artistic interest, deeper thinking, selflessness, or unusual maturity. I'm very much aware of how alone I feel in my personality and how hard it is to get along with younger people. Mercury Descendant is supposed to make me have an easier time getting along with younger people, but Pisces Saturn in the 3rd trine it just makes it a little more awkward. As for the Aqua influence, I think I do communicate quite well with Aqua influenced people 70-80% of the time, usually just with Sun and/or Merc. But my Scorpio influence and Saturn influence craves a more committed approach sometimes so it bothers me how these people can relate to me artistically and with liking weird things and then go MIA and never talk to me for weeks and weeks. IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 415 From: The Asylum Garden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 04:32 PM
Hmmm 3h Scorpio w/ Mars Pluto and Saturn Male/female Capricorns (Sun/Moon/Merc/Ven/ASC) and I tend to get along fairly well (Capricorn 5h Sun tho) - very sibling-ish/filial~ so that goes with the theme of the 3rd well too~ I have had some great friendships (not always deep or long lasting) with Aries women - and had my *best* romantic relation with a male Aries. -- 8h Aries *I do get on well with people who put things in my 8h too so I guess that this makes sens as well~ But Pluto domicile Scorpio ~ I'd like to *think* I get along okay with Scorpions of both genders - and that maybe I'd be attracted to them in some subconscious way~ lol I know a few lady Scorpion Sun/Moon/Venus/Merc that have amazing personalities~ and we clicked really well after some -initial- awkwardness/unease in our acquaintances. It's easy to trust them over other signs I've found, at least for me. And, it's one of the signs I rarely ever have any big disagreements with (views/tastes) - and even when there is a disagreement there's no actual climatic explosion of tempers~ like there is when I fight over stupid stuff with my Sagittarius or Cancer friends lol~ it's very, very anticlimactic actually! ~ hahaha I had one disagreement with my long time Scorpion bff - (rest her soul) and it was because of a disagreement with another of our bffs' behaviors/decisions... she just stood up and looked at me --- very perceptive and very receptive energies between us~ I sat down - and we let the whole thing slide. @_@ I was in awe of her for that ability for years~ so there's definitely (for me) an innate sense of comradery between our signs that isn't there for relations with others. 'save for Cancers and Tauruses maybe which may be because my 11h is Cancer and I have a Taurus moon --- so they're like my other buddies~ @_@ Honestly, I never looked for the pattern here - just kinda' took for granted.... Looking at it now - there /does/ seem to be very clear connection~ indeed. IP: Logged |
charlie Knowflake Posts: 74 From: los angeles, ca, USA Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 04:59 PM
Have Scorpio in 3H and Uranus and NN, they both sit fairly close to IC (Scorpio). I have a love/hate relationship w Scorpios. My mom is a Scorpio Sun/Moon/Mercury so I know a lot about the strings they pull..IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 1301 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted December 08, 2012 05:39 PM
YES!OMG, reading about Moon in the 3rd was the first time I had that hit-the-nail-on-the-head moment with astrology. Says Sasportas, in gist: 3rd house among other things rules siblings & cousins. The moon points to the feminine side as well as emotional bonds. This person's emotional nature is best understood through their relationships with female cousins and siblings. SPOT ON!! I have: -Moon in Sagittarius, 3rd house. -conj Neptune in Sagittarius by 12 degrees, but it counts. -Pluto in Libra (3rd house ruler). On the side of the family I grew up I had three female 1st cousins, and three male 1st cousins. Male: Taurus, Aquarius, Scorpio. Female: Libra, Libra, Sagittarius. Of these it was the Libra, w/ Moon in Pisces I bonded with the most. There was/is another distant Libra female cousin with Pisces Asc whom I grew really close to. On the other side of the family I have male & female cousins of all signs, but it was/is the Sagittarius & Libra I really really bonded with. On the male side I consider my Scorpio sun, Libra Moon brother the one I'm closest to. quote: -Moon in Sagittarius, 3rd house. -conj Neptune in Sagittarius by 12 degrees, but it counts. -Pluto in Libra (3rd house ruler).
^^This is the standard I use to understand and flesh all the other houses.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 2864 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted December 08, 2012 06:03 PM
My third house is empty, but is ruled by Leo. For what it's worth I have Juno in there. I wouldn't say my best relationships or communication is with Leos (unless they have Mercury in Leo too) but there is an awfully noticeable and instant mental connection with them. Mercury is in my 11th house, so although I intuit Leos very well, I'm more mentally stimulated by Aquariuses.IP: Logged |
sand Knowflake Posts: 7654 From: In the garden of evil Registered: May 2011
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posted December 08, 2012 06:21 PM
Cap yes. My best friend is a cap. But then I have Jupiter in 3rd.IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1015 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011
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posted December 08, 2012 06:29 PM
3rd in ummmmmmhmmmm... Aries....and....Taurus Screw Aries but I love Taurus IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 415 From: The Asylum Garden Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 06:36 PM
^ I'll take your Aries <3 (will hold my tongue on the sc%w bit) haha IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme Knowflake Posts: 56 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 06:49 PM
I have a tricky chart with several 12th house planets, one of which is Mercury, and a 3rd house Mars in Sagittarius. Mercury also conjuncts both Asc from 12th and Jupiter, ruler of the 3rd in my chart. So, all these things, I suspect, influence the position of Mars. I like to study stuff, above all else. More than communicating or talking. I talk above average on the phone, say very little in person and prefer writing most of all. Phone is my second choice. In person, I like to pretend like I am mute for some reason. IP: Logged |
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 2141 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012
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posted December 08, 2012 06:59 PM
Yes Cancer sun and Jupiter in 3rdMany cancer male friends and female Sagittarius friends are easy to come by. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini?? Knowflake Posts: 441 From: The Planet Mercury Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 09, 2012 02:05 PM
Yes I do! The sign of my 3rd is Scorpio. My father, my sis-in-law, one of my best friends, and the love of my life are all Scorpios. I get along great with all of them (well, my father and I get along but not as well as I do with the others).I have Uranus (Your run us hahahahah) in my 3rd, thats it. I do get along AMAZING with Aquarius people. ------------------ Gemini Sun Libra Moon Gemini Mercury Cancer Venus Virgo Mars Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
its_aqua Knowflake Posts: 66 From: Mars Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 09, 2012 05:26 PM
I have Jupiter in Leo in the 3rd.I get on well both with Leos and Sags, actually all my close friends are either Leos or Sags, but I would never want a Leo or a Sag for a romantic relationship. IP: Logged |
Aries Miranda Newflake Posts: 16 From: Missouri, USA Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 09, 2012 07:05 PM
I have a Moon/Uranus/Neptune stellium in Capricorn, 3rd house. I tend not to get along with earth signs.I usually communicate well with water signs, although that's probably because I have a water grand trine (actually, a kite) involving Mercury. My mom's a Pisces and we sometimes don't even have to speak with each other to understand each other. I've also had experiences where I heard her calling me, so I would check to see what she wanted, only to find out that she had been thinking about me -- she hadn't actually called. She's had the same experience where she thought she heard me when I was just thinking about her. IP: Logged |