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Topic: Natal chart and dating
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hannaramaa
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posted December 09, 2012 06:36 AM
  
By now I know where to look when trying to show someone the potential people they attract, or will be attracted to. However, I was wondering if the natal chart could (generally speaking) tell you how few or many opportunities you will get to date around without using transits or anything extra? If so, where to look?IP: Logged |
sand
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posted December 09, 2012 06:37 AM
5th house?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 09, 2012 06:41 AM
That would show you the number of times? How would you tell?IP: Logged |
ail221
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From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home
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posted December 09, 2012 08:07 AM
Nah imagine if it could people would use it to find dates each year. "Ahh I am scheduled to date five men this month."IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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From: The Asylum Garden
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 09, 2012 08:15 AM
pimpin' lol
~~~ sorry
(I'd be seriously peeved if my natal showed everyone how many/often I saw someone! =x if it's not predestined there's no way it would show~ that's what my peanut gallery is telling me~ x_X better to stick with those progresion/transit/returns~ for that stuff. ^^;
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@ ail~ I've gone through so many of those asteroids once I get some sleep I'll be back to post my progress~ ^^ (I cut it down by like half :o and it still looks like too much!) haha
nini~ IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 09, 2012 09:07 AM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Nah imagine if it could people would use it to find dates each year. "Ahh I am scheduled to date five men this month."
Dying.  IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted December 09, 2012 09:36 AM
@saturninemothThere's no rush take your time :-D @hanna
Imagine if matchmakers could calculate that they'd probably make even more. Hell Apple probably would have copyrighted the technique. The holidays in general seems to be a harder time for people romantically. IP: Logged |
Got Gemini??
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From: The Planet Mercury
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted December 09, 2012 02:19 PM
My 5th house is empty and ruled by Saturn lol. Saturn is in my 12th house sextiling my Sun and Mercury.What does this say about my dating opps? ------------------
Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc And yes, I'm a guy! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 09, 2012 04:27 PM
i dont think you can tell how many people you'll have oppurtunities with, but you can definitely tell if it will be a challenge or not. my venus and 5th/7th house rulers are afflicted , so not a whole lot of luck here.IP: Logged |
sweet-scorpion
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From: PA, USA
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 09, 2012 05:36 PM
My 5th house ruler is Mars in Cancer in the 8th opp. Uranus and Neptune, trine Pluto in Scorp in the 12th. Unfortunately as some might suspect I have a tendency to attract alcoholics or unavailable people. My Mars has a quintile to my Sun which also has made Leo people attracted to me, or vice versa, I suspect it's from this. The Pluto trine makes people think I am a 'femme fatale' type and this aspect has made people like me from seeming mysterious or 'eccentric', usually it calls for passionate trysts with people but again, either they or I become unavailable from the Uranus influence. As for the 7th house ruler I feel this is less to do with dating and what your dating life is like but what more serious, long-term commitments like engagements and marriages could be like, how easily you'll get there. I have my Mercury as my DES ruler, empty 7th. Merc in Scorp, 11th house, sq. 8H Mars, trine 3H Saturn in Pisces. I've made up my mind that I will probably like to have more friendships in the long term that mean more to me than marriage because I fear that my marriage will fade over time, or I'll become too bored sexually and romantically to deal with the same person anymore. But deep down I have always desired someone loyal and precious to me... [Scorp influence]. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 10, 2012 01:16 AM
You know, I have analyzed my 7th house a lot and not really found an answer as to why I'm lacking tickets. I certainly have a lot of good qualities... Oh, wait I haven't mentioned my 5th house - Pluto is in it. In Scorpio, and it's ruled by Libra. Pluto is opp. my Moon in the 11th (which I find ironic is another air sign house, although it's ruled by Aries in my chart. I wonder if it being the house of Aquarius matters at all?). Honestly, I think this opposition and Mars (12H) quincunx Pluto makes me intimidating and difficult to approach. I'm not your average girl when it comes to dating and I expect a lot.Like I've mentioned in other threads I yearn to be free and connect with people naturally without analyzing it but it is very few moments that happens. When I meet someone I like -I don't like anyone else, and I don't like playing games and waiting around. That's where the Aries comes in but the Aries planets aren't anywhere near my 5th house. I tend to want serious things out of light-hearted commitments and don't understand when they don't turn out that way or I blame myself. Ugh, so heavy. IP: Logged |
Pisces Adonis
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From: Catholic Altair
Registered: Oct 2012
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posted December 10, 2012 01:32 AM
I believe the Ascendant is MOST important as far as the first few dates go for compatibility.Once you started to get to know each other more, its the Sun Sign that plays the greatest effects. When you start getting deeper and deeper into each other, the Moon Sign ultimately is the one factor of the Main 3s that determine whether you are ultimately compatible or not. Of course this is just a simplistic view of compatibility and its not counting the Aspects, 12 Houses, and other more advance astrological factors. IP: Logged |
amowls**
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posted December 10, 2012 03:38 AM
I've dated... a lot. Maybe too much.5th house in Libra, Venus in Pisces square Saturn and Uranus in Sag conjunct my DSC. I have Moon (opposite Jupiter) and Pluto (Scorpio) in the 5th. I think this gives me the need to always have a romantic interest in my life, otherwise I get so depressed I can't function. I don't know about set number of people you'll date. I don't think there's an actual way. There are fortunate times to find romance according to transits (Jupiter and Venus). There's also progressions and solar arcs (involving hard aspects between Venus, Sun/ASC/MC). And then there's finding compatibility by progressed synastry (their Sun/Venus conjuncting or trining your Sun/Venus/Mars). IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 10, 2012 04:40 AM
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Originally posted by amowls**:
I've dated... a lot. Maybe too much.5th house in Libra, Venus in Pisces square Saturn and Uranus in Sag conjunct my DSC. I have Moon (opposite Jupiter) and Pluto (Scorpio) in the 5th. I think this gives me the need to always have a romantic interest in my life, otherwise I get so depressed I can't function. I don't know about set number of people you'll date. I don't think there's an actual way. There are fortunate times to find romance according to transits (Jupiter and Venus). There's also progressions and solar arcs (involving hard aspects between Venus, Sun/ASC/MC). And then there's finding compatibility by progressed synastry (their Sun/Venus conjuncting or trining your Sun/Venus/Mars).
Interesting. I'll have to find which section on LindaLand delves into that. I want to learn about progressed charts and how to read them 'cause I definitely don't understand now...but I think they're easier to read than synastry. Maybe what I should be asking is what in my chart makes people neutral towards or not interested in me. IP: Logged |
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