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posted December 13, 2012 11:29 AM            

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I read that 12h venus has a secret love obsession for someone they cannot have. I've developed this for an ex last year. She's way moved on with someone else, as was I at one point. I was curious if any other 12th house venuses had the same issue, how they over came it. Really, I'd like to know how all the 12th house venuses are doing in their relationships!

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posted December 13, 2012 11:50 AM            

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My Leo has this placement, and he was very vague about his exes, and he has a hard time showing affection. Like hes not sure the best way to express it. That would be crappy if he still had a thing for an ex:/

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posted December 13, 2012 11:54 AM            

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Can't say this is true of me. I'm a Gemini Venus in 12th, and I don't think I've ever been in love in the true sense of the word with a person I cannot (ever) have because they are taken. To me, the possibility just ends there. It does take me a while to get over somebody, though. Maybe a year... I think this placement makes for a very sensitive lover, though, and extremely private about their feelings. It means a lot when I care about someone and doesn't come and go easily.

Taurus, Scorpio, Cancer

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posted December 13, 2012 01:35 PM            

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libra's choice. I'm a leo sun as well. Libra rising. Just about every girl I've dated, I've thought about my ex at times. However, there were a few girls that had me completely wrapped up, and had me crazy for them all the time.

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posted December 13, 2012 02:15 PM            

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My guy lets me talk about my past relationships, because I'm the kind of person who does look back quite a LOT. And even though I am VERY happy where I am, from time to time I do get obsessive about the past.. it sucks. Of course, given a choice, I would never go back to my ex, not in a million years. So if I'm thinking about them, it's not in a way that I want to go back to those times or that I even miss the time I had.

In any case, it helps to talk about these things to someone that you can trust, keeping things secret in our case is just not healthy, it can lead to some serious waste of time and energy.

I have a 12th house stellium in Capricorn.

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posted December 13, 2012 09:44 PM            

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You either only attracted to someone already taking (whether you realize are not) or left with the tweekers and stupids that wouldn't give 50 cents about you

Sometimes I yell out "why meeeeee"???????
Your soul suffers... eyes watering up*

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posted December 14, 2012 12:58 AM            

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All lot of these circumstances sound relative and nonspecific to the Venus in 12th ppl...having clandestine affairs, unrequited love, infatuation w someone taken.... These things happen to all sorts of ppl.

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