posted December 17, 2012 12:13 AM            

I had a question, I was recently told by an Aqua ex bf with Virgo Moon that he loved me. Keep in mind that he ignored me for about a year and we recently re-connected. He told me he cared about me, and felt horrible he ignored me. I didn't ask why he did. In that he told me I was his last serious gf...and that he and I didn't work because he didn't want a gf (I've always said he didn't want me as his gf). I called his bull crap because he did have gf's since he and I ended. We ended in 2010. He didn't say anything when I said this. He also reached the point where he is having sex with other people, before he had this weird thing with sex where he would shy away from it and be the type that had to have a title to be able to sleep with someone. Now it seems like his Aries Mars finally came out...however it still looks as though his Virgo Moon is very particular about who he becomes long term with (actually I think this is ALL men). Anyway I have a Cap Moon and despite being a Cancer panic set in (my Cap Moon). I do very much so love him, but I'm terrified that its not real and that if I invest he'll up and change his mind.

Anyway I said I loved him long ago, and while he didn't say anything about it I don't know how his Virgo Moon ever really felt. I'm not even sure if he really loves me. My Cap Moon seriousness comes out and says if he did he would deal with me more. That his actions should back up what he says. Although when he had been in town in the past he did try to re-connect with me if he knew I felt something. Although his attempts were never over the top or explicit, but more things I would have to pick up. He said that he didn't want an obligation, and that he doesn't want to have anyone or anything be a factor in where he chooses to live (as he is thinking about looking for another job). Anyway I said it back. And nothing. So now I'm wondering if it even made a dent in his Virgo Moon Aqua self. I know that automatic emotional responses are ruled by the Moon, and because his Moon is ruled by Mercury and his Mercury is in Pisces that has something to do with it. Basically I'm just confused and wondering how do you guys respond to love or expressions of love which I know Venus would have to be apart of (his is in Cap).

posted December 17, 2012 12:46 AM            

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I didn't ask why he did.

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Not wanting a gf is not a good reason to ignore you for a year. I remember this story - and how he didn't want to put you up on FB as his gf etc.

This is just disrespectful...

I'm not sure what he wants now... but I wouldn't let him back in my life if I was in your shoes.

posted December 17, 2012 04:41 AM            

I know many Virgo moons and they're mostly about gossip and they talk that talk for fun or to get what they want emotionally.
I'm ganna be straight with you:
I don't care what sign a man is if he really loves you he shows it and its very obvious. That's a fact so don't let yourself get confused. Remind yourself of that everyday he's not there with you. I feel he does care about you but not enough to want a relationship and he's giving you bright neon blinking lights saying he don't want anyone to be a factor when he plans to move. Let that wh•re go girl!!! Love yourself.

posted December 17, 2012 07:24 AM            

You as a Cancer Sun ought to know how this will end..Personally, I. Cannot. Stand. Virgo. Anything. No offense! And pair that with Aquarius, Aries Mars and CAP VENUS which as far as I know is one of THE pickiest Venus' out there!

ABORT MISSION!!!! EJECT THYSELF!!!

I have a Cancer stellium (6 planets incl sun, venus) in 11H and Cap Moon in 5H.

posted December 17, 2012 01:06 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I am a Cancer Sun/Cap Moon. My chart ruler is Mercury. I am very Mercurial...as he seems to be. I have also dated a guy with a Cancer Mars/Aries Venus (ew).

You as a Cancer Sun ought to know how this will end..Personally, I. Cannot. Stand. Virgo. Anything. No offense! And pair that with Aquarius, Aries Mars and CAP VENUS which as far as I know is one of THE pickiest Venus' out there!

ABORT MISSION!!!! EJECT THYSELF!!!

I have a Cancer stellium (6 planets incl sun, venus) in 11H and Cap Moon in 5H.

Btw, since my moon is ruled by Saturn and my Saturn is in Leo 11H, what does that mean??

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Well actually Charlie lol...I'm a Cap Moon with my Ruler in Scorpio in the 5th. Plus I'm a Cancer Rising. And my Taurus Venus is Opposite Saturn. I'm surprised you don't like anything in Virgo...I'm thinking it might be too much for your water placements. I LOVE Virgo ANYTHING esp the Moon...I've dated 3 guys who were Virgo Moons and Air Suns...and one of my best girlfriends is a Virgo Moon with Aqua Venus/Sag Mars...is she picky oh yeah but she is one of the most loyal people on earth when she knows you're worth it. And she'll be there to listen and offer practical advise if you ever need it.

I will say that the Virgo/Cap combo is VERY picky...but not more picky than I am. In fact he one time said he dumped a girl for laughing at her own jokes, I dumped a guy in the past for eating mayo. So there are a lot of similarities there lol. In fact his pickness doesn't bother me in the least bit, and is something I very much so get about him.

Also I have my IC in Virgo and Square Uranus...his Moon is in Virgo Sq Uranus as well so his emotional experience of me is literally similar to his Moon.

I also tend to date Air sign men, especially Aqua. It doesn't tend to go anywhere badly, and usually always ends well esp if they have anything in Water where they are more in tune emotionally. This particular Aqua has his Asc and Venus in Cap Conjunct Neptune...so he's much more of the self pitying emotional type...I don't actually like Neptune/Pisces type too unreliable and make decisions based upon their immediate feelings rather than think about things.