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Topic: Mars in Gemini folks...
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LionFish
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posted December 17, 2012 06:54 AM
  
How do you feel about casual encounters with the opposite sex? 1 night stands, affairs and the like?And what about temper? Are the things that upset you on a day to day basis ever-changing or fairly constant? IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted December 17, 2012 07:06 AM
Boyfriend is a Mars in Gemini1) no, he doesn't agree with such things, in fact it disgusts him
2) yes he tends to get irriatable fast IP: Logged |
sharon_1977
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posted December 17, 2012 07:23 AM
Hi LionFish and KarkaQueenI have mars in Gemini and I don't do casual nor affairs and I get irritable very easily (ever changing), but it leave just as quick  I really have to get to know the person before I can become attached to them in a romantic and sexual way. All the best,
Sharon IP: Logged |
KarkaQueen
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posted December 17, 2012 08:11 AM
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Originally posted by sharon_1977:
Hi LionFish and KarkaQueenI have mars in Gemini and I don't do casual nor affairs and I get irritable very easily (ever changing), but it leave just as quick I really have to get to know the person before I can become attached to them in a romantic and sexual way. All the best,
Sharon
Sounds like my boyfriend -- thanks IP: Logged |
Dreaming111
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posted December 17, 2012 11:45 AM
1. Dislike that sort of stuff.
2. Can get upset quick but calm down just as fast.
Peeves: injustice, rudeness, unappreciativeness, hypocrisy.These are constanct but I may not act on them or talk about it, though I notice it. I kind of try to let it go without making a scene... Dont expect me to be your shoulder and then not be there for me. Dont expect me to reply when you ignore me/ or cant respond. Also, I think I am very impatient. So I hate hate waiting...., I dont like to keep others waiting for a reply. It makes me feel bad. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 17, 2012 01:41 PM
I abhor the idea of one night stands! My dream is a stable exclusive relationship just like everyone else seems to have. I also get irritable really fast. It's because my mind is always working and I don't like interruptions - but life is full of them. How would other Mars in Gemini rate their self-sufficiency? IP: Logged |
sharon_1977
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posted December 17, 2012 03:22 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
How would other Mars in Gemini rate their self-sufficiency?
I am very self-sufficient(so I think), even though I'm living at my mum's at the moment. Sharon IP: Logged |
SoStellarOne
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posted December 17, 2012 03:28 PM
This is one of my favorite Mars Placement because once I know someone has this placement, I already know that we'll hit it off just fine.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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posted December 17, 2012 03:52 PM
Mars/Gemini/7th house1) Casual encounters? if it's flirting then yes as long as it remains verbal.
(empty promises)  One night stands? not in this day and age Affairs? well if they're not married it's called dating and if they are married...Not a chance. 2) Temper? Mars/Gemini is pretty adaptable so they tend to blend in with their surroundings and mind set
(yes I know we're fickle)
in cases of temper/anger which are rare because we try to talk our way through everything, my temper is more "aggressive sarcasm" and can be in your face but then again I have a lot of fire in my chart.
and yes I'm trying, I'm working through it. ------------------ "For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
ifyoufalldive
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posted December 18, 2012 02:57 AM
Mars in Gem, in 12th (conj. Jupiter & Asc in the same)!1) I've had two one-night stands. The first was for a sense of sexual validation, and the second was because I was turned on and curious about his offer (in ways, worth it). I feel like as long as you aren't doing it JUST for your self-esteem, then you're probably okay.
2) I'm faithful if I commit. If I don't outright commit, then I'll feel bad about it and probably carry on only a surface relationship with you anyway so you know where you stand. Otherwise I'm your female knight in shining armor (Aries Sun/Moon/Venus/Merc).
3) I get irritated by everything! I'm really moody, and it changes all the time. However, Geminis drag me down like nobody's business. I always want them to slow down, just a little, but they're always zipping to and fro. Makes me want to tie them down to something just for a breather, but of course they'd never be down for that unless the timing were right and you talked really, really dirty. (Oh, and Merc/Venus/Mars in Gemini people love the dirty talk. Tell your friends.) IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 18, 2012 07:05 AM
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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
Boyfriend is a Mars in Gemini1) no, he doesn't agree with such things, in fact it disgusts him
2) yes he tends to get irriatable fast
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Hi LionFish and KarkaQueen
I have mars in Gemini and I don't do casual nor affairs and I get irritable very easily (ever changing), but it leave just as quick I really have to get to know the person before I can become attached to them in a romantic and sexual way.All the best,
Sharon
and @ hannaramaa
Which houses and how are they aspected, if you don't mind me asking ladies? @Dreaming111
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1. Dislike that sort of stuff.
2. Can get upset quick but calm down just as fast.
Peeves: injustice, rudeness, unappreciativeness, hypocrisy.
These are constanct but I may not act on them or talk about it, though I notice it. I kind of try to let it go without making a scene...Dont expect me to be your shoulder and then not be there for me. Dont expect me to reply when you ignore me/ or cant respond. Also, I think I am very impatient. So I hate hate waiting...., I dont like to keep others waiting for a reply. It makes me feel bad
I love that your impatience portrays your Mars placement perfectly  You referenced conversation and lack thereof as a main source of your irritations. Perfectly Gemini lol But when you "kind of try to let it go" do you end up bottling it up until it spews out? Oh and by the way: you've put so much of your time, energy, and insight into helping other people find answers... There's no reason you should ever feel bad for taking time away to take care of you and make your life a better place to live. Everyone deserves that
@SoStellarOne
Had a lot of friends with the Gemini Mars did ya?
@lalalinda
Lol, aggressive sarcasm, sounds just like my Mars/Gem friend. minus the not liking sleeping around part. Which fire do you have in your chart? @ifyoufalldive
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(Oh, and Merc/Venus/Mars in Gemini people love the dirty talk. Tell your friends.)
I can attest to the truth of that IP: Logged |
Faith
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posted December 18, 2012 07:38 AM
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Originally posted by LionFish:
How do you feel about casual encounters with the opposite sex? 1 night stands, affairs and the like?
I never did that and would probably never do it. quote:
Originally posted by LionFish:
And what about temper? Are the things that upset you on a day to day basis ever-changing or fairly constant?
If I say something and am totally ignored, that upsets me. Like if I politely tell my kids three times to pick up the toys in the playroom, and they still haven't moved, I get upset. It's very important for me to know my words are being heard and are having an effect with the people I need to interact with. So if my husband agrees with me about something and then forgets (like future plans to buy a puppy or something) and then backtracks, it's regular-annoying but on top of that it's like my words disappeared, and that hits a deep nerve with me. Maybe more than others, my sense of self depends on my words accomplishing what I want them to accomplish. I'm 11H Gemini Mars, 3H Libra Pluto, and 6H Aquarius Mercury.
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hannaramaa
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posted December 18, 2012 07:45 AM
Mars in the 12H ruled by Taurus, and the aspect I can remember off the top of my head is its conjunct my ASC, and quincunx Pluto in Scorpio in the 5H. There are more but J don't remember them.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
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From: nevada
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posted December 18, 2012 12:00 PM
Hello lionfish, my fire signs are
Sun/Mercury/Aries
Jupiter/Sag/12th
Sag/Ascendant
Uranus/Leo------------------ "For all those who believe, expect a miracle.”
Linda Goodman 1925-1995 IP: Logged |
sharon_1977
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posted December 19, 2012 03:15 PM
LionFish, my mars is in the 9th house at 28 degrees and it's conjuncts Jupiter in cancer at 1 degrees, trine my ascendant at Libra 28 degrees, sextiles my Saturn in Leo at 22 degrees. The sextile of Saturn though is a 6 degrees orb. It has on my chart that it is square mercury but it's too big of an orb to even count it; mercury at 18 degrees Virgo. Sharon IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 19, 2012 05:16 PM
Okay so, part of the reason I was asking about this is because I was trying to figure out a friend's ascendant. Combining other people's views/feelings and placements, to determine where this placement might be in his chart. I came up with Mars/Gemini in the 8th and Scorpio Rising. I gave it to those placements because I thought it might open his views on sex vs love. It seems to fit him perfectly. I just wish I knew which degree his Ascendant was at. Thank you all for your responses! I truly appreciate it. This has been bugging me for a while because the birth time his mother guessed for him gave him a Leo ASC and while he's a Leo Sun/Venus/Merc/Jupiter he has this "brooding" undertone that I don't think comes from a Sag Moon. And being Leo rising myself I know the effects it can have on a person's optimism level... He doesn't have it lol So again. Thanks ladies!!!!
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Gabby
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posted December 19, 2012 05:42 PM
Ive gemini mars,ive had one night stands but just to test it and see if i liked it...i decided i didnt like it!
I can get irritated easily but its over very quickly and i rarely remember what upset me even 1o minutes later!
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butterflyxoxxo
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posted December 19, 2012 06:30 PM
Gem mars here
I can not have one night stands but can have fwb if they are mentally stimulating. To be honest just sexy conversation is enough and often more meaningful. By stimulating I mean roleplaying. Keep in mind I have mercury opposition marsAlso, I have a Virgo mom and the way she painstakingly goes through details kills me inside, note again I have sag ascendant ------------------
sun/moon/venus/pluto in scorpio with jupiter in the 8th IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 20, 2012 02:50 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Ive gemini mars,ive had one night stands but just to test it and see if i liked it...i decided i didnt like it!
I can get irritated easily but its over very quickly and i rarely remember what upset me even 1o minutes later!
My Mars is in Sag and this is me. But I sometimes hold grudges toward the person who upset me. Even if I can't remember WHY, I remember who did it. And sometimes my irritation can move on to other parts of my day inadvertently.. I don't like that part. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 20, 2012 02:55 AM
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Hello lionfish, my fire signs are
Sun/Mercury/Aries
Jupiter/Sag/12th
Sag/Ascendant
Uranus/Leo
The Mars Gem I'm trying to figure out has a lot of fire too. Yours is more spread out than his though. More fiery flavor lol He's got:
Sun, Merc, Venus, and Jupiter:Leo
Moon/Neptune:Sag IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 20, 2012 02:59 AM
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Originally posted by butterflyxoxxo:
Gem mars here
I can not have one night stands but can have fwb if they are mentally stimulating. To be honest just sexy conversation is enough and often more meaningful. By stimulating I mean roleplaying. Keep in mind I have mercury opposition marsAlso, I have a Virgo mom and the way she painstakingly goes through details kills me inside, note again I have sag ascendant
I'm so glad you posted! 1 night stands was NOT what I wanted to say. That's why I went with affairs, seemed more long lasting.. Sorry guys I'm the epitomy of a Merc Rx sometimes! FWB!!! That's a much better term! But he's okay with cheating on his significant other with his FWB, hence why I said affairs... IP: Logged |
ifyoufalldive
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posted December 20, 2012 03:46 AM
@LionfishWell, my fire signs are: Sun: Aries
Moon: Aries
Venus: Aries
Mercury: Aries - All in the 10th house, buahahahaha. IP: Logged |
LionFish
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posted December 20, 2012 03:59 AM
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Originally posted by ifyoufalldive:
@LionfishWell, my fire signs are: Sun: Aries
Moon: Aries
Venus: Aries
Mercury: Aries - All in the 10th house, buahahahaha.
I bet we'd get on famously My venus is in Aries I have to ask, why the evil laugh lol although with my MC in Aries I kinda understand.. Feel like you were sent to rule the world? If I'm right about my friend's ASC it puts his Leo Stellium starting on the cusp of the 9th/10th house... And he's a bartender at one of the most popular bars in town. Makes perfect sense 'eh? IP: Logged |
ifyoufalldive
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posted December 20, 2012 05:23 PM
It doesn't help that all my fire is conjunct each other... I'm a lot of the same energy, but then you add in my Capricorn Saturn/Neptune/Uranus, also all conjunct each other in the 7th and square my 10th house, that you get a few surprises in my attitudes about things. IP: Logged |
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