posted December 18, 2012 06:51 AM            

I'd say look for where his Venus and Mars are at i.e

If he has a Venus/Mars Aries he'll likely be upfront and tell you how he feels. He'll expect the same from you: everything laid out on the table.

But when Mars is in Aries,especially, he'll look at it from "what do I gain from acting" perspective more than Venus in this position would.

Venus in Taurus/Mars there can make him very sweet and the "touchy/feely" type. He'll be very charming but won't rush into anything.

posted December 18, 2012 01:43 PM            

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Originally posted by hikoro:
what if it is:
venus gemini
mars in scorpio

will i know by his mars or venus?
so for example, if it is mars that counts, i will know because he will chase me, be sensual, deep and will enjoy profound conversations?
is that how it works?

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posted December 18, 2012 02:10 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
With Gemini, you can never be quite sure as with Sagittarius and Libra, they can be so friendly and accommodating, you'd think they like you.

I'd say look for where his Venus and Mars are at i.e

If he has a Venus/Mars Aries he'll likely be upfront and tell you how he feels. He'll expect the same from you: everything laid out on the table.

But when Mars is in Aries,especially, he'll look at it from "what do I gain from acting" perspective more than Venus in this position would.

Venus in Taurus/Mars there can make him very sweet and the "touchy/feely" type. He'll be very charming but won't rush into anything.

When Mars is there, especially, he may come across as friendly but reserved, charming but restrained. He needs to get as familair with you as possible and again, with this position, he'll look at what it is that he can "gain" from being with you etc.

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I have Venus in Cancer and Mars in Virgo. I like to be upfront and direct as well and lay everything out on the table. I think that is more of a man thing than a Venus Mars thing. However, I think our Venus Mars will color the way we tell her. However, the common denominator is that we will let you know we are interested in you or like you most of the time.

You do have those that will wait to see if the feelings are mutual first though.

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Gemini Sun
Libra Moon
Gemini Mercury
Cancer Venus
Virgo Mars
Virgo Asc

posted December 18, 2012 07:04 PM            

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sounds messy and complicated....someone who is confused.

posted December 19, 2012 12:02 AM            

I knew he liked me because he always kept contacting me, he always wanted to see me, he always wanted to chat on the phone with me ALL day..

posted December 19, 2012 12:44 AM            

He liked me for about a week and a half. Then it turned into "just friends." Somewhere after that he started acting like a big brother (he's 5 years older), constantly offering advice etc that actually was appreciated, don't get me wrong. But the first time we met I'd gotten him so excited to talk to me, like nobody else was in the room. When we left alone to grab a burger (my invite, not his... Aries sun/moon/merc/venus initiating once again?) the conversation just died. It was kind of boring, as his Taurus Merc and Mars in Scorp just sat back observing me, trying to carefully plan out his next move. I'm an Aries, so waiting for a man to make up his mind is extremely boring, making me make up MY mind first. It was draining, feeling like I was supposed to entertain him but never feeling that in return, just that it was appreciated and enjoyed. Now he's ****** he's in the friend zone, even though he'd starting acting like a big brother...

posted December 19, 2012 01:22 AM            

People often assume it is the Man who makes the first move or initiates the "dance", but in reality, the ritual is a give and take.

In both heterosexual/homosexual relationships

The Man can initiate,but if the other party is not receptive, you can forget it.

On the other hand, if the woman comes on too strong to the other party, the individual may wilt and disappear.

The Mars/Venus placement will always show how someone goes about showing you that they like you.And its about using the signs therein and making them work for you.

If a woman has Venus in Scorpio/ Mars in Libra, you can be sure that her Mars in Libra, at best, makes her very charming, accomodating, receptive of you and enjoyable.

Her approach may be more casual and relaxed. She'll probably try to make you feel comfortable and give you the reigns of where you go out and eat etc. A Woman/man who is too coarse and doesn't appreciate her agreeable qualities will certainly not undersatnd her approach.(This is Mars in Libra)

On the date, she'll talk about things she likes in depth. She'll explore your interest and likes in depth i.e why do you like this? Why don't you like that? etc. You may feel like you are being interrogated, but it'll be done in a tasteful manner. Not to impose on you but to understand what you are about.

A woman/man who doesn't have much to say or seems very much "on the surface" with their answers will put her off.(This is Venus in Scorpio)

hikoro

what if it is:
venus gemini
mars in scorpio
will i know by his mars or venus?
so for example, if it is mars that counts, i will know because he will chase me, be sensual, deep and will enjoy profound conversations?
is that how it works?

If a Man has his Venus in Gemini and Mars in Scorpio, you may have contradictory qualities showing on the date.

The Mars in Scorpio will be indirect in their approach. He'll show you in very subtle ways that he is pursuing you; most likely through body language, thoughtful actions,wanting to be alone with you, buying you stuff you told him you wanted(but forgot).

Mars in water men(as opposed to "talking" Mars in Air men ) are great listeners and have a strong "nurturing" approach towards the mating ritual: They try to find ways in which they'll get under your skin, in a sentimental manner; by thoughtful gestures, actions and listening to your every word to find out what lies beneath.

A woman who is sensitive and appreciative turns them on. One who is cold, distant and incosistant makes them nervous...

If a man has Venus in Gemini, he'll be, at best, witty, conversational, good with words, playful, quick on the uptake and just have a "buzz" about them on the first date. You can talk to this person about ANYTHING and EVERYTHING. They'll know enough about each subject(but only the part they find interesting about the subject).

Venus in Gemini men tend to be a contradiction with their choices because on the one hand, they like talkative/jolly /expressive women whilst ,on the other hand, mysterious/deep/ complex types also hold their interest.

If you are not eloquent with words, or at the very least, creative in your expression of ideas, you can forget getting their attention.

This is why when someone , for instance, has Venus in Pisces, is said to be drawn to someone with Mars in Pisces.

Mars in Pisces will pursue the object of their affection in subtle ways; a small gesture here, a thoughtful action there. An attentive ear to the person's problems and a leaning towards "beyond the call of duty" support when the other party needs it.

When he/ she goes on a date with someone who has their Venus in Pisces, they have found for themselves, someone who is as attentive as they are, compassionate, deep and soulfull but also very passive(and this to Pisces/other water signs is not at all a "weak" quality as people may believe).

No doubt, the Mars in Pisces will want to "take care" of the Venus in Pisces individual and conversely, the Venus in Pisces person will reciprocate and mirror the qualities back to the Mars in Pisces person.

posted December 19, 2012 01:46 AM            

thanks...
after years reading astrology, i still dont know how/where to separate mars and venus.
some say mars is action and venus is lovestyle/what he likes.

however, i find that in the mating dance, it is as if both venus and mars play a role.

for example, astrology says that in a man, it is moon and venus that counts when it comes to attraction, however, i get this feeling that this mars in scorpio guy is really digging my scorpio planets...
but, if i follow astro strictly, i should be less attractive to him as a potential partner because his moon and venus are in air signs and i only have one single air planet.

before i read the descriptions of moon and venus for men, and mars and sun for women, i thought that mars was also an indication of attraction for men, (after all, mars and masculinity connection) but...most sites say it is venus and moon, and mars is just his approach...

ps. i have venus in scorpio and mars in aqua.

posted December 20, 2012 05:14 PM            

His charm and his clear, straightforward communication got me. He would also do ANYTHING to help a friend. He was that kind of guy who would give the shirt off of his back to anyone who needed it and I fell in love with him. He still annoyed me, but it was fun.

That Gemini was one of my greatest loves and we are still friends (14 years later).

(I have a Virgo sun)

posted December 21, 2012 01:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Geeky:
In my experience with a Gemini, he was relentless with his bugging me! He was always in my face annoying me (we worked together).

His charm and his clear, straightforward communication got me. He would also do ANYTHING to help a friend. He was that kind of guy who would give the shirt off of his back to anyone who needed it and I fell in love with him. He still annoyed me, but it was fun.

That Gemini was one of my greatest loves and we are still friends (14 years later).

(I have a Virgo sun)

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