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Jessica2407
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posted December 19, 2012 04:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here it is. The last relationship I was into I wasn't that much into him sexually. That was weird because I was a little obssessed about him but not in a sexual way.

What are the aspects that contribute to a high sex drive? or low sex drive? Or is it just the guy? LOL

This guy has
venus sextile mars
venus quincunx pluto
Mars square pluto at 0.31 orb

Can this be considered as a high sex drive aspect?

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PixieJane
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posted December 19, 2012 05:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PixieJane     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It seems to me that the same aspects that lead to a high sex drive in some lead to a low one in others, sort of an "all or nothing" thing. I have my suspicions on how it manifests, but I'm still very unsure about my guesses, especially as I've noticed astrology has other "all or nothing" manifestations as well (and if those are for the same reason then my guesses aren't correct).

Of course transits, synastry, etc, also make a difference. And just plain old biology, drugs, life experiences, etc.

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posted December 19, 2012 05:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jessica2407:

venus sextile mars
Mars square pluto

Can this be considered as a high sex drive aspect?


With those two aspects alone, I'd say, yes, high sex drive.

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Haplesschild*
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posted December 19, 2012 05:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun aspecting Mars tight
Fire rising especially Sag and Aries
Venus aspecting Mars
Taurus placements
Scorpio moon
Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight)
Pluto in 8th house
Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight
Eros aspecting personal planet tight.
Mars prominent in chart.

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Jessica2407
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posted December 19, 2012 05:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have venus sextile mars too, but do not have a high sex drive. Does this aspect works differently for different people?

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Jessica2407
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posted December 19, 2012 05:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Sun aspecting Mars tight
Fire rising especially Sag and Aries
Venus aspecting Mars
Taurus placements
Scorpio moon
Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight)
Pluto in 8th house
Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight
Eros aspecting personal planet tight.
Mars prominent in chart.

Thanks

And how does these aspects work in a synastry? I mean if one doesn't meet the sexual energy exhibited by these aspects of the other person?

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posted December 19, 2012 05:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Planet Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Sun aspecting Mars tight
Fire rising especially Sag and Aries
Venus aspecting Mars
Taurus placements
Scorpio moon
Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight)
Pluto in 8th house
Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight
Eros aspecting personal planet tight.
Mars prominent in chart.

Hmmm... I'd say my sex drive is above average...

Sun trine Mars - check

Sag rising - check (actually one of the few people I know with a very high sex drive happens to share Sag ASC with me).

Strong plutonian energy - Sun square Pluto and Leo sun/ mercury in 8th H.

I also have Mars in Aries and it is the most aspected planet in my chart. I am attracted to men that have a strong Mars and/or a heavily aspected Mars.

All the Leo Suns I know have high sex drives it might be worth noting this besides Taurus placements which definitely have high but more stable sex drives than Leo placements.

Also don't forget 5th house placements. I used to always go for heavy 5th house guys and they do have very high sex drives combine this with a Leo Sun and Scorpio Mars, phew... I was worn out and I thought my sex drive was high...

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posted December 19, 2012 06:03 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
High drive: Aries Mars
Low drive: Mars conjunct Neptune

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Jessica2407
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posted December 19, 2012 06:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jessica2407     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How about Mars in capricorn? I believe Mars is in its exalted state in capricorn? Is that considered as a strong mars?

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posted December 19, 2012 07:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Sun aspecting Mars tight
Fire rising especially Sag and Aries
Venus aspecting Mars
Taurus placements
Scorpio moon
Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight)
Pluto in 8th house
Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight
Eros aspecting personal planet tight.
Mars prominent in chart.

Sun opp mars
Taurus sun and Venus
I actually think the Taurus Venus gets in the way of the mars but they don't aspect.
Pluto Dominant
Pluto opp Venus
Mars in Scorpio h1

I am more the on off kind. I can go without it. I won't compromise standards just to get it. But when I do it can get addicting.

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posted December 19, 2012 09:09 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for affy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus conjunct Mars in Capricorn..
That's me!
And yes, high sexual drive, but it doesn't really seem like it, I come off very "innocent" to everyone. It can be annoying and disturbing when nothing else can be done. And yes, I'm a girl. I sometimes understand why guys are so sexually driven and I even sympathize.
Thankfully, 12th House sort of cools it down.. glad it isn't in the first house or I'd blow up

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posted December 19, 2012 10:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ail221     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It depends what do you define as high?

Sun sq Mars
Sun sextile Eros in Taurus
Sun trine BML
Eros conjunct Moon/asc
Mars in Taurus 12th
Mars trine Uranus/Kaali/aphrodite
Mars sq lilith asteroid
Venus sesqui quadrate Pluto
BML opp Asc/eros/moon
Pluto/Vesta sq Lust

Relatively high, I prefer to redirect that energy, exercise and art is my friend.

this thread is gonna be moved I know it.

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inthemisosoup
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posted December 19, 2012 10:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for inthemisosoup     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also have a very high sex drive. I have my tighest aspects in my chart: mars trine pluto (0 degrees), mars trine venus (1 degree), venus conjunct pluto (1 degree). I also have mars in the first, conjunct jupiter, jupiter trine venus/pluto, venus and pluto in scorpio in the eighth. Mars square sun and even square saturn. My mars makes a lot of aspects...anyway, I can do "all or nothing" and have gone for extended periods of time celibate, but also have ended up on the opposite extreme. In relationships I almost always have the higher sex drive.

My bf has a very high sex drive, too. He has mars in cap conj asc and conjunct sun (out of sign, his sun is in sag). He has mars in the 12th house. he also has venus conj uranus in scorpio for what it's worth.

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posted December 19, 2012 11:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have an ok sex drive; but im prone to sexual fantasies and I'm very sensual and passionate sexually too.


Mars in Cancer square Jupiter 6H
Venus in Gemini square Jupiter 5H
Moon in Taurus square Uranus 3H
Cappy ASC
Sun Cancer hmm

My friend has a high sex drive (very higher than mine) and shes a Virgo Moon and Mars
Taurus Venus, Aries Sun, with a Scorpio or Libra Rising. Venus-Sun conjunction too and Moon-Mars conjunction

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posted December 19, 2012 11:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for cappy1277     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
How about Mars in capricorn? I believe Mars is in its exalted state in capricorn? Is that considered as a strong mars?

yep...for sure. I have mine in the 8th house.

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posted December 19, 2012 04:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kerosene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Its actually quite common to have guys with high sex drives. I live with 3 guys, all they do is download porn and talk about women. I think I have a balanced sex drive, I don't think too much about sex during the day. When the opportunity arrives my mars in aries activates lol.
I think its rare for guys in general to have a low sex drive.

I think women are more diverse when it comes to sexuality. They aren't usually the chasers so a high sex drive isn't really needed.

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posted December 19, 2012 05:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for foxxyxo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
venus scorpio conjunct pluto in scorpio in 8th house :O you already know hahah

mars sagittarius also square jupiter in 9th house...

aries rising also

i dont even have to ask this question lol

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posted December 19, 2012 05:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
~indefinitely high & demanding

placements:
Venus cnj Uranus - Sagittarius - provocateur/Baachian hedonism
Mars cnj Pluto - Scorpio - emphasis on power/demanding
Venus/Uranus semisq Plu/Mars - tug of war- lust/passion
Saturn cnj Eros/Ishtar - Scorpio - always hungry/horny
Lilith on the Dsc - Pisces - never satisfied
Lilith trine Mars/Pluto - overbearing sexuality
Lilith sextile Pan - Capricorn - lecherous
Lust opp Saturn/Eros - Taurus, sxt Amor - Pisces ... etc

--- among others...


Capricorn Sun~ 5th ☀

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posted December 19, 2012 06:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I also have a really high sex drive. If my partner doesn't the relationship ends up usually not working out. The worst relationship I'd ever had was with Mars-opp Saturn synastry and composite. Here are all my 'high sex drive' placements:

Mars in Cancer conjunct a black hole - Venus or Mars directly ON a black hole usually leads to all or nothing when it comes to love and sex
Sagittarius ASC/rising
Mars trine Pluto 2 degree orb
Pluto in Scorpio, dispositing my chart ruler + Venus
Venus conjunct Jupiter
Mars quintile Sun, sextile MC, opp, Uranus+Neptune
Pluto sextile Neptune, semi-sextile Sun
Ruler of the 8th sextile Venus-Jupiter and trine Uranus

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posted December 19, 2012 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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How about Mars in capricorn?

Definitely not when it's conjunct Neptune.

But even on its own - without Neptune in the mix... I wouldn't really say that about Cap Mars.
They have staying power - so once they are in a committed relationship they can have sex for prolonged periods... because they can really space themselves and channel their energy.

Otherwise when single... they are the most likely to pretend they do not have a sexual side.. and focus all their energy on work.

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posted December 19, 2012 06:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Eros and Ishtar conjunct Hekate and my MC I ooze of sexiness when I go out though (when I dress right)

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posted December 19, 2012 07:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I have venus sextile mars too, but do not have a high sex drive. Does this aspect works differently for different people?


I've heard sextiles are like light switches. In your case you can have a high sex drive but not always. It's more like you have a choice of which instinct to follow.

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posted December 19, 2012 07:18 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
~indefinitely high & demanding

placements:
Venus cnj Uranus - Sagittarius - provocateur/Baachian hedonism
Mars cnj Pluto - Scorpio - emphasis on power/demanding
Venus/Uranus semisq Plu/Mars - tug of war- lust/passion
Saturn cnj Eros/Ishtar - Scorpio - always hungry/horny
Lilith on the Dsc - Pisces - never satisfied
Lilith trine Mars/Pluto - overbearing sexuality
Lilith sextile Pan - Capricorn - lecherous
Lust opp Saturn/Eros - Taurus, sxt Amor - Pisces ... etc

--- among others...


Capricorn Sun~ 5th ☀



Our placements are pretty similar, and I agree on the indefinitely high part lol. however i'm still a virgin :]

Venus sq Uranus (4)
Mars conjunct Pluto (0) in Scorp 8H
Venus semi-sq Mars-Pluto
Lilith sextile Mars-Pluto (1)
Lilith sextile Ascendant (1)
Eros conjunct Neptune (3)
Lust however, squares my Moon-Jupiter opposition

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posted December 19, 2012 07:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12thhouser     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Jessica2407:
I have venus sextile mars too, but do not have a high sex drive. Does this aspect works differently for different people?


Depends on what other aspects are involved, which houses Scorpio and Aries are on the cusp of, etc..

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posted December 19, 2012 07:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun sextile Mars
Mercury sextile Mars
Venus sextile Mars

Mars conj. ASC
Mars quincunx Pluto.

Moon opp. Pluto

Gemini ASC
Aries Sun (All 11H)
Aries Mercury
Aries Venus
Gemini Mars (12H)
Scorpio Pluto (5H)

VERY high sex drive.

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