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Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012	posted December 19, 2012 04:50 AM Here it is. The last relationship I was into I wasn't that much into him sexually. That was weird because I was a little obssessed about him but not in a sexual way. What are the aspects that contribute to a high sex drive? or low sex drive? Or is it just the guy? LOL This guy has venus sextile mars venus quincunx pluto Mars square pluto at 0.31 orb Can this be considered as a high sex drive aspect? IP: Logged
PixieJane Knowflake Posts: 1358 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010	posted December 19, 2012 05:01 AM It seems to me that the same aspects that lead to a high sex drive in some lead to a low one in others, sort of an "all or nothing" thing. I have my suspicions on how it manifests, but I'm still very unsure about my guesses, especially as I've noticed astrology has other "all or nothing" manifestations as well (and if those are for the same reason then my guesses aren't correct). Of course transits, synastry, etc, also make a difference. And just plain old biology, drugs, life experiences, etc. IP: Logged
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 678 From: Registered: Feb 2012	posted December 19, 2012 05:07 AM quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: venus sextile mars Mars square pluto Can this be considered as a high sex drive aspect? With those two aspects alone, I'd say, yes, high sex drive. IP: Logged
Haplesschild* Knowflake Posts: 196 From: Registered: Nov 2012	posted December 19, 2012 05:12 AM Sun aspecting Mars tight Fire rising especially Sag and Aries Venus aspecting Mars Taurus placements Scorpio moon Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight) Pluto in 8th house Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight Eros aspecting personal planet tight. Mars prominent in chart. IP: Logged
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012	posted December 19, 2012 05:17 AM I have venus sextile mars too, but do not have a high sex drive. Does this aspect works differently for different people? IP: Logged
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012	posted December 19, 2012 05:24 AM quote: Originally posted by Haplesschild*: Sun aspecting Mars tight Fire rising especially Sag and Aries Venus aspecting Mars Taurus placements Scorpio moon Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight) Pluto in 8th house Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight Eros aspecting personal planet tight. Mars prominent in chart. Thanks And how does these aspects work in a synastry? I mean if one doesn't meet the sexual energy exhibited by these aspects of the other person? IP: Logged
Planet Queen Knowflake Posts: 310 From: Portlandia Registered: Jul 2011	posted December 19, 2012 05:31 AM quote: Originally posted by Haplesschild*: Sun aspecting Mars tight Fire rising especially Sag and Aries Venus aspecting Mars Taurus placements Scorpio moon Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight) Pluto in 8th house Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight Eros aspecting personal planet tight. Mars prominent in chart. Hmmm... I'd say my sex drive is above average... Sun trine Mars - check Sag rising - check (actually one of the few people I know with a very high sex drive happens to share Sag ASC with me). Strong plutonian energy - Sun square Pluto and Leo sun/ mercury in 8th H. I also have Mars in Aries and it is the most aspected planet in my chart. I am attracted to men that have a strong Mars and/or a heavily aspected Mars. All the Leo Suns I know have high sex drives it might be worth noting this besides Taurus placements which definitely have high but more stable sex drives than Leo placements. Also don't forget 5th house placements. I used to always go for heavy 5th house guys and they do have very high sex drives combine this with a Leo Sun and Scorpio Mars, phew... I was worn out and I thought my sex drive was high... IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: Registered: May 2012	posted December 19, 2012 06:03 AM High drive: Aries Mars Low drive: Mars conjunct Neptune IP: Logged
Jessica2407 Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Saturn Registered: Sep 2012	posted December 19, 2012 06:19 AM How about Mars in capricorn? I believe Mars is in its exalted state in capricorn? Is that considered as a strong mars? IP: Logged
sand Knowflake Posts: 8134 From: Lake Como next to George Clooney's House Registered: May 2011	posted December 19, 2012 07:06 AM quote: Originally posted by Haplesschild*: Sun aspecting Mars tight Fire rising especially Sag and Aries Venus aspecting Mars Taurus placements Scorpio moon Strong Plutonian energy (eg Sun aspecting Pluto tight) Pluto in 8th house Pluto aspecting Venus or Mars tight Eros aspecting personal planet tight. Mars prominent in chart. Sun opp mars Taurus sun and Venus I actually think the Taurus Venus gets in the way of the mars but they don't aspect. Pluto Dominant Pluto opp Venus Mars in Scorpio h1 I am more the on off kind. I can go without it. I won't compromise standards just to get it. But when I do it can get addicting. IP: Logged
affy Knowflake Posts: 145 From: Neptune because it's blue Registered: Sep 2011	posted December 19, 2012 09:09 AM Venus conjunct Mars in Capricorn.. That's me! And yes, high sexual drive, but it doesn't really seem like it, I come off very "innocent" to everyone. It can be annoying and disturbing when nothing else can be done. And yes, I'm a girl. I sometimes understand why guys are so sexually driven and I even sympathize. Thankfully, 12th House sort of cools it down.. glad it isn't in the first house or I'd blow up IP: Logged
ail221 Knowflake Posts: 2362 From: Mary Margaret Blanchard's home Registered: Feb 2012	posted December 19, 2012 10:05 AM It depends what do you define as high? Sun sq Mars Sun sextile Eros in Taurus Sun trine BML Eros conjunct Moon/asc Mars in Taurus 12th Mars trine Uranus/Kaali/aphrodite Mars sq lilith asteroid Venus sesqui quadrate Pluto BML opp Asc/eros/moon Pluto/Vesta sq Lust Relatively high, I prefer to redirect that energy, exercise and art is my friend. this thread is gonna be moved I know it. IP: Logged
inthemisosoup Knowflake Posts: 428 From: Registered: Aug 2011	posted December 19, 2012 10:10 AM I also have a very high sex drive. I have my tighest aspects in my chart: mars trine pluto (0 degrees), mars trine venus (1 degree), venus conjunct pluto (1 degree). I also have mars in the first, conjunct jupiter, jupiter trine venus/pluto, venus and pluto in scorpio in the eighth. Mars square sun and even square saturn. My mars makes a lot of aspects...anyway, I can do "all or nothing" and have gone for extended periods of time celibate, but also have ended up on the opposite extreme. In relationships I almost always have the higher sex drive. My bf has a very high sex drive, too. He has mars in cap conj asc and conjunct sun (out of sign, his sun is in sag). He has mars in the 12th house. he also has venus conj uranus in scorpio for what it's worth. IP: Logged
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1162 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011	posted December 19, 2012 11:27 AM I have an ok sex drive; but im prone to sexual fantasies and I'm very sensual and passionate sexually too. Mars in Cancer square Jupiter 6H Venus in Gemini square Jupiter 5H Moon in Taurus square Uranus 3H Cappy ASC Sun Cancer hmm My friend has a high sex drive (very higher than mine) and shes a Virgo Moon and Mars Taurus Venus, Aries Sun, with a Scorpio or Libra Rising. Venus-Sun conjunction too and Moon-Mars conjunction IP: Logged
cappy1277 Moderator Posts: 1335 From: philadelphia,pa Registered: Jul 2009	posted December 19, 2012 11:50 AM quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: How about Mars in capricorn? I believe Mars is in its exalted state in capricorn? Is that considered as a strong mars? yep...for sure. I have mine in the 8th house. IP: Logged
Kerosene Knowflake Posts: 91 From: Mercury Registered: Dec 2012	posted December 19, 2012 04:01 PM Its actually quite common to have guys with high sex drives. I live with 3 guys, all they do is download porn and talk about women. I think I have a balanced sex drive, I don't think too much about sex during the day. When the opportunity arrives my mars in aries activates lol. I think its rare for guys in general to have a low sex drive. I think women are more diverse when it comes to sexuality. They aren't usually the chasers so a high sex drive isn't really needed. IP: Logged
foxxyxo Knowflake Posts: 51 From: Registered: May 2012	posted December 19, 2012 05:02 PM venus scorpio conjunct pluto in scorpio in 8th house :O you already know hahah mars sagittarius also square jupiter in 9th house... aries rising also i dont even have to ask this question lol IP: Logged
SaturnineMoth Knowflake Posts: 776 From: The Mary Celeste Registered: Aug 2012	posted December 19, 2012 05:58 PM ~indefinitely high & demanding placements: Venus cnj Uranus - Sagittarius - provocateur/Baachian hedonism Mars cnj Pluto - Scorpio - emphasis on power/demanding Venus/Uranus semisq Plu/Mars - tug of war- lust/passion Saturn cnj Eros/Ishtar - Scorpio - always hungry/horny Lilith on the Dsc - Pisces - never satisfied Lilith trine Mars/Pluto - overbearing sexuality Lilith sextile Pan - Capricorn - lecherous Lust opp Saturn/Eros - Taurus, sxt Amor - Pisces ... etc --- among others... � Capricorn Sun~ 5th ☀ ------------------ <3 IP: Logged
sweet-scorpion Knowflake Posts: 1183 From: PA, USA Registered: Apr 2012	posted December 19, 2012 06:03 PM I also have a really high sex drive. If my partner doesn't the relationship ends up usually not working out. The worst relationship I'd ever had was with Mars-opp Saturn synastry and composite. Here are all my 'high sex drive' placements: Mars in Cancer conjunct a black hole - Venus or Mars directly ON a black hole usually leads to all or nothing when it comes to love and sex Sagittarius ASC/rising Mars trine Pluto 2 degree orb Pluto in Scorpio, dispositing my chart ruler + Venus Venus conjunct Jupiter Mars quintile Sun, sextile MC, opp, Uranus+Neptune Pluto sextile Neptune, semi-sextile Sun Ruler of the 8th sextile Venus-Jupiter and trine Uranus IP: Logged
Odette Knowflake Posts: 1088 From: Registered: May 2012	posted December 19, 2012 06:05 PM quote: How about Mars in capricorn? Definitely not when it's conjunct Neptune. But even on its own - without Neptune in the mix... I wouldn't really say that about Cap Mars. They have staying power - so once they are in a committed relationship they can have sex for prolonged periods... because they can really space themselves and channel their energy. Otherwise when single... they are the most likely to pretend they do not have a sexual side.. and focus all their energy on work. IP: Logged
KarkaQueen Knowflake Posts: 1162 From: Uranus Registered: May 2011	posted December 19, 2012 06:28 PM I have Eros and Ishtar conjunct Hekate and my MC I ooze of sexiness when I go out though (when I dress right) IP: Logged
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3015 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted December 19, 2012 07:12 PM quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I have venus sextile mars too, but do not have a high sex drive. Does this aspect works differently for different people? I've heard sextiles are like light switches. In your case you can have a high sex drive but not always. It's more like you have a choice of which instinct to follow. IP: Logged
Moonfish Moderator Posts: 3939 From: Registered: Jul 2011	posted December 19, 2012 07:18 PM quote: Originally posted by SaturnineMoth: ~indefinitely high & demanding placements: Venus cnj Uranus - Sagittarius - provocateur/Baachian hedonism Mars cnj Pluto - Scorpio - emphasis on power/demanding Venus/Uranus semisq Plu/Mars - tug of war- lust/passion Saturn cnj Eros/Ishtar - Scorpio - always hungry/horny Lilith on the Dsc - Pisces - never satisfied Lilith trine Mars/Pluto - overbearing sexuality Lilith sextile Pan - Capricorn - lecherous Lust opp Saturn/Eros - Taurus, sxt Amor - Pisces ... etc --- among others... � Capricorn Sun~ 5th ☀ Our placements are pretty similar, and I agree on the indefinitely high part lol. however i'm still a virgin :] Venus sq Uranus (4) Mars conjunct Pluto (0) in Scorp 8H Venus semi-sq Mars-Pluto Lilith sextile Mars-Pluto (1) Lilith sextile Ascendant (1) Eros conjunct Neptune (3) Lust however, squares my Moon-Jupiter opposition IP: Logged
12thhouser Knowflake Posts: 678 From: Registered: Feb 2012	posted December 19, 2012 07:21 PM quote: Originally posted by Jessica2407: I have venus sextile mars too, but do not have a high sex drive. Does this aspect works differently for different people? Depends on what other aspects are involved, which houses Scorpio and Aries are on the cusp of, etc.. IP: Logged
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3015 From: Registered: Nov 2011	posted December 19, 2012 07:25 PM Sun sextile Mars Mercury sextile Mars Venus sextile Mars Mars conj. ASC Mars quincunx Pluto. Moon opp. Pluto Gemini ASC Aries Sun (All 11H) Aries Mercury Aries Venus Gemini Mars (12H) Scorpio Pluto (5H) VERY high sex drive. IP: Logged

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