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Topic: Are there aspects for this happening?
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hannaramaa
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posted December 19, 2012 07:30 PM
  
Whenever I get in a fight with people I'm dating, or friends, they tend not to speak to me for a very long time - if ever again. The fights don't escalate and they aren't a big deal to me but people tend not to see it through to completion. I wondered if there were aspects in my chart that could point to why this happens, or why other aspects don't prevail this...or if this is something to do with the other person and depends on their chart. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 20, 2012 12:30 PM
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Tofu addict
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posted December 20, 2012 12:49 PM
Can you post your chart, that might give some ideas, but have a look at your 11th house and its movementsIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 20, 2012 01:47 PM
Here you go, Tofu, thank you for noticing!Randall, this should probably get moved to Personal Readings. Sorry.  I realize I probably have a lot of Uranian influence in my chart since my first four personal planets are all in the 11H, plus having Uranus in the 7H AND having that trine my Moon. For awhile I thought it was just that which made people leave after a short time and abruptly, but shouldn't I have combating Saturn aspects to balance that out? And why is it always after a disagreement?  IP: Logged |
Tofu addict
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posted December 21, 2012 03:17 AM
Everything and everybody is in interaction, but the ruler of your 11th house, Mars, fiery, is conj. the asc, so I think you might come over stronger than you realize. But in 12, so difficult for you to get a grip on that, to see it. But others feel it. Also the opposition from Pluto to the mOon in eleven. The relating houses, 7 and 11 are very important in your chart, so anything happening there you take to heart. Sun< Mercury, Venus in Aries, in 11 is also strong, maybe you need to give more space, more than you think is needed. The Aries energy is going from its viewpoint, in contrast with the 11 house principles. I think that is where the problems lies,. The square from Saturn to all the planets in 11 does not help, it is not an easy flowing aspect, Saturn restricts, puts a demper on emotions flowing freely . So that and what I wrote above I see as the reason for your problem. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted December 21, 2012 06:12 AM
I do notice there's a lot of emphasis on the "people" houses (5, 7, 11). Also good point of view about the ruler of my 11H. I'm not a yeller though... however, I did grow up with my mother who had an insane temper so I'm sure that carries over somehow. Thanks for the explanation Tofu! Appreciate it.IP: Logged | |
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