posted December 21, 2012 11:27 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
All of the above, but more importantly: because you let them.

Set boundaries!
Learn to say NO.

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posted December 21, 2012 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by KarkaQueen:
And take advantage of me, or act controlling. Even my romantic interests/partners too. Is it my weak Mars in Cancer 6th Placement? Or is my Sun conjunct Cancer DSC? Or is it my Neptune conjunct ASC? Or is it the fact my fire is weak in my chart?

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I have the opposite problem: I am so wary, mistrustful, defensive and detached that I put myself beyond anyone's influence -- beyond love and nearly beyond simple friendship.

posted December 21, 2012 11:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Blackbird:
I have the opposite problem: I am so wary, mistrustful, defensive and detached that I put myself beyond anyone's influence -- beyond love and nearly beyond simple friendship.

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posted December 21, 2012 12:01 PM            

I say this as a Capricorn Sun - Virgo Rising --- with water dominant chart~ mmmnnn

posted December 21, 2012 12:07 PM            

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
You must not be very controlling. Neptunce conj. ASC is akin to having Pisces ASC I think. That alone would give you a softer appearance and demeanor. I want to see your whole chart though to see what's going on! Odd because I think you and I have a friendly rapport, and I realized almost all my friends have problems with boundaries, and get pushed around a lot by other people. All of them have water placements too.

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Thanks hanna and Saturine moth. <3

I think so too lol but heres my details : July 17 of 1998 New Orleans, Louisianna 8:11 PM

posted December 21, 2012 12:08 PM            

Well, being pushed around is not always a Mars placement but I must add that having Cancer there does make one avoid/ignore intuitive feelings of disatisfaction in the interest of keeping peace.

Having Mars conjunct sun(by sign) means that you care deeply for those that are closest to you and so, if you are not careful, it is very easy for them to tweak your soft nature to a point where you feel "robbed".

I think you have powerful intuition that you should learn to use to your advantage. You could be ignoring the warning signs at the start of the relationship with people or maybe doubting yourself and telling yourself that you are being "oversensitive".

With Cancer Mars and Sun, it is likely that you are not blinded to manipulative/controlling behaviour but perhaps this is an opportunity you have at your disposal to learn to be more assertive about your feelings and self-preservation.

If you don't respect and honour your powerful feelings(and they are), no-one else will deem it necessary to.

If you have your Ascendant in Capricorn and this can help you prioritize the relationships that you have in your life.

I suspect that the Pluto transit in Capricorn is activating your Ascendant; making you either "own" your own power right now by bringing it all to the fore OR make you realize that there are people around you(reltionships perhaps) that are wielding undue power over you because you have let them.

posted December 21, 2012 12:13 PM            

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Originally posted by AscTaurus:
Sun conjunct Cancer DSC suggests to me that you have a Capricorn Ascendant right?

Well, being pushed around is not always a Mars placement but I must add that having Cancer there does make one avoid/ignore intuitive feelings of disatisfaction in the interest of keeping peace.

Having Mars conjunct sun(by sign) means that you care deeply for those that are closest to you and so, if you are not careful, it is very easy for them to tweak your soft nature to a point where you feel "robbed".

I think you have powerful intuition that you should learn to use to your advantage. You could be ignoring the warning signs at the start of the relationship with people or maybe doubting yourself and telling yourself that you are being "oversensitive".

With Cancer Mars and Sun, it is likely that you are not blinded to manipulative/controlling behaviour but perhaps this is an opportunity you have at your disposal to learn to be more assertive about your feelings and self-preservation.

If you don't respect and honour your powerful feelings(and they are), no-one else will deem it necessary to.

If you have your Ascendant in Capricorn and this can help you prioritize the relationships that you have in your life.

I suspect that the Pluto transit in Capricorn is activating your Ascendant; making you either "own" your own power right now by bringing it all to the fore OR make you realize that there are people around you(reltionships perhaps) that are wielding undue power over you because you have let them.

Time to get rid of the baggage and bring in more "feelings aware" people into your fold

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