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Topic: Major virgo drama ...please help!
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lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 24, 2012 04:54 PM
  
okay this going to make me look bad but .Basically i want to know EVERYTHING about virgo men . i need to understand this guy and what is going through his head at the moment . He is a Virgo sun , cappy moon and mars nd venus in cancer . i acctually posted about him before . I also think he is a gemini rising . Heres the situation? We liked eachother for nearly 10 years now at first i hated him and we argued alot and everything was so competitive and it still is but then he told everyone he liked me and i just ignored him and pretended i didnt like him back and id be realy mean to him so much so that he was afraid to make eye contact with me . I told my friends i liked him then he heard about it . (we were kids then btw) about 3 years later he found me on facebook and added me i dunno how he found me since people who know me tell me im impossible to find . i ignored his request for a long time then i finally accepted him . we started talking instantly then ....he started hinting at hooking up and i said only if i really like the person and he quickly said yes me too then he told me he liked me but not directly . My first question : Are virgo men nervous about what people will think of them ??? beacuse he seems terrified of me . then we decied to go out to see eachother and i ditched him 3 times!!! i honestly forgot the 2nd and the 3rd time . then he got really angry and ignored me . a few weeks later he comes crawling back ..telling me he still likes me and then i told him i have a boyfriend ..then he didnt reply ??? Is it in a virgo guys nature to come crawling back? after someone treated you like crap why?? now this is the good bit ...we all went to this nightclub and i saw him there nd i ignored him . i made out with 3 of his friends NOT ON PURPOSE . the minute i was done they point me to him and he was fuming!!!!!! about 10 minutes later i see him and he wants to make out with me ???? why would he still want me after i did that to him? then i reject him and now hes ignoring me again and he started talking to my best friend and i KNOW its too get back at me . she doesnt even like him and she said shed ignore him . Now i want to understand what makes him act this way with me . I do like him i told him i do but then i rejected him ..i only did that because i could. to be honest im not a very faithful person and i have HUGE commitment issues but im willing to change for him . I just don't know what to do now i don't know whats going through his head? he asked my friend to meet up with him straight away and he would NEVER EVER do that in his life to me ..he was terrified to even ask me to kiss him . I feel like this is all a huge game with him and at the moment its 1-1 . He seems so afraid of what i think of him and then so eager .. the look on his face when he wanted to kiss me he litterally had his hands on me and his lips on my cheek and i just pushed him off me . and now his friends wont talk to me ?? so im thinking he told them about me ? If its helps Im a taurus sun , aqua moon taurus venus mars virgo and aquarius rising . I know im to blame here beacuse i hurt him but when he doesnt express himself to me it annoys me and makes me want to run away from the whole situation . please help me with my questions??? IP: Logged |
vickymadness
Knowflake Posts: 990
From: Minnesota
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 09:09 AM
Take no offense, but this whole situation seems immature to me. If you like him and willing to change then why are you giving him the wrong signals ? how do you want him to express himself when you are NOT giving him the chance to and repressing yourself at the same time??you're the one causing the problem , how could you expect a guy that you repeatedly rejected be confident and NOT act strange ? IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 164
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 09:30 AM
I stopped reading at "mars in cancer". I have dated 3 MEN with this placement and they are RELENTLESS if you spite them!! THE most passive-aggressive placement ever!! Also, I will never stop saying how much I dislike Virgo's (not ALL just the ones I have met so far in my life). And....this is a mess.Maybe you should just leave him alone? IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 454
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 09:34 AM
This relationship wont work,thats all.IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 134
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 09:48 AM
If you want the relationship to work, being direct and honest is the only way to save it.Sounds like too much game playing for the both of you. Woman up and level the playing field, starting over from scratch.IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 275
From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted December 25, 2012 11:24 AM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I stopped reading at "mars in cancer". I have dated 3 MEN with this placement and they are RELENTLESS if you spite them!! THE most passive-aggressive placement ever!! Also, I will never stop saying how much I dislike Virgo's (not ALL just the ones I have met so far in my life).
Ditto! How Virgo's ever got the reputation they have is a huge mystery to me. They are in the running for the most sociopathic malicious signs there are.They have no remorse or conscience at all. Never have that deathbed epiphany. No motive to it either. IP: Logged |
I'm so cappy
Knowflake Posts: 119
From: Poland/Saturn
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 01:30 PM
First grow up, then think of relationships.IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 01:59 PM
I know i didn't explain it very well but thats the basic sitaution . I know im in the wrong all i want to know is more expeirences with virgo guys or guys with cancer placements. and yes it sounds very immature but thats how it is i guess . IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
Knowflake Posts: 454
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Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 02:14 PM
You should make the first move.He has cancer mars,in my own experience they never make the first move,they expect you to apologise,initiate things.I dont have much experience with virgo suns,I get along quite well with them but they seem to lack the ability to understand others on emotional level especially the virgo moons.IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 254
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 02:20 PM
You treated him like crap, toyed around with him and also made out with his friends. It's no wonder he's hesitant, you don't exactly inspire trust.Work on yourself. I'm not sure how old you are but you need to learn some maturity. Good luck! IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 02:38 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
You should make the first move.He has cancer mars,in my own experience they never make the first move,they expect you to apologise,initiate things.I dont have much experience with virgo suns,I get along quite well with them but they seem to lack the ability to understand others on emotional level especially the virgo moons.
that seems true about him ! thanks  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
Knowflake Posts: 134
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 25, 2012 10:05 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
I know i didn't explain it very well but thats the basic sitaution . I know im in the wrong all i want to know is more expeirences with virgo guys or guys with cancer placements. and yes it sounds very immature but thats how it is i guess .
I will be first to admit Virgo is not the easiest to have a relationship with unless there is an emphasis on Libra and even then it's about house placement.
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birdy
Knowflake Posts: 588
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Registered: Dec 2011
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posted December 26, 2012 03:29 AM
3 mates?? Um...no. This sounds like some high school BS. You seriously angered his Cap moon pride. I wouldn't pin your hopes on this guy. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 26, 2012 10:48 AM
I think what happened with me is, everyone in my environment didn't like my Virgo traits much. I have a lot of Libra Ascendants in my family so there's a strong pull toward acting the way a Libra acts. They value peace, not making waves, and no complaining (which Virgo is infamous for.) My family tried to replace that Virgo sun, which isn't really strong in my chart, with Libra qualities, which they all value more and they are like hereditary personality traits on my mother's side. So, even though I have sun in Virgo, Libra sneaks in a lot and i don't freak out all the time like Virgos can.IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 26, 2012 11:24 AM
He is suprisingly vengefull and jealous for a virgo :/ He is really confusing me one minute hes all i dont care and then the next hes screaming at me to F off .
Maybe i just went too far this time .IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 26, 2012 12:25 PM
Cancer is a bad placement for Mars as well. It's really weak there because it's opposite the sign it is exalted in, Capricorn. It is best of all in Capricorn and has the most trouble in Cancer. Maybe he has issues controlling his need to get even through action?IP: Logged |
JLyn ~
Knowflake Posts: 555
From: my state of mind
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 09:19 AM
Virgos suck but i like'um then i wanna shoot their feet off so they crawl to the toilet with dirty scabby knees, but those sweet eyes i love so much! "all virgo people put yellow caution tape around you while i figure out what i'm ganna do to you all" IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 11:06 AM
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Originally posted by JLyn ~:
Virgos suck but i like'um then i wanna shoot their feet off so they crawl to the toilet with dirty scabby knees, but those sweet eyes i love so much! "all virgo people put yellow caution tape around you while i figure out what i'm ganna do to you all"
What sign are you?
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Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 254
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 02:40 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
He is suprisingly vengefull and jealous for a virgo :/ He is really confusing me one minute hes all i dont care and then the next hes screaming at me to F off .
Maybe i just went too far this time .
You treated him like sh and you're surprised at his reaction? Come on, you kept pushing him away literally! You made out with 3 of his friends. Wtf who does that? Frankly he was too nice to you. I would have dropped you and cut you off. I don't deal with middle school bs.
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Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 02:49 PM
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Originally posted by JLyn ~:
Virgos suck but i like'um then i wanna shoot their feet off so they crawl to the toilet with dirty scabby knees, but those sweet eyes i love so much! "all virgo people put yellow caution tape around you while i figure out what i'm ganna do to you all"
AHHAHAHAHAH that made me laugh.
I noticed people dislike virgos a lot.
My friend is a Libra sun with Virgo moon, people really dislike her. She can be kind of bitchy, which I think is normal, I think its strange when people act nice 24/7. People tell me she's really fake etc. I mean most people like Libras so it must be the Virgo. IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 02:54 PM
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Originally posted by lovehate122:
okay this going to make me look bad but .
then we decied to go out to see eachother and i ditched him 3 times!!! i honestly forgot the 2nd and the 3rd time . then he got really angry and ignored me .
a few weeks later he comes crawling back ..telling me he still likes me and then i told him i have a boyfriend ..then he didnt reply ???
LOL yes you seem like horrible person. Poor Virgo guy 
The thing is thats not how you treat people.
This has nothing to do with astrology.
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Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 254
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 03:19 PM
I think she's just really immature. You'd hate it if a guy did this to you. The guy would be deemed a manipulative ahole lol.IP: Logged |
Kerosene
Knowflake Posts: 165
From: Mercury
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 03:28 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
[B. You'd hate it if a guy did this to you. .[/B]
She does not know what she wants. Either you like him or you don't. I think she does some what likes him still, thats the problem. She's playing the mind games, he's just the idiot.
Most people would be straight up with him. "Sorry guy, I'm not into you romantically!"
This whole situation could of been avoided. IP: Logged |
lovehate122
Knowflake Posts: 429
From: Ireland
Registered: Apr 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 03:42 PM
okay i get it im a horrible person
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Haplesschild*
Knowflake Posts: 254
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 27, 2012 03:50 PM
How old are you? Are you like 18?
I think as long as you learn from things it's all good. Otherwise this behaviour is just sad. The guy has heart too, don't treat him like a toy you can just fling around.IP: Logged |
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