posted December 25, 2012 06:31 PM            

Now I don't understand why when it comes to the 8H, the tables are turned :/ many people say that it is the planet's person who gets affected .... no proofs or experiences.

ONLY for those who experienced this aspect or have an interesting piece of information ... please enlighten me with your input! and be honest

posted December 25, 2012 08:04 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
It doesn't make the difference,the both parties are affected.
It would be within theoretical reasoning to suppose that the house person feel the impact more,as receptive part of the relation,not having an active energy like planets do.
However,I noticed when Asc/Planets in play,the asc does come across as stronger,more relevant,for the lack of better term. Now that's Asc very important,so things may change to a lesser degree when dealing with succedent & cadent houses.
Planet person loves that sense of familiar and "just right" but subtle sentiment that doesn't require much to show - they love being understood*. It depends on their natal how strong they'll hold onto it. Not everybody is enthraled with H8 themes.

Edit: * understanding makes room the lack of boundaries,liberating,therefore the "intense" side of it.

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posted December 26, 2012 02:38 PM            

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Originally posted by VenusDiSirius:
Not everybody is enthraled with H8 themes.

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This is true. People who don't have planets in the 8th natally and/or Pluto aspecting a luminary, typically don't like the energy and find it scary and suffocating and they can't handle it.

You have to look at the person's natal chart to get an idea of if they're Plutonic and familiar with the energy themselves, to get some sense of how well they will (or won't) deal with it.

posted December 26, 2012 02:43 PM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
This is true. People who don't have planets in the 8th natally and/or Pluto aspecting a luminary, typically don't like the energy and find it scary and suffocating and they can't handle it.

You have to look at the person's natal chart to get an idea of if they're Plutonic and familiar with the energy themselves, to get some sense of how well they will (or won't) handle it.

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funny thing is , I have almost zero plutonion energy in my chart and I'm not intimidated whatsoever by this energy ... but he has scorpio moon conjunct his pluto ( and scorpio ASC) and and he is the one who got freaked out :/

posted December 26, 2012 08:53 PM            

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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
This is true. People who don't have planets in the 8th natally and/or Pluto aspecting a luminary, typically don't like the energy and find it scary and suffocating and they can't handle it.

You have to look at the person's natal chart to get an idea of if they're Plutonic and familiar with the energy themselves, to get some sense of how well they will (or won't) deal with it.

Not everybody can handle that level of intimacy and depth - some just want a fun screw-fest and someone to cook and clean for them.

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posted December 29, 2012 06:43 AM            

i had my sun, moon, mars, and pluto fall into her 8th house. needless to say that i acted out of character. like I did not know who or what I was feeling so i ran away. lol.