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Topic: Promises & Disclaimers?
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Odette
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Registered: May 2012
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posted December 26, 2012 05:45 PM
  
What aspects would be responsible for this kind of behavior?
(I was wondering whether it is a Sagittarian thing)Basically – on the one hand this person makes everything seem rosy and perfect and they promise several positive, happy things…
On the other hand – it’s kind of like signing a contract… because at the end of their “positivity” they add in disclaimers. They might not explicitly say it – but this is the general pattern.. First there’s the promise.. For example: “I promise to love you forever more!” Then.. the disclaimer:
“Mr Sagittarius shall not, under any circumstances, be liable for any direct, consequential, incidental, indirect or special damages of any kind – or any damages whatsoever – including without limitation those arising from any decision made or action taken by Ms. Aries, in reliance upon the content of Mr. Sagittarius’ promises.” It kinda kills the moment. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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Registered: Nov 2012
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posted December 26, 2012 06:18 PM
Does someone you know really say that? Sounds like Sheldon to me.IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 26, 2012 06:23 PM
bahahahah It really does sound like Sheldon.
No he does not say that - but that's the message. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted December 26, 2012 06:28 PM
I read Sagittarius likes to have freedom. Could it have something to do with that?IP: Logged |
StacyLewis
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posted December 26, 2012 06:40 PM
That just sounds honest to me (which is, after all, a pretty typical Sag trait).Would you rather they say they'll definitely be around FOREVER...and then feel like crap it that works out to not be the case? I'd prefer to get a disclaimer than an over-the-top promise that can't be kept.
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SaturnineMoth
Knowflake Posts: 917
From: Province of Ontario
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted December 26, 2012 06:44 PM
it sounds like a very, very pure Sadge...
(not a Sagittarius by Sun, but by majority... and I do this... lmao just being honest!)darn it... my husband didn't come with disclaimers! XD really wish he would have though! he's king of procrastination and unfulfilled/broken promises! 
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anno_lucis
Knowflake Posts: 249
From: uk
Registered: Mar 2012
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posted December 26, 2012 06:51 PM
rofli have a sheldon cooper sag for a bf too. that was an excellent and accurate break down of his psychological disposition. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted December 26, 2012 07:08 PM
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Would you rather they say they'll definitely be around FOREVER...and then feel like crap it that works out to not be the case?
I'd rather them say nothing at all - and go with the flow of life.. and whatever happens - happens. I find this really paranoid. I mean if I FEEL something today - then I'll be honest and tell the person how I feel.
If things change tomorrow - and one of us or both us get hurt - then whatever - such is life! sh*t happens. IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted December 26, 2012 07:31 PM
I can see your point, Odette. If they don't really want something why even bring it up in the first place? IP: Logged |
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