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StacyLewis
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posted December 31, 2012 10:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for StacyLewis     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I tend to attract Leo and/or Virgo-heavy people.

Not the sign on my fifth house cusp (Gemini). Leo is on my seventh house cusp, sure; and Virgo is my eighth house cusp...but I think it has more to do with my Venus and Vertex being in Virgo (along with most of my midpoints), and my sun being prominent by being somewhat angular at this point, than the signs on the cusps of those houses.

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posted January 01, 2013 06:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"aww...more than one?? Does a progressy planet count?"
Yes, for the time being.
You know how progressed aspects are. Intense, but then go POOF, if there is nothing else to sustain the attraction.

"I knew it. This is nail-hit-head astrology. Love it!!"
Thanks. I am glad you could relate.

How is it for you? Do you prefer the 7th house sign or the sign of the ruler?
In my chart I seem to have a perference for the rulers as compared to the signs on the cusps.


"I have the opposition. I actually had question about this: What does Sun in aspect to 7th house ruler say about the partner?"
I suppose it might be different with the aspects. With the conjunction, there is a merging, and the partner has to have some solar qualities as well.
Beside being similiar to me and compatible with my Sun, I tend to be attracted to men with a "sunny" attitude, those who can illuminate a dark room just by being their, speading enthusiasm, optimism, confidence and warmth. Also like a protective (but non posessive) man.

I don`t know if that is true for if the 7th house ruler opposes Sun. You tell me!

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posted January 01, 2013 06:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"ot the sign on my fifth house cusp (Gemini)"
What is your Mercury doing? Can you see its sign, house or conjuncting planet as part of your attraction pattern?
Or expanding on that, are you attracted to Mercury-synastry?


".but I think it has more to do with my Venus and Vertex being in Virgo (along with most of my midpoints), and my sun being prominent by being somewhat angular at this point,"
And there you go. Another one whose personal planets are not really smoothly compatible with their 5th house sign.
Virgo and Gemini might be both be ruled by Mercury, but are clashing somewhat naturally.

I have the same thing. my 5th house cusp is in Taurus. It is quinkunx my Sun, Mercury, Mars, NN and ASC in Sagittarius, square my Moon in Aquarius. And that might be the reason I don`t really go for Taureans.
The only exception is if they have a planet around 6 degrees on Taurs, as this is trine my Venus. But to be honest I prefer the other earth signs. For some reason I rather take a square over a quinkunx. At least I can see then who I am dealing with.

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posted January 01, 2013 07:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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"I have the opposition. I actually had question about this: What does Sun in aspect to 7th house ruler say about the partner?"
I suppose it might be different with the aspects. With the conjunction, there is a merging, and the partner has to have some solar qualities as well.
Beside being similiar to me and compatible with my Sun, I tend to be attracted to men with a "sunny" attitude, those who can illuminate a dark room just by being their, speading enthusiasm, optimism, confidence and warmth. Also like a protective (but non posessive) man.

I don`t know if that is true for if the 7th house ruler opposes Sun. You tell me!


I was wondering if it meant your ideal partner was in a position of authority, like your boss, or head of the company.

In my working life I've had many flirty dalliances with the person in charge, and have grown used to special attention and privileges.

I have Sun oppose 7th house ruler. Sun is conjunct MC, or perhaps 7th house ruler oppose MC.

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posted January 01, 2013 09:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"I was wondering if it meant your ideal partner was in a position of authority, like your boss, or head of the company."
Hmm not really.
Though I think I like traits or qualities that are often associated with functions like these.
You don`t get into a position of authority, if you don`t have confidence I guess.
But I would emphasize the TRAIT over the FUNCTION, though in some cases it might align with each other.

It is true though that I need to be able to admire a man. Not in a worshipping, adoring kind of way. But I need to feel respect for him and what he does; if i don`t any kind of attraction dies quickly.
If I however see how generously and compasionately he treats others and has ideals and gets involved in worthy causes (I think the signbackground Sagittarius comes into play here as well; I am a sucker for Robin HOod or even, yes, even Don Quixote-characters.), it can move me to tears.

"I have Sun oppose 7th house ruler. Sun is conjunct MC, or perhaps 7th house ruler oppose MC."
That would definitely put the IC-MC-axis into spotlight. Though with 7th ouse ruler near the IC, I would think that it is not eanough for someone to just be of high rank, there needs to be emotional substance (IC).

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posted January 01, 2013 03:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Nine     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thanks, right on.

It has always been easy to picture the meaning of say, Moon or Saturn in aspect to 7th ruler, but the Sun had proved elusive.

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posted January 01, 2013 03:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What would it mean if nothing aspects your DSC (or its ruler hardly) would other placements take precedence?

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posted January 01, 2013 06:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
I tend to attract Leo and/or Virgo-heavy people.

Not the sign on my fifth house cusp (Gemini). Leo is on my seventh house cusp, sure; and Virgo is my eighth house cusp...but I think it has more to do with my Venus and Vertex being in Virgo (along with most of my midpoints), and my sun being prominent by being somewhat angular at this point, than the signs on the cusps of those houses.


StacyLewis,

Hi, I saw on another thread that Mercury in Leo rules your Gemini 5th house cusp. Even if you don’t go for the sign on your 5th house cusp, it’s ruler seems to be relevant. Also, Gemini rules the 3rd house, which in your case is Taurus ruled by Venus in Virgo… Your 3rd house is your secondary 5th house. So there is a connection to the signs Taurus and Virgo there as well.

Though, I must say I wholeheartedly agree with you about the potency of the Vertex. It rocks your world!

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posted January 01, 2013 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
7th? Or does it depend on where certain planets are in our chart?

Well, our charts certainly can show who we’ll fall for, but not necessarily if it’ll be for keeps. Western astrology as we know it can’t guarantee that any relationship will last ‘for keeps’. Still, I’m all up for trying. If we want to know if someone will be attracted to us, rather then us to them, we have to look at their chart, not our own for clues. First we identify what our ‘type’ is in our own charts, and then we look at the partner’s chart using the same formula, to identify their ‘type’…

If both people show evidence of being attracted to the other when we look at their respective natal charts, then the attraction is more likely to be mutual. Which means it’s more likely to be lasting! That’s the approach I’d take. Although, sometimes we can actually be attracted to someone with whom we have terrible synastry. But that’s life. A little common sense goes a long way in such situations.

What I’ve noticed is that romantic attraction comes from a combination of mostly two factors, and that both are needed for an attraction to be fully developed. The 1st factor concerns whether or not someone matches your relationship ideals, and the second factor concerns whether or not you have synastry aspects with the person in question that produce physical attraction.

FACTORS THAT TELL IF SOMEONE IS YOUR TYPE

Factor 1.) Does the person in question match your relationship ideals? Are they your ‘type’? Our relationship ideals are shown though our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, the Vertex Axis, and Juno. People seem to be your ‘type’ when… Planets in the partner’s chart aspect the rulers of your 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, or planets in the partner’s chart are actually in your 5th, 7th, or 8th houses… And when planets in the partner’s chart aspect your Vertex Axis or Juno. Or are in the same sign as your Juno, or in the same sign as your Vertex or Antivertex (particularly if they are within orb of a conjunction or opposition to the Vertex). When we really fall in love, the person in question usually influences and matches our relationship ideals in multiple different ways. The more ways your partner resembles and aspects your 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, Vertex Axis, and Juno, the better!

AND…

Factor 2.) Do you find the person in question physically attractive? Does their mere presence turn you on? This is revealed through traditional physical attraction synastry aspects like Venus/Mars, Sun/Moon, Pluto/Mars, Moon/Mars, Venus/Sun and so on (I’m sure most of us a familiar with the traditional physical attraction synastry aspects by now, there are like a million threads on them). Usually when we’re really attracted to someone we’ll have at least one, and often several, of these types of aspects with the partner.

HERE’S WHY BOTH FACTORS ARE NECESSARY

From my observation, sometimes the traditional physical attraction aspects can actually be present in synastry without any real sexual attraction occurring… For instance, it’s entirely possible to have a Venus/Mars aspect with someone random, like a co-worker, and not feel a romantic/sexual attraction to them at all. HOWEVER, when the person in question also has planets influencing your 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, the Vertex Axis, or Juno, this tends to ACTIVATE any traditional physical attraction synastry aspects you have with them. So that the aspects can be felt in a sexual/romantic kind of way, rather then just in a platonic kind of way.

Personally, I find the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses to be crucial in attraction for this reason. Not just because of the planets in houses thing (not just overlays!). When the rulers of these houses aspect important parts of the partner’s chart, this too activates already existing physical attraction synastry aspects. A few people have already pointed this out. Over the years, I’ve come to observe that people influencing each other’s 5th, 7th, and 8th houses (by overlay OR house ruler aspects), Vertex, and Juno, is what ACTIVATES physical attraction synastry.

The 5th, 7th and 8th houses, the Vertex Axis, and Juno ACTIVATE synastry so that any potential attraction in the synastry can be felt. When people hit these parts of our chart it tends to ‘open our eyes’ to them as a romantic possibility. Almost like they flip a switch in our psyche.

Sometimes traditional physical attraction aspects can be felt faintly without the Vertex, Juno, and 5th, 7th, and 8th house interconnections between charts. This is usually when the aspect is really tight and powerful. Still, traditional physical attraction aspects never seem to reach their full potential unless they are ‘activated’ by the above mentioned factors. Only very mild attraction occurs at best when they are lacking. It takes more then Venus/Mars or Sun/Moon synastry to really fall in love, the person also needs to be our type.

FACTORS TO TELL IF WE ARE SOMEONE ELSE’S TYPE

If we are going to wonder about who will fall in love with us, we would look at the partner’s chart to see how we influence THEIR 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, THEIR Vertex, and THEIR Juno… Mutual attraction happens when both people show in each other’s charts in this way.

We check our partner’s chart to see if we fit THEIR pattern, to gauge their potential attraction towards us…

With sign matching, and house ruler aspects for the partner’s 5th, 7th, and 8th houses.

Aspects to the partner’s Vertex and Antivertex (Especially oppositions and conjunctions, although any aspect ‘works‘). To some extent sign matches work with the Vertex Axis as well. The sign on either side of the Vertex Axis can have an attractive pull, and some people favor one side over the other.

And Juno by sign, house, and aspect, definitely describes something of what we need in someone in order to be willing to commit to them. Juno has some similarities to the 7th house in this way. If we aspect the partner’s Juno, or if our chart resemble their Juno, we seem more like we have ‘serious relationship’ potential for them.

LOVE HOUSES, AND THE RULER VS CUSP DELIMA…

One thing that I've noticed about the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses attraction theory, is that different people latch onto certain parts of their pattern more then the rest of it. Meaning, some people are more attracted to the sign of the cusp ruler then the then the sign on the cusp itself. Some people are more attracted to a planet in the house in question (Like, having Venus in the 7th and liking Libra/Taurus energy). While others really do find the actual sign on the cusp more attractive. For whatever reason, perhaps it relates to childhood experiences or the way the rest of our chart is set up, different people 'prioritize' different parts of their 7th house pattern in terms of attraction. And sometimes the part that you're most attracted to changes over your lifespan, depending on your experience. Which part you 'prioritize' also varies from house to house (between the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses).

Like in my case, I've got Aries on the 5th house cusp ruled by Mars in Leo. For some reason I'm just more attracted to Aries then Leo. Although I do find Leo energy attractive in a way, the attraction to Aries is stronger. I seem to have prioritized the sign on my 5th house cusp over it's ruler.

My 7th house is different yet again. I've got a Gemini Dsc ruled by Mercury in Sagittarius, plus Jupiter in the 7th house. I can find Gemini energy attractive, but usually I'm overwhelmingly more attracted to Sagittarius. The Sag part of my 7th house outweighs the Gemini part. A guy having a strong Mercury in his chart, or strong Mercury synastry with me is very attractive though.

My 8th house is Cancer ruled by the Moon also in Cancer in the 8th house. 8th house ruler in the 8th. I really do seem to have a thing for Cancer and Scorpio by Moon sign, although usually not by Sun signs. I seem to prefer masculine Sun signs, especially Aries and Sagittarius, with water Moons.

I'll admit I'm not entirely sure why people prioritize different parts of their relationship houses. I just know that it happens. If two people both had Taurus on the Dsc ruled by Venus in Sagittarius, one could lean more towards liking Taurus, while the other could learn more towards liking Sagittarius. And yet a third person, with the exact same configuration, could go for both signs pretty much equally. It varies with each person. Each of the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses will attract us in some way though. We may just prioritize different parts of each of these houses in terms of what we're attracted to.

Also, different houses will refer to different parts of our partner's chart.

In my case my 8th house usually relates to his Moon sign, and his Sun sign will usually relate to either my 5th, or 7th house. It works best if we look at our partners whole chart in terms of how they relate to our 5th, 7th, and 8th houses. And it helps if we look beyond the signs on the cusps. Not taking the rulers into account is not only limiting but misleading. I also take note of the house in which the cusp rulers fall. This too can be very illuminating.

JUNO

This Asteroid has really caught my attention lately.

The asteroid Juno is said to describe what we need and are attracted to in a spouse. Juno’s placement by sign, house, and aspect in our chart shows the type of qualities we need in a partner as a sort of bottom line. It’s often a deal-breaker for us, whether or not a romantic interest has the qualities of our Juno placements. Juno shows who we look for when it comes to serious relationships. If a person doesn’t relate to the qualities of our Juno sign, even if we find them very attractive, we may not consider them a serious long term possibility for us. Juno tells what we MUST HAVE in a partner for them to feel they are someone we want to commit to… Not just though the partner’s Sun sign! Any important part of the partner’s chart can relate to our Juno, either by the partner’s sign placements or through positive synastry involving Juno.

I’ve also noticed that if a partner’s placements don’t relate very well to our 7th house (the house of Marriage), then they often relate to our Juno placements. One famous example is Prince William and Catherine… His 7th house starts in late Gemini and contains the entire sign of Cancer, Catherine’s Cancer Moon falls into his 7th house. This is good. However, her Sun sign Capricorn doesn’t show anywhere in his attraction pattern (5th, 7th, or 8th houses), except that he has Juno in Capricorn. His 7th house is attracted to her Cancer Moon, and his Juno is attracted to her Capricorn Sun.

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posted January 01, 2013 06:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
HANNARAMAA! This just reminded me, I know that you have gone for a few guys with strong Leo placements, and yet Leo is not connected with your 5th, 7th, or 8th houses… However I do remember that you have Juno in Leo! This may explain the prominence of Leo influenced guys in your history. Also, Mars refers to our masculine ideals, and your Mars is in Gemini which rules the 3rd house… Leo is on your 3rd house. So in a sense, the sign Leo also relates to your masculine ideals because your Mars sign rules the house on which the sign Leo is placed.

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posted January 01, 2013 06:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
HANNARAMAA! This just reminded me, I know that you have gone for a few guys with strong Leo placements, and yet Leo is not connected with your 5th, 7th, or 8th houses… However I do remember that you have Juno in Leo! This may explain the prominence of Leo influenced guys in your history. Also, Mars refers to our masculine ideals, and your Mars is in Gemini which rules the 3rd house… Leo is on your 3rd house. So in a sense, the sign Leo also relates to your masculine ideals because your Mars sign rules the house on which the sign Leo is placed.

Oh LotisWhite, I so respect your knowledge on astrology! Really. I never would have looked at that way, having only given credit to my Aries stellium!

You're right, I do have Juno in Leo and it's in my 3rd but in light of this does that mean the 12th house has no effect at all (since it's where Mars is located)?

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posted January 01, 2013 08:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Oh LotisWhite, I so respect your knowledge on astrology! Really. I never would have looked at that way, having only given credit to my Aries stellium!

You're right, I do have Juno in Leo and it's in my 3rd but in light of this does that mean the 12th house has no effect at all (since it's where Mars is located)?


Why yes, of course the house of your Mars will matter! When I look at the placement of a planet I take note of 3 things.

1.) The Actual placement of the planet by sign, house, and aspect. Like Mars in Gemini in the 12th house. This is of primary importance. The actual sign and house placement of a planet is always the most important thing to take into consideration.

2.) The dispositor of that planet. That's the ruling planet of your the sign of your Mars. For Mars in Gemini look at Mercury in your chart, since Mercury influences Gemini's activities. This is a secondary influence on your Mars.

3.) The house ruled by the sign of a planet. As above, Mars is in the sign Gemini, Gemini rules the 3rd house, the 3rd house and it's ruler will show extra details about your 'Mars oriented' preferences. In your case the 3rd house is Leo. This is also of secondary importance, although I have found that it often does contribute some shockingly relevant details sometimes. You might notice I use the 'signs ruling houses' technique thing a lot. Ha ha! It's like my 'go to' formula for both houses (which I call secondary houses), and planet sign placements. With planets in signs, I just take note of the house ruled by the sign in which a planet is placed.

For the houses cusp part, I look at the house ruled by the sign on the cusp of the house in question.

Hannaramaa, I'll give you an example from your own chart using your Dsc, to show how I use secondary houses. Okay, I know you have a Sagittarius Dsc, Sag rules the 9th house... That means that you 9th house functions as a secondary 7th house, and gives extra information about partnerships for you. Your 9th house is Aquarius, ruled by Uranus in Capricorn... Since you already have Uranus and Saturn in the 7th, plus Capricorn on the 8th house, These two energies will have doubled importance for you. You can use this method on any house, or planet, to find extra information about it's functioning.

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posted January 01, 2013 10:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
LotisWhite, thank you for explaining that! It's been said by dozens before but you explain it very well. I'm so excited to be able to look at my friend's charts and tell them about their love lives

One last question though... do the houses we're taking special notice of ever indicate where the other person's own planets would be, sign-wise? For example, I have Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in the 7th and (I'm throwing this out there and understand these won't have true relevance to each other) so does that mean I would attract luminary Pisces or, say, Mercury in Capricorn people? Or does it pertain more to just the energy I attract instead?

I also have to mention the four guys who made emotional impacts on me (not even necessarily big or lasting ones, but some were subtle, others were very profound and short-lasting) were fire signs. Two of them were Leos (which I guess I've mentioned all over this board :laughing and one of them a Sagittarius.

The first Leo had a Sag moon, Mars and Venus in Leo, Mercury in Cancer. He changed me but I he didn't have any air signs in his chart whatsoever. The energy of our relationship was more Plutonian, and as I explain this I'm wondering what the point of me mentioning it is since it doesn't fit into our discussion very well...

The second had Capricorn rising, and a Capricorn moon. Venus in Leo, Mars in Scorpio. Weird connection with that one, a palpable psychic past-life thing. I'm not sure.

The third one...ermygosh! Leo Sun with Moon in Aquarius, Mercury in Leo, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries. Fits the bill astrologically and I really liked the energy we had! Very calm and easy going. I never criticized who he was in my head at all. It felt very comfortable and natural.

The fourth one, the Sag, oh boy. He had Moon in Libra (which I'm not sure how but wouldn't I like that due to my Moon not only being in the 11th house of Aquarius -though in Taurus - but also being in the same house as Venus (which is also the 11H)? I feel like because it's the 11H there's an air influence somehow) Mercury in Scorpio, Venus in Scorpio, and Mars in Pisces. He didn't like me very much at the end but I certainly got an energizing jolt from him! Very cerebral and quick witted, though I could do without his intentional smart-mouthing.

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posted January 01, 2013 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
LotisWhite, thank you for explaining that! It's been said by dozens before but you explain it very well. I'm so excited to be able to look at my friend's charts and tell them about their love lives

One last question though... do the houses we're taking special notice of ever indicate where the other person's own planets would be, sign-wise? For example, I have Saturn, Uranus and Neptune in the 7th and (I'm throwing this out there and understand these won't have true relevance to each other) so does that mean I would attract luminary Pisces or, say, Mercury in Capricorn people? Or does it pertain more to just the energy I attract instead?

I also have to mention the four guys who made emotional impacts on me (not even necessarily big or lasting ones, but some were subtle, others were very profound and short-lasting) were fire signs. Two of them were Leos (which I guess I've mentioned all over this board :laughing and one of them a Sagittarius.

The first Leo had a Sag moon, Mars and Venus in Leo, Mercury in Cancer. He changed me but I he didn't have any air signs in his chart whatsoever. The energy of our relationship was more Plutonian, and as I explain this I'm wondering what the point of me mentioning it is since it doesn't fit into our discussion very well...

The second had Capricorn rising, and a Capricorn moon. Venus in Leo, Mars in Scorpio. Weird connection with that one, a palpable psychic past-life thing. I'm not sure.

The third one...ermygosh! Leo Sun with Moon in Aquarius, Mercury in Leo, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries. Fits the bill astrologically and I really liked the energy we had! Very calm and easy going. I never criticized who he was in my head at all. It felt very comfortable and natural.

The fourth one, the Sag, oh boy. He had Moon in Libra (which I'm not sure how but wouldn't I like that due to my Moon not only being in the 11th house of Aquarius -though in Taurus - but also being in the same house as Venus (which is also the 11H)? I feel like because it's the 11H there's an air influence somehow) Mercury in Scorpio, Venus in Scorpio, and Mars in Pisces. He didn't like me very much at the end but I certainly got an energizing jolt from him! Very cerebral and quick witted, though I could do without his intentional smart-mouthing.


Hmmm. Actually all the above guys fit into the formula… I tend to rely most heavily on the 5th, 7th, and 8th houses, the Vertex Axis, and Juno. I also tend to look at Mars and the house ruled by Mars for women, and Venus and the house ruled by Venus for men, for extra insight into their taste regarding gender behavior. Usually the people we are most attracted to resemble or aspect these placements in a variety of different ways. There’s no way to tell using the chart what exactly you’re future guy’s Sun or Moon will be. But there are some general guide lines for the type of ’energy’ you’re likely to attract, and what signs are likely to be strong in his chart.

HANNARAMAA’S ATTRACTION PATTERN

Your 5th house is Libra, ruled by Venus in Aries in the 11th house (I think?)

Your 7th house is Sagittarius ruled by Jupiter in Gemini. With Uranus (Aquarius energy), Neptune (Pisces energy), and Saturn (Capricorn energy) in the 7th house.

Sagittarius rules the 9th house, so your Aquarius 9th house ruled by Uranus in Capricorn is your secondary 7th house.

Your 8th is Capricorn ruled by Saturn also in Capricorn.

Your Juno is in Leo

And your Mars is in Gemini in the 12th, and ruling your 3rd house cusp in Leo.

Your Vertex Axis is Scorpio/Taurus, but planets in these signs tend to be most attractive to you when the are within a about 4 degrees at least of your Vertex Axis. Sometimes the sign alone can attract if mixed in with other factors you really find attractive in his chart. I’m a bit iffy on sign alone attractions to the signs on either end of the Vertex Axis. The aspects for sure though are POWERFUL.

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You’ll notice that certain signs and planets repeat themselves throughout your attraction pattern. These ones are most likely to hold the strongest appeal for you.

All the above mentioned guys fit into this pattern in different ways.

“The first Leo had a Sag moon, Mars and Venus in Leo, Mercury in Cancer.” …His Moon relates to your Sag Dsc, and his Sun, Mars and Venus relate to your Juno in Leo, and your Mars in Gemini ruling your Leo 3rd house.

“The second had Capricorn rising, and a Capricorn moon. Venus in Leo, Mars in Scorpio.” …His Moon and rising sign relate to your Saturn in the 7th house, Uranus in Capricorn ruling your secondary 7th house, and your Capricorn dominated 8th house. His Venus in Leo again relates to Juno in Leo, and your Mars in Gemini ruling your Leo 3rd house. His Mars in Scorpio relates to your Vertex (especially if conjunct).

“The third one...ermygosh! Leo Sun with Moon in Aquarius, Mercury in Leo, Venus in Gemini, Mars in Aries.”…His Sun and Mercury relate your to Juno in Leo, and your Mars in Gemini ruling your Leo 3rd house. His Aquarius Moon relates to your Uranus in the 7th house, Aquarius on the cusp of your secondary 7th house, and Venus ruling the 5th house cusp in the 11th house. His Venus in Gemini relates to Jupiter in Gemini ruling the 7th house cusp, and Mars in Gemini. His Mars in Aries relates to your Venus in Aries ruling the 5th house cusp.

“The fourth one, the Sag, oh boy. He had Moon in Libra, Mercury in Scorpio, Venus in Scorpio, and Mars in Pisces.”…His Sun relates to your Sag Dsc. Libra is the sign on your 5th house cusp, his Moon in Libra being in the same sign as your 5th house cusp, would be the appeal for you to his Moon. His Mercury and Venus in Scorpio relate to your Vertex by sign (and maybe by aspect?). His Mars in Pisces relates to your Neptune in the 7th house, and Mars in the 12th house. I know you also have Jupiter in Gemini, but I’m not sure what house it’s in? If it’s the 12th this would relate as well.

Every person that we like tends to fit our pattern one way or another. How the fit our pattern varies from person to person.

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posted January 02, 2013 12:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It is in the 12th.

Is it a lot of work for you to decipher that? I'm just so amazed. I have more questions but they're veering off from the thread topic, and I'm sure you're repeating yourself by now which is annoying and I apologize in advance if this is so! If you're not annoyed, then great. If you are - like I said I apologize but also greatly appreciate the effort you've put into this thread and Lindaland in general.

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posted January 02, 2013 12:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ha ha! No, I'm not annoyed.

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posted January 02, 2013 01:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Here's another way to read this

What do we attract for keeps?
Our second house shows what we would like to possess or own, it is what we covet, it can also show what we value and pursue, so when harmonious planets fall here, we take special care.

Someones Jupiter falling here
shows someone that will spoil you. (gifts)

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posted January 02, 2013 09:34 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Lotis

I'm trying to wow my friend with all this new knowledge I've accumulated from this thread.

Looking over her chart:
*She is a Gemini Sun, has Virgo ASC
*I noted Sagittarius ruled her 4H, and Pisces her 7H. *Jupiter is located in the 5H ruled by Aquarius,
*Uranus is in her 4H
*Neptune in the 4H

There's nothing in her 7H, but her Sun is in the 10H opposing Uranus and Neptune in the 4H and 5H (as does Mercury and Venus. Since her ASC is Virgo I'm betting there's importance in that.)

Now, her Mars is in Cancer in the 10H as well. Since we know that we now look at where her Moon is correct? Just in case, it is in the 8H in Taurus, with Venus.

Because of the double Jupiter influence between the 4H and 7H, I told her she was likely to attract a Sagittarian personality. Is this right? Then there's also a strong emphasis on Taurus since her Moon and Venus are in the 8H correct? Or do we now look where Pluto is in her chart?!

It's confusing but I have to work on this or I'll feel defeated!

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posted January 02, 2013 09:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
She also has Juno in the 1st house but it's RIGHT on the cusp between Virgo and Libra.

Vertex is in Aquarius, conj. Jupiter in the 5H.

I'm still sensing a strong Sagittarius or Aquarius partner for her since she's a Gemini. Although she has Sun, Mercury, and Venus squaring Pluto which denotes a much more Scorpio energy.

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posted January 02, 2013 01:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hannaramaa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lalalinda:
Here's another way to read this

What do we attract for keeps?
Our second house shows what we would like to possess or own, it is what we covet, it can also show what we value and pursue, so when harmonious planets fall here, we take special care.

Someones Jupiter falling here
shows someone that will spoil you. (gifts)


And you know what, Sasstrology even gave the second house importance as to how we go after what we want. Interesting.

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posted January 02, 2013 01:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for YoursTrulyAlways     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by lalalinda:
Here's another way to read this

What do we attract for keeps?
Our second house shows what we would like to possess or own, it is what we covet, it can also show what we value and pursue, so when harmonious planets fall here, we take special care.

Someones Jupiter falling here
shows someone that will spoil you. (gifts)


Lalalinda,

Just a newbie question. I have Jupiter in my 2nd House. My wife's 10th House touches my 2nd House. My Part of Fortune in 5th House touches my wife's 2nd House. Is there any significant meaning behind that?

Many thanks

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Originally posted by YoursTrulyAlways:
Lalalinda,

Just a newbie question. I have Jupiter in my 2nd House. My wife's 10th House touches my 2nd House. My Part of Fortune in 5th House touches my wife's 2nd House. Is there any significant meaning behind that?

Many thanks


I know this is meant for Lalalinda, but if I may ask - what are the rulers of all those houses? And where do their respective planets fall?

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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I know this is meant for Lalalinda, but if I may ask - what are the rulers of all those houses? And where do their respective planets fall?


Thank you Hanna,

My 2nd House is in Aries, with Jupiter in it. Aries is ruled by Mars, which for me is in my 11th House in Capricorn. My Sun is also in Capricorn but it is in my 10th House. My wife's 10th House in Aries touches my 2nd House. Her North Node Conjuncts my 2nd House Jupiter exactly.

My wife's 2nd House is in Leo, which is her Sun sign. Her Mars is in Leo in the 2nd House, but her Sun is in the 3rd House (using Placidus). Her 2nd House touches my POF in my 5th House in Cancer. My POF is Trine Sun in natal. Cancer is ruled by the Moon, and both of us have Moon in Gemini. My Moon is in my 3rd House. Her Moon is in her 12th House.

Kindly share whatever you see. Thanks so much.

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Originally posted by vickymadness:
More than one of your personal planets, majorly aspecting their 7H ruler

That's interesting! my Venus Sun Saturn and Mars either trine or conjunct my partners 7th house ruler.

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posted January 02, 2013 02:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello YTA, Yes it's all connected.
Her 10th house and your 2nd house
(both Earth Houses)
shows her "status" in helping you realize your personal goals as you were groomed for success (Jupiter/2).
It's a plus that the 5th house is involved because this is also a "goal" house (fixed) showing love, family, and commitment.

p.s. I'm a huge fan of your wife's
her story has so much heart and I always wish you and yours well...Happy New Year

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