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Topic: What would cause you to be able to detect BS of SOME signs and not others?
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3331 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 03, 2013 08:12 AM
What planet would probably be aspected? I'm assuming Pluto is involved, but wondering if it's necessary in order to be able to sense these things. I ask because I can always tell when Libra guys are lying or BSing or being passive aggressive even when everyone else believes them, but I don't have this same ability when talking to some other suns like Virgo and Leo. Is it just that Libras are bad BSers, or is there something super duper special to look for? IP: Logged |
Dreaming111 Knowflake Posts: 1264 From: Registered: Oct 2011
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posted January 03, 2013 09:01 AM
Scorpio or 8th house influenceIP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3331 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 03, 2013 09:10 AM
quote: Originally posted by Dreaming111: Scorpio or 8th house influence
I feel like that's an easy out though. Any time someone is good at seeing beneath the surface, we're quick to say "Scorpio!" "Pluto!" "8th house!" (Not dogging on you Dreaming, I appreciate any input) but surely there are more possibilities than just these three? Something to do with the Moon, or Mars? ETA: I was doing some brief reading online and came up with some other aspects or planets involved - Mercury/Mars Mercury/Pluto Mercury/Neptune (however I think this one is borderline) These are also just aspects that aid in perception in general, not necessarily seeing through specific sign's ways of lying. IP: Logged |
watermonkey Newflake Posts: 21 From: Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 03, 2013 09:34 AM
This is very true, growing up, most of my good friends and people that i get along really well are libra suns but the passive aggressive nature of them especially for their own benefits can be quite irritating like how they are nice yet manipulating you subtly. Though most of the time i am already one step ahead of them, and they do know that but they are just hoping to get you offguard. Well i dont know what aspects ables me to detect it though lol..------------------ Just a water monkey gemini guy IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3331 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 03, 2013 09:36 AM
quote: Originally posted by watermonkey: This is very true, growing up, most of my good friends and people that i get along really well are libra suns but the passive aggressive nature of them especially for their own benefits can be quite irritating like how they are nice yet manipulating you subtly. Though most of the time i am already one step ahead of them, and they do know that but they are just hoping to get you offguard. Well i dont know what aspects ables me to detect it though lol..
Well, let's see your chart so I can compare mine to yours! Maybe I'll find something in common with them that will uncover this. You can scribble out your birthday if that makes you more comfortable. IP: Logged |
stellar_moon Newflake Posts: 21 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 03, 2013 11:37 AM
Pluto is very strong in my chart and I am obsessed with the truth and I cannot stand being lied to....I've lived and dated with enough air signs that I can smell it a MILE away. Mostly Gemini's, but I am with a Libra right now and he can be very passive aggressive. It's when air signs sweet talk me I know something is up. I don't know how many air signs have said to me "you are just paranoid. you are crazy" when confronted with truth and they will believe their own words and defend them until basically you leave completely without closure for yourself. The ones I know will never own up to their lies. Not saying its true for ALL air signs, just from my experienceI have Mercury square Mars, Mercury trine Uranus and Neptune, Pluto is in my 1st house. Once I am certain about the truth, there is nothing that can be said to change it. I feel like I am deceiving/abandoning the self if I am living in an illusion. The term "ignorance is bliss" does NOT apply with me. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3331 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 03, 2013 11:56 AM
quote: Originally posted by stellar_moon: Pluto is very strong in my chart and I am obsessed with the truth and I cannot stand being lied to....I've lived and dated with enough air signs that I can smell it a MILE away. Mostly Gemini's, but I am with a Libra right now and he can be very passive aggressive. It's when air signs sweet talk me I know something is up. I don't know how many air signs have said to me "you are just paranoid. you are crazy" when confronted with truth and they will believe their own words and defend them until basically you leave completely without closure for yourself. The ones I know will never own up to their lies. Not saying its true for ALL air signs, just from my experienceI have Mercury square Mars, Mercury trine Uranus and Neptune, Pluto is in my 1st house. Once I am certain about the truth, there is nothing that can be said to change it. I feel like I am deceiving/abandoning the self if I am living in an illusion. The term "ignorance is bliss" does NOT apply with me.
OH. A first house Pluto... I'm an honest person but first house Plutos always intimidate me. So intense. I have Mercury square Pluto and Saturn, and Moon opposition Pluto. I didn't think I had any Mercury/Mars aspects but it turns out I have Mercury sextile Mars. Mercury in Aries in the 11H and Mars in Gemini in the 12H. As for Libras - it's weird. I'm pretty sure after I explain that others reading will be like "DUH, check your synastry." But hear me out! My cousin, friend, and someone else who I can't think of (but I know it's a guy, lol!) are Libra suns and they do that thing where they're very verbally accommodating and yet screwing you over at the same time. And I know this is what they're doing but it's hard to outright prove! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4647 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2013 12:28 PM
Squaring synastry. Not necessarily within the orb.Similar Mercuries. (You'd be surprised how many Fire Mercuries have accused Air Mercuries of utter BSing,despite the sextile perks) = they understand each other and therefore able to detect any deviation and be bored/disappointed with that. Scorpios do have certain rep,but I haven't met a Scorpio who'd stung a Gemini,I guess they are good when dealing with... Amateurs IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3331 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 03, 2013 12:31 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Squaring synastry. Not necessarily within the orb.Similar Mercuries. (You'd be surprised how many Fire Mercuries have accused Air Mercuries of utter BSing,despite the sextile perks) = they understand each other and therefore able to detect any deviation and be bored/disappointed with that. Scorpios do have certain rep,but I haven't met a Scorpio who'd stung a Gemini,I guess they are good when dealing with... Amateurs
LOL. My Virgo Sun friend has Mercury in Libra though and I tend to believe her more often than not even if she's a pint sized windbag. (I love her though. Those are words of endearment.)
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VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4647 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 03, 2013 12:37 PM
Yes,words of endearment Got it Cynical,sceptic people are also good at this,if we go by natal energy only. Think Saturn.
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hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3331 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 03, 2013 12:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by VenusDiSirius: Yes,words of endearment Got it Cynical,sceptic people are also good at this,if we go by natal energy only. Think Saturn.
Another good idea for Venus: 5 Stupid question Hanna could've figured out on her own: 0. I have Moon trine Saturn, Mercury square Saturn, Saturn in Capricorn in the 7H, Sun square Saturn, Venus square Saturn. Saturn conj. Uranus and Neptune, and sextile Pluto in the 5th. IP: Logged |
Astro keen Knowflake Posts: 178 From: Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 03, 2013 02:28 PM
quote: Originally posted by stellar_moon: Pluto is very strong in my chart and I am obsessed with the truth and I cannot stand being lied to....
The same goes for me. I am a Scorpio with Pluto in the 1st house, Mercury in Libra and Mercury conjunct Mars (in fact, no redeeming qualities at all - perhaps they all cancel each other out). Honesty to me is of paramount importance. It is, unfortunately, me who gets lied to. Sometimes I feel the only person I deceive is myself. IP: Logged |
DeathIsanIllusion Knowflake Posts: 170 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted January 03, 2013 02:44 PM
Unafflicted Mercury. Mercury quintile Pluto. Scorpio and Virgo influences. 3rd house Pluto. Planets in the 9th. Me=Ur/Su.------------------ Been studying Astrology since 2002; posted on LL between 2006 and 2008; extremely rabid 24/7 forum lurker & big fan since then until 2012. LL is completely amazing!! We are all writing here Astrology history!! IP: Logged |
JLyn ~ Knowflake Posts: 639 From: my state of mind Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 03, 2013 05:49 PM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: What planet would probably be aspected? I'm assuming Pluto is involved, but wondering if it's necessary in order to be able to sense these things. I ask because I can always tell when Libra guys are lying or BSing or being passive aggressive even when everyone else believes them, but I don't have this same ability when talking to some other suns like Virgo and Leo. Is it just that Libras are bad BSers, or is there something super duper special to look for?
CROSS MY HEART: pluto in the 8th natal pluto/mercury natal pluto/sun natal all water sign moons natal neptune/mercury natal I hope i dont really hurt anyones feelings but "most" libras unless they have strong pluto, saturn or neptune aspects with a good moon, come off flaky fickle and fakish always wanna please you like just go away and tell someone else something they cant see through... ughhhhh i cant stand it with a passion cause i'm attacted to bluntsweet realness. my personal thoughts, people that hang around libras have low self esteem. But thats just my experiences with every libra i've ever came in contact with IP: Logged |
Padre35 Knowflake Posts: 784 From: charlotte, NC, US Registered: Jul 2012
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posted January 03, 2013 05:59 PM
I have a Sun squaring Pluto and usually how I allow BS is by letting get close and taking what they say at face value.Otherwise, very difficult to fool as any inconsistency stands out like a blinking light on a dark evening. Libras for example, can be such charming liars. In my experience, Geminis are somewhat amateurish as their duality is apparent if one merely listens to them. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa Knowflake Posts: 3331 From: Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 04, 2013 12:03 AM
quote: Originally posted by JLyn ~: CROSS MY HEART: pluto in the 8th natal pluto/mercury natal pluto/sun natal all water sign moons natal neptune/mercury natalI hope i dont really hurt anyones feelings but "most" libras unless they have strong pluto, saturn or neptune aspects with a good moon, come off flaky fickle and fakish always wanna please you like just go away and tell someone else something they cant see through... ughhhhh i cant stand it with a passion cause i'm attacted to bluntsweet realness. my personal thoughts, people that hang around libras have low self esteem. But thats just my experiences with every libra i've ever came in contact with
All the Libras I know DO have Scorpio in their personal planets or as an ASC.
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stellar_moon Newflake Posts: 21 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 04, 2013 12:33 AM
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Honesty to me is of paramount importance. It is, unfortunately, me who gets lied to. Sometimes I feel the only person I deceive is myself.
I thought that same thing the other day myself. IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius Knowflake Posts: 4647 From: Surfing Kite. Seriously. Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 04, 2013 12:38 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: Stupid question Hanna could've figured out on her own: 0.
Stupid?! Not really,no. Your threads generate lots of discussion,you should keep them coming. I personally don't like romance-only threads we easily fall into Wider scope of things,yeah! quote: I have Moon trine Saturn, Mercury square Saturn, Saturn in Capricorn in the 7H, Sun square Saturn, Venus square Saturn. Saturn conj. Uranus and Neptune, and sextile Pluto in the 5th.
Mature energy,but there can be still room for variations: infamous Arian short fuse Being impatient and no-nonsense can lead to this type of talents. Another possibility,anyway IP: Logged |
stellar_moon Newflake Posts: 21 From: Canada Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 04, 2013 12:51 AM
quote: Libra suns and they do that thing where they're very verbally accommodating and yet screwing you over at the same time. And I know this is what they're doing but it's hard to outright prove!
I am WITH a Libra and I busted him in a lie and he STILL tried talking his way out of it and twisting things. This happend a year ago, we had just gotten back together and I told him that lying is what will make my feelings change. A few weeks later he asked me to move in with him and for the past year things have been really good. Or so I think. He thinks I believe what he said when he covered it up, but I don't. I wonder if it's something I can get past or if I will always not trust him now. This thread really got me thinking about that. sorry for the rant lol
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JLyn ~ Knowflake Posts: 639 From: my state of mind Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 04, 2013 07:51 AM
quote: Originally posted by hannaramaa: All the Libras I know DO have Scorpio in their personal planets or as an ASC.
Knew a libra guy with a scorpio moon. He highly appreciated women, so it appeared. But his libra sun mercury and ASC over powered the depth of his scorpio moon =the lies =he always broke promises =the fake comments he used =no shown emotions unless $$$ *deleted his # IP: Logged |