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hannaramaa
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posted January 05, 2013 05:36 PM
  
Re: A Gemini guy is trying to get with me and I've never met him yet he expects me to talk to him everyday like I owe him something just because I was friendly. He has Mercury in Cancer so I'm thinking that might be it.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 05, 2013 05:39 PM
I dunno maybe just the Gem? Don't you have Gem Rise or Mars? Maybe he just feels that connection.
But if he does the baby talk like the Cancer Merc then I know what you mean......  IP: Logged |
StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted January 05, 2013 05:40 PM
It's Cancer and other placements more than Gemini.IP: Logged |
ail221
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posted January 05, 2013 05:43 PM
Look at his moon. I am a cancer sun with a Gemini moon and I am not clingy.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 05, 2013 05:43 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
I dunno maybe just the Gem? Don't you have Gem Rise or Mars? Maybe he just feels that connection.
But if he does the baby talk like the Cancer Merc then I know what you mean......
He did! Ugh. Smh. Yeah I have both, but I've never lusted after a Gemini. If they play it right the attraction kind of just grows. This guy hit on me over Facebook and he seemed okay but hell, just because we had one brief conversation doesn't mean I have to talk to you everyday! Thank god for blocking. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 05, 2013 05:44 PM
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Originally posted by ail221:
Look at his moon. I am a cancer sun with a Gemini moon and I am not clingy.
You know, this is the only guy who's birthday I don't know. I'm sure it's between '87 and '89 but no use theorizing. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 05, 2013 05:45 PM
From my experience I have to disagree because I have Merc/DSC and Geminis and almost all the men I attract want to talk to me practically every day. Men who don't even like to talk on the phone will be ringing me all the time, and I'm not really a 'phone person' since I like my alone time when I'm alone so to me they seem clingy. I think they're chatters, that's just me.IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 05, 2013 05:48 PM
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hannaramaa:He did! Ugh. Smh.
O that's something else altogether. Haha, awwww. Well yea there's always block 
I would've thought you'd likely attract Gem energy easily since it's your ASC + Mars, both of those factors tend to draw in the corresponding Suns.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 05, 2013 06:05 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
From my experience I have to disagree because I have Merc/DSC and Geminis and almost all the men I attract want to talk to me practically every day. Men who don't even like to talk on the phone will be ringing me all the time, and I'm not really a 'phone person' since I like my alone time when I'm alone so to me they seem clingy. I think they're chatters, that's just me.
I agree with you! I've actually only met and dated another Gemini guy. He talked to me everyday but he was interesting so I didn't mind much, if at all. I'm just not good at being like "Don't talk to me." without making them think I'm completely disinterested (That must be my all my Aries and then some) IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted January 05, 2013 06:30 PM
I can be (Moon/Venus/South Node in Gemini), but I have Saturn in Cancer, and those Gem planets square Mars in Pisces.If I feel clingy, I hate it. IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 05, 2013 07:04 PM
I do think geminis are clingy actually. All the ones i know have def been clingy towards me ------------------
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violet7887
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posted January 05, 2013 07:05 PM
I am Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon, Cancer Mercury and Camcer Mars and I am the opposite of clingy. My space, healthy respect for myself and emotional balance is way to important to me.We(Gemini Suns) rule intellect,which should make it clear we are very self assured. 'Cling' does not exsist in our agenda.
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watermonkey
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posted January 05, 2013 07:46 PM
Yeah i think they are clingy which is how they feel the attraction themselves and show it out which makes it kind of romantic?? but count yourself lucky for the period of time they clinge towards you cause it wont last long and probably not after they get you lol..------------------
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Nine
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posted January 05, 2013 08:05 PM
The '87 Gemini with Merc, & Mars in Cancer, Moon in the 1st is a scary clingy one. All I did was say 'HI' a couple times and chat them up, suddenly things got really complicated.
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StarlightSmileSupreme
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posted January 05, 2013 08:08 PM
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Originally posted by watermonkey:
Yeah i think they are clingy which is how they feel the attraction themselves and show it out which makes it kind of romantic?? but count yourself lucky for the period of time they clinge towards you cause it wont last long and probably not after they get you lol..
True because Geminis tend to move on to the next best thing so if you value this Gemini better pay attention. He should get bored if you do not.IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted January 05, 2013 08:42 PM
I'm a Gem and I dont think I'm clingy, but the more I like you the more I want to talk to you about anything and everything!IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 05, 2013 08:45 PM
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Originally posted by violet7887:
I am Gemini Sun, Cancer Moon, Cancer Mercury and Camcer Mars and I am the opposite of clingy. My space, healthy respect for myself and emotional balance is way to important to me.We(Gemini Suns) rule intellect,which should make it clear we are [b]very self assured. 'Cling' does not exsist in our agenda.[/B]
What I notice is you and ail who both describe yourselves as not clingy have Cancer placements. So maybe it's not his Cancer mercury afterall. IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 05, 2013 08:48 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
The '87 Gemini with Merc, & Mars in Cancer, Moon in the 1st is a scary clingy one. All I did was say 'HI' a couple times and chat them up, suddenly things got really complicated.
See I wish I knew the year he was born! I really don't think it's 89. I bet it's 87 which would give him Moon in Libra, and Venus in Taurus, Mercury and Mars in Cancer!! IP: Logged |
VenusDiSirius
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posted January 05, 2013 09:18 PM
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Originally posted by Nine:
The '87 Gemini with Merc, & Mars in Cancer, Moon in the 1st is a scary clingy one. All I did was say 'HI' a couple times and chat them up, suddenly things got really complicated.
You should have a thread of your own,where you'd write down all the astrohilarious but also eerily accurate experiences IP: Logged |
bridgetostars23
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posted January 05, 2013 09:21 PM
I have Geminis either attracted to me or me attracted to them (still not sure, ha.) And since I'm vague and (afraid of committment) and more flakey than they are often accused of being I think it excites them or makes them feel as though I'm a challenge so in that case they could be perceived as being clingy.
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Geeky
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posted January 05, 2013 09:24 PM
In my experience, no. They seem to be chatty but not clingy. ------------------
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hannaramaa
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posted January 05, 2013 09:31 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
In my experience, no. They seem to be chatty but not clingy.
I guess I called him clingy because he wouldn't leave me alone even after I hadn't responded. Although a Gemini liked my Scorpio friend last semester and he'd always wait for her after class even though they weren't very close. That's clingy to me too but I know it's a matter of perception. Also Geeky, are you referring to your ex-husband? If so, he had Sag in his chart right? Sags aren't very clingy at all! IP: Logged |
Geeky
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posted January 05, 2013 09:38 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
I guess I called him clingy because he wouldn't leave me alone even after I hadn't responded. Although a Gemini liked my Scorpio friend last semester and he'd always wait for her after class even though they weren't very close. That's clingy to me too but I know it's a matter of perception.Also Geeky, are you referring to your ex-husband? If so, he had Sag in his chart right? Sags aren't very clingy at all!
Nah... long time ago ex-bf. We are still friends & it's been like 12-13 years. Awesome dude. He was a Gemini sun but I never did his chart to see the rest. ------------------
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Geeky
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posted January 05, 2013 09:41 PM
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Originally posted by Geeky:
Nah... long time ago ex-bf. We are still friends & it's been like 12-13 years. Awesome dude. He was a Gemini sun but I never did his chart to see the rest.
shoot... 14 years now, actually. I'm getting senile. ------------------
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Astra
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posted January 06, 2013 07:38 PM
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Originally posted by hannaramaa:
Re: A Gemini guy is trying to get with me and I've never met him yet he expects me to talk to him everyday like I owe him something just because I was friendly. He has Mercury in Cancer so I'm thinking that might be it.
His clinginess is definitely due to something else in his chart. A clingy Gemini usually has prominent Cancer or Taurus placements (or some other sign). However, the actual sign, Gemini, craves freedom and independence. It's extremely weird that this guy would expect you to speak to him everyday. I don't even speak to my best friend everyday much less a stranger! IP: Logged |
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