posted January 07, 2013 05:55 PM            

I'm a solar Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. My Mars is in Cancer and Venus in Pisces. They form a grand trine. I have no fire in my chart and the only air I carry is my Aquarius Saturn.

posted January 07, 2013 06:33 PM            

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Originally posted by goatcat:
Can someone help me find a solution?

I'm a solar Capricorn with a Scorpio moon. My Mars is in Cancer and Venus in Pisces. They form a grand trine. I have no fire in my chart and the only air I carry is my Aquarius Saturn.

I'm an emotional wreck.
I think my main issue is my Scorpio moon, because it's fixed so it's hard to get over things.

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posted January 08, 2013 04:59 AM            

Whats crazy is i was tested by 4 different doctors cause i said I KNOW i gotta have it. Nope, they all said i just have extreme anxiety with mood swings??? honey i wanna pour amonia acid on someones pee pee as i type this but you talking mood swings o.o i'm also capricorn and you know we get, icey blue lasting for days till we snap outta of it! then having a watery moon dont help with me either.. makes me testy people get afaid to talk to my deep tone and yess when the pisces moon comes dont push it cause its like i'm PMSing real hard

Takes a strong man for me cause i eat the weak ones alive

posted January 08, 2013 06:48 AM            

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Originally posted by virgolotus:
Whenever the moon is in Pisces I get really moody.
I'm like that too. My SCorpio friend with a Cancer moon is extremely like that... she'll be crying about something deep to me but then she'll be cracking jokes. I'm just like.. wut?o.o

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posted January 08, 2013 09:16 AM            

By the way, why does everyone think that having changing emotions automatically means one is mentally ill, or abnormal in some way? We're human. Reacting to events is normal. Feeling down sometimes is normal. Don't create pseudo-illnesses and obsess over them.

I know it seems weird to feel uber happy or uber sad for no real reason, all of a sudden, but guess what, the majority of people experience that.

Now, if it really makes your life a living hell, and if you take poor decisions or act poorly because of it, okay, that's another matter and some help would be useful.

But look, don't put yourself into a box.
Just because you have a fixed Scorpio Moon doesn't mean you're doomed to have extreme mood swings and hold grudges forever.

If you're aware of what makes your life difficult, try and change it. When a creepy feeling comes up, you don't have to fight it, but you don't have to dwell in it, either. Accept it, try to understand where it's coming from, express it, and move on.

Believe it or not, few people are actually "emotionally stable". We just all learn to hide our true emotions and go with the flow.

posted January 08, 2013 11:13 AM            

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:

By the way, why does everyone think that having changing emotions automatically means one is mentally ill, or abnormal in some way? We're human. Reacting to events is normal. Feeling down sometimes is normal. Don't create pseudo-illnesses and obsess over them.

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
I know it seems weird to feel uber happy or uber sad for no real reason, all of a sudden, but guess what, the majority of people experience that.

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It can also be a dietary thing.

Sugar is notorious for causing mood swings, but we can fine-tune our moods even further if we're attentive to how things affect us.

My favorite book on food and mood is Ayurvedic Cooking for Westerners. Cook Your Way to the Life You Want by Christina Pirello is another good one.

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:
But look, don't put yourself into a box.
Just because you have a fixed Scorpio Moon doesn't mean you're doomed to have extreme mood swings and hold grudges forever.

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Right!

I have an 8H moon, Scorpio NN and have had tendencies toward obsessing over things that weren't really worth the mental energy.

What especially helped me was reading Exkhart Tolle's books and learning how to disconnect from my mind.

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Originally posted by Doux Rêve:

If you're aware of what makes your life difficult, try and change it. When a creepy feeling comes up, you don't have to fight it, but you don't have to dwell in it, either. Accept it, try to understand where it's coming from, express it, and move on.

Believe it or not, few people are actually "emotionally stable". We just all learn to hide our true emotions and go with the flow.

Forgive and accept - yourself and others.

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^ So well said! Thanks for sharing your wisdom, Doux.

posted January 08, 2013 12:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
It can also be a dietary thing.

Sugar is notorious for causing mood swings, but we can fine-tune our moods even further if we're attentive to how things affect us.

My favorite book on food and mood is Ayurvedic Cooking for Westerners. Cook Your Way to the Life You Want by Christina Pirello is another good one.

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posted January 09, 2013 07:48 AM            

I am a Cap/Rabbit. Suzanne White says in her book The New Astrology that Cap Rabbits are "not the kings of tact." People forgive us for blurting out weird cr*p, usually, when they see how much we a) didn't mean to come off like that, and b) will laugh at ourselves in embarrassment when we realize how we came across.

Your honesty, for example, is endearing.

posted January 09, 2013 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Goatcat, are you a Cat in Vietnamese astrology, aka Chinese Rabbit?

I am a Cap/Rabbit. Suzanne White says in her book The New Astrology that Cap Rabbits are "not the kings of tact." People forgive us for blurting out weird cr*p, usually, when they see how much we a) didn't mean to come off like that, and b) will laugh at ourselves in embarrassment when we realize how we came across.

Your honesty, for example, is endearing.

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Thank you!
I hate to disappoint but no, I'm goatcat because I'm a Capricorn that likes cats haha

posted January 09, 2013 08:49 AM            

They say Rabbits and Roosters hate each other but I have always been almost, like, fatally attracted to them. So I married one.

Cap Rooster wow...that's a mastermind combo. You must be a lot more knowledgeable than you are letting on with your sneaky Scorp moon.

posted January 09, 2013 09:04 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
OMG I'm so old, [b]1993?? Really it's like I'm talking to my nieces. I'm 37.

They say Rabbits and Roosters hate each other but I have always been almost, like, fatally attracted to them. So I married one.

Cap Rooster wow...that's a mastermind combo. You must be a lot more knowledgeable than you are letting on with your sneaky Scorp moon.

Edit: ^ textbook example of a Cap Rabbit accidentally sounding insulting, maybe. I meant, for all yr talk about moodiness...and other humble things you say...I'll bet you are extremely intelligent.[/B]

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37 is so young...
But thank you and what you said wasn't insulting at all.

I wonder what sign my boyfriend would be. I despise him and love him at the same time. We really have that Capricorn/Aries rivalry thing going on haha

posted January 09, 2013 10:01 AM            

Mars in Cancer is a very sensitive position to have as emotions are almost always heightened(due to the Mars effect). And one feels and acts all at the same time.

The opposition with Mars could make you a very diffrent kinda Capricorn who often "acts" on their feelings.

Solar Cap always wants to structure their lives(including their emotions) into useful, manageable parts but the opposition to Mars in highly sensitive Cancer could be making this a challenge indeed.

Have you tried competitive sports or some type of physical contact sports?

posted January 09, 2013 01:50 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Does you Mars form an opposition aspect to your solar Sun?

Mars in Cancer is a very sensitive position to have as emotions are almost always heightened(due to the Mars effect). And one feels and acts all at the same time.

The opposition with Mars could make you a very diffrent kinda Capricorn who often "acts" on their feelings.

Solar Cap always wants to structure their lives(including their emotions) into useful, manageable parts but the opposition to Mars in highly sensitive Cancer could be making this a challenge indeed.

Have you tried competitive sports or some type of physical contact sports?

The Mars energy often wants to just express itself and, with the solar Sun in Capricorn, it may benefit you to put this "expression" in a more constructive fashion(in typical Capricorn style).

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My Mars is not opposite the sun BUT, my Mars is...retrograde.

posted January 09, 2013 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Does you Mars form an opposition aspect to your solar Sun?

Mars in Cancer is a very sensitive position to have as emotions are almost always heightened(due to the Mars effect). And one feels and acts all at the same time.

The opposition with Mars could make you a very diffrent kinda Capricorn who often "acts" on their feelings.

Solar Cap always wants to structure their lives(including their emotions) into useful, manageable parts but the opposition to Mars in highly sensitive Cancer could be making this a challenge indeed.

Have you tried competitive sports or some type of physical contact sports?

The Mars energy often wants to just express itself and, with the solar Sun in Capricorn, it may benefit you to put this "expression" in a more constructive fashion(in typical Capricorn style).

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My Mars is not opposite the sun BUT, my Mars is...retrograde.