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Topic: When is it astrologically advisable to live away from your partner?
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sand
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posted January 11, 2013 09:05 PM
  
Two astrologers recommended I do this. Bazi and western. Odd coincidence.. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
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posted January 11, 2013 09:08 PM
Not even married yet and the serial monogamist is planning to live away from her!!?  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 11, 2013 09:22 PM
Maybe they know what you'd be like in captivity !  IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 11, 2013 09:31 PM
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sand
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posted January 11, 2013 09:34 PM
Bazi I know what it is. It's the spouse star being far from my self pillar. (Gibberish) but it is present in my chart. My reader didn't even believe I had peach blossoms. Sex appeal stars. She must not have found me cute. Western idk we talked about too many things perhaps the heavy oppositions.. IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 11, 2013 09:36 PM
Well for one Saturn your Placidus IC ruler is opposite Venus (DSC ruler) across the 1st/7th.
If you're going to live together you'll need to work, but Venus/Saturn opp is naturally distant.
It could work for you, it could not (living away).
Maybe get a big sprawling place with her (fit for Leo Moon?) and call it a day.
It's also opp Sun co-ruler of 10th so your career may just naturally take you away from her too, depending on how driven you are/what you're doing with it. That could be the separation too since you do have Sun co-ruler 10th conj Venus ruler 7th, in the 7th, Saturn rules 4th..you could get around it by working with her in some capacity, each being accomplished in your own ways, having respect going that way. There would be a distance there too since there would have to be a separation from home.
Just musing.But I wouldn't be so down, there are some different variations that could work! You're not hitched yet! IP: Logged |
SagittariusRising
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From: Splitting time between the Moon, Venus, Jupiter, & Neptune
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posted January 11, 2013 09:38 PM
Hard Uranus transits for starters? Especially aspects to the Moon, Venus, 4th or 7th Houses.Any hard aspects to the Moon or 4th--you'd probably be an emotional mess to be around. Home life can be disrupted in some way. Hard Saturn aspects would signify delays, restrictions, pulling or holding back. I know Saturn sometimes solidifies partnerships, but I'd think that'd happen more or less with a soft aspect. Hard aspects may be too overbearing. What else? Hard Mars may mean combativeness which can drive a major wedge, so can hard Mercury. Am I on the right track? IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 11, 2013 09:47 PM
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Originally posted by Lonake:
Well for one Saturn your Placidus IC ruler is opposite Venus (DSC ruler) across the 1st/7th.
If you're going to live together you'll need to work, but Venus/Saturn opp is naturally distant.
It could work for you, it could not (living away).
Maybe get a big sprawling place with her (fit for Leo Moon?) and call it a day.
Sadly it's a 2 floor condo. Not as big as something sprawling. Gosh u have a point! Then my mc ruler placidus is square venus too. Then my ascendant ruler placidus is opposite venus too! Darn I suppose it sucks to be angular sometimes! IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 11, 2013 09:51 PM
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Originally posted by SagittariusRising:
Hard Uranus transits for starters? Especially aspects to the Moon, Venus, 4th or 7th Houses.Any hard aspects to the Moon or 4th--you'd probably be an emotional mess to be around. Home life can be disrupted in some way. Hard Saturn aspects would signify delays, restrictions, pulling or holding back. I know Saturn sometimes solidifies partnerships, but I'd think that'd happen more or less with a soft aspect. Hard aspects may be too overbearing. What else? Hard Mars may mean combativeness which can drive a major wedge, so can hard Mercury. Am I on the right track?
My moon is opposite my ic. Squares aplenty.  IP: Logged |
Lonake
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posted January 11, 2013 10:04 PM
With MC square Venus do you feel like other people pay undue attention to your relationships, or do they leave you be?
Hmm Venus/MC aspect, like Venus/Saturn, like Venus conjunct co-ruler MC, like Venus aspect MC ruler, all about career and love so you're either workaholic or you're bringing her into the mix somehow, but with an emphasis on what's proper. I guess that could be distance in and of itself when you're gunning to go for something more with that person..depending on how it plays out.
Weird my charts oddly similar, Venus/Saturn, Venus/MC, Venus/MC ruler, and then Venus is the MC co-ruler in mine. I meet a lot of my partners at/through work. I have Venus in the 6th tho..IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 11, 2013 10:26 PM
Undue attention but my co-workers were trained to have no shame. When I was younger I was way more secretive but that could have been synastry too. Her venus in my 12th. I suppose I've gotten used to "are you guys dating" questions but that is so hard to answer! What is dating? Taurus also like to keep things vague. I suppose those are normal questions I just find intrusive but I've learned how to handle them better.. Possibly in a show biz type manner "No comment!" I can definitely work with her. I'd say for now I'm definitely on the workaholic side. IP: Logged |
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