posted January 12, 2013 01:33 PM            

Twin uncle #1 is unfortunate with love, but he was married for several years to his child's mother, but they had huge differences, she was a Virgo sun, Scorpio asc fwiw, and then to another woman for at least 5-6 years, my friend who is mostly Scorpio (lol), but she got sick of his immaturity and inability to handle money/responsibility like an adult, having no clear ambitions... as it is... so she left him a couple years back. ^^; he took this very hard, and is still struggling to return to the game but he seems happy... he's not a party animal or sex machine or anything like that... and is in his late 30's early 40's now... of course, from what I gathered, he was always a bit more reserved than his brother.

Aries twin #2 -- is the looker~ =x no kiddin (these are my uncle-in-laws tbc! haha) --- he's got the charm, and charisma that steal ladies hearts in an instant! but!!! he's actually a bit secretive... I wish I knew their other placements but sadly, I don't... lol twin #2 has been with my son's godmother since I came to this country~ ^^ they've never had any fidelity issues and god-willing never will.

The Aries I knew, and was involved with... we were both young then --- he could be considered a serial flirt, and even maybe a sometimes sexfiend.... but, he was faithful to his middle-high school sweetheart best he could be... though they had troubles, she was a Capricorn sun, Aqua Moon, Virgo Rising (if memory serves), and they had some REALLY bad clashes, sometimes things were physical... sad to say... Then, after being on and off with her for some 10 years... he settled down, had a child... has been with the same girl for almost another 10 years solid... they have fighting issues too... but, I can't say how bad - I haven't been around them in years and all. ^^; His new gf (errr new to me, at least) is a Cancer Sun... I don't know her at all, she's a lot younger than me. ^^;

It might be a cardinal/square energy thing - the passion and fighting... XD
the cheating could come from them having a lot of mutable energy/Gemini maybe in their charts.... but I don't think that's fair to be honest... the last guy I mentioned above had Gemini venus... and Sagittarius Moon, Leo Mars... he was in every way, shape, and form... committed to what he wanted, what his sights were on at that moment - to the point of being blind to all else, (like a fool- tarot lol). But, that's the thing.... knowing what you want... and having it... not always easy or clear!

All I know is yes I think they can be extremely loyal~ something in them, martian energy - if there's a challenge they'll take it up and stick with it, so long as it is important to them, and appeals to their competitive nature, their youthful curiosities... being fire... it has to keep them stimulated I believe... on all levels.
I do believe they can have a one and only.... but I had the rotten experience of not being that "one and only"... lol which sometimes happens, especially I've seen it with other cardinal suns... we have our one, and then they are the ideal forever... lol my experience/lesson taught me I can't compete against a ghost... so, we had to move on... plus there were other factors against us.
^^ but, yes... if I were you, and he is a decent guy... I'd give him the chance, the benefit of the doubt. Just be clear on where you stand on commitment issues... on the type of relationship you expect... no? <3

(This is all what I've seen and experienced myself... IME - only)

posted January 12, 2013 06:33 PM            

I'd bet the reason he's after you so bad is the fact that you keep telling him no - it's the chase thing. Aries-heavy people like competition, chases, challenge, conflict...it's that Mars energy in action.

posted January 12, 2013 06:54 PM            

In theory I would like to have a family with the right guy... but it would have to be an unconventional relationship for me to be truly happy. For example - if we were both travelling often and only saw each other every now and again -- rather than living under the same roof daily.

posted January 13, 2013 12:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
Personally I'm an Aries - and I most like the idea of FWB relationships.
I don't think I could stay committed to one person for years.. not in a typical, traditional relationship.

In theory I would like to have a family with the right guy... but it would have to be an unconventional relationship for me to be truly happy. For example - if we were both travelling often and only saw each other every now and again -- rather than living under the same roof daily.

That being said - I wouldn't cheat. I would break up with the person before I moved on.

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Interesting though somehow I feel that situation will make the children bad at math. I know weird. But I dated a Pisces recently brought up like that. Artsy and creative though she was.

I like that u know what u want.

the one person thingy.. Is it coz u would get subconsciously bored tho? Like u start fighting with them.. Out of boredom? Sounds horrible lol but I'm Aries dominant too.

posted January 19, 2013 12:56 AM            

Dated two Aries men. One appeared to be loyal and faithful once he fell for me. The other, absolutely not faithful. He was always thinking he could do better. He cheated with strippers, his exes and I dunno who else. We broke up, found out he couldn't do better and begged me to come back, even proposed then. (I laughed hysterically and walked away).

posted January 20, 2013 02:49 PM            

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Originally posted by teasel:
I'm loyal, and I can commit to things.

I wish I were more like Odette, at times, but then she's a girl who can attract the men that she wants: I don't often have that luck.

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