posted January 17, 2013 11:20 AM            

As I got older, the earth in my chart kicked in and then I started just getting to know a guy, just as a friend. I made sure they earned my trust and respect and that somehow they proved to me their worth instead of opening myself up for the first guy that comes along.

Find that person who calls you regularly and regularly gets together with you.My spouse was like that. He would always send me emails every day and get together with me once a week....if I was sad he would talk to me and he showed that he is there for me through thick ad thin......

(I have an 11th house Sun opposite Uranus)...

I remember I had a huge crush on this guy, back when I was 21. I tried expressing my feelings and then he told me that he only thought of me as a friend. I was devastated.

I hope this all makes sense.....Venus in Pisces LOVES ALL people but we need to find one who is worthy of us. (I saw this quote in an astrology book).....We have a lot to give to others, but with the opposite of Virgo we learn discernment in matters of the heart.....

Cynn

posted January 17, 2013 11:45 AM            

Love will never sell herself like humans have done, let me remind u that, noone will bound love, for love is free to chose where to stay and will only stay with those who are worthy, not by words but by actions, for love=action, building walls=action, makes love think u funny and so she moves and wait till one day u get it..walls=weakness, love=strength, both are opposites.

Whatever path u choose(in your heart) love knows, for your words are worthless to her.

U said it is over, then stand your ground, and maybe within 1 month u will be proud, and find someone who respect u more...

If u contact him anyway, get ready to get into a loop for the next 10 years, same **** only different guys.

Love is not given to those who have no self respect or respect to others, so u get what u deserve, 1% love and 99% ******** .

Love picks u not the otherway around, and if i ask u why would u deserve love? what would u answer be?

Because u are a nice girl? because u are smart?? because ur sexy? because u have a good heart?

Blabla heard all those things before, and those are the women and guy who cannot be intimate with their lovers when they hit they talk about superficial stuff, and do trips just to pretend the superficial connection is real love, without those things, things get boring fast=superficial

I heard many times, this is the 'one' ye the one who is going to fool u again to lower u expectations, u being tested here, let me assure u that.

It has to be real, that's all i can say for u..

Be true to what u believe in, if u sell 0.0001% of yourself get used to get heartbroken okay!

Law of action/reaction

Besides that, u ask any guy or woman on this planet what love is, they all have their opinion, but thats an opinion..not a fact.

Fact=all of them have had their heart broken
Was it when they were lonely at their weakest..that they choose to give in, blasphemy in the eyes of Love. How can Love trust and surrender to someone who cannot stand strong in the weakest hour.

Ooh before u get me wrong, i'm talking about LOVe that goes on for +50 years, not 2 years and then bored...thats what u get if u only want love to make yourself happy..selfishness=not to be rewarded in the end

U can find plenty of examples in books/movies/real life/friends/family==>facts

posted January 17, 2013 09:14 PM            

Love will never sell herself like humans have done, let me remind u that, noone will bound love, for love is free to chose where to stay and will only stay with those who are worthy, not by words but by actions, for love=action, building walls=action, makes love think u funny and so she moves and wait till one day u get it..walls=weakness, love=strength, both are opposites.

Whatever path u choose(in your heart) love knows, for your words are worthless to her.

U said it is over, then stand your ground, and maybe within 1 month u will be proud, and find someone who respect u more...

posted January 18, 2013 01:23 AM            

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Originally posted by akua16:
Hey world out there... 1st questipn: I am Aquarius by sun sign and a have a venus in pisces, and I am one of the strongest "wusses" I know. I am super sensitive when I genuinely like someone (which is rare... Maybe twice a year) and when things go wrong, even if me and that person aren't "official" my heart is literally destroyed and it takes a massive amount of internal work to pick myself up again... This scares me, because each time I build myself back, my walls get thicker, so high that I can barely see over then... and I want to love without fear and regardless of the the outcome I trully do?
Does anyone with a Venus in Pisces experience this?

2nd Question: I met a Libra online not too long ago (5 weeks).I pushed away (out of fear) and he kept coming. We are both from the same area, but he was out of town on business. We talked incessantly, and I let my guard down, because I felt that he would catch me (at least he said he would). And the situation, the talks, the texting, the skyping... It was so passionate. It was unreal the barage of emotions I was feeling. Swept completely off my feet and blindsided... This all happen in 3 weeks, and I know u may say give me a break... And this is not my typical way of behaving... But it didn't take long to recognize sunshine (his words... Lol). And all I wanted to do was soak him and it up... Then when he came home he went to flake zone on me, and I didn't/ couldn't handle it... Twice he reneiged when he had made plans to see me... And in typical Aqua "strong/ independent girl" fashion I "cooly" flew the coop and told him I wasn't dealing with his nonsense and that I was done. That was 11 days ago... And I've struggled with how I expressed my feelings ever since (because I do think they were warranted)... I miss him sooooooo... Yesterday he deleted me from his FB and POF accounts... And last night I cried like the lil baby that I am on the inside... All over someone I've never even met before? Is it over? Should I contact him? (I don't want to be the one to lay out on the line? Is his behavior typical of a Libra male? Sigh... All sincere feedback is welcomed...

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posted January 18, 2013 01:49 AM            

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Originally posted by akua16:
Hey world out there... 1st questipn: I am Aquarius by sun sign and a have a venus in pisces, and I am one of the strongest "wusses" I know. I am super sensitive when I genuinely like someone (which is rare... Maybe twice a year) and when things go wrong, even if me and that person aren't "official" my heart is literally destroyed and it takes a massive amount of internal work to pick myself up again... This scares me, because each time I build myself back, my walls get thicker, so high that I can barely see over then... and I want to love without fear and regardless of the the outcome I trully do?
Does anyone with a Venus in Pisces experience this?

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posted January 18, 2013 02:52 AM            

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Originally posted by akua16:
Hey world out there... 1st questipn: I am Aquarius by sun sign and a have a venus in pisces, and I am one of the strongest "wusses" I know. I am super sensitive when I genuinely like someone (which is rare... Maybe twice a year) and when things go wrong, even if me and that person aren't "official" my heart is literally destroyed and it takes a massive amount of internal work to pick myself up again... This scares me, because each time I build myself back, my walls get thicker, so high that I can barely see over then... and I want to love without fear and regardless of the the outcome I trully do?
Does anyone with a Venus in Pisces experience this?

2nd Question: I met a Libra online not too long ago (5 weeks).I pushed away (out of fear) and he kept coming. We are both from the same area, but he was out of town on business. We talked incessantly, and I let my guard down, because I felt that he would catch me (at least he said he would). And the situation, the talks, the texting, the skyping... It was so passionate. It was unreal the barage of emotions I was feeling. Swept completely off my feet and blindsided... This all happen in 3 weeks, and I know u may say give me a break... And this is not my typical way of behaving... But it didn't take long to recognize sunshine (his words... Lol). And all I wanted to do was soak him and it up... Then when he came home he went to flake zone on me, and I didn't/ couldn't handle it... Twice he reneiged when he had made plans to see me... And in typical Aqua "strong/ independent girl" fashion I "cooly" flew the coop and told him I wasn't dealing with his nonsense and that I was done. That was 11 days ago... And I've struggled with how I expressed my feelings ever since (because I do think they were warranted)... I miss him sooooooo... Yesterday he deleted me from his FB and POF accounts... And last night I cried like the lil baby that I am on the inside... All over someone I've never even met before? Is it over? Should I contact him? (I don't want to be the one to lay out on the line? Is his behavior typical of a Libra male? Sigh... All sincere feedback is welcomed...

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This reminds me of my guy...especially the Facebook delete thing....his venus in pisces....long story short...he has indeed built up a high wall around his heart...that I understood after I saw his natal chart and tried to decipher the meaning behind all his weird actions and contradictory words...so one month after he deleted me on his facebook...I sent him an email..yes me..the strongest,proudest girl around and it paid off, he answered my email within 4 hours.

posted January 18, 2013 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by freebrainstorms:
good god that was freaky, i thought for a minute you were somebody impersonating me that's how right now your description is of. I'm the biggest baby ever, hopeless romantic, but terrified for my little heart at all times.

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How have you handled these intense emotions we feel? Once I do like someone, it is very easy for me to lose my footing and get lost in the them and the situation, and I tend to allow the "bs" they put me through simply beacause I fail to remove myself from the relationship. I see the relationship thrpugh very rose- colored glasses. I have just begun to get to a place where I say NO MORE! I've read recently that the perfect partner for a Venus in Pisces is someone who will not take advantage of our sensitive and yielding nature. I'm still hopeful... He has got to be out there somewhere!

posted January 18, 2013 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by SoStellarOne:
Akua16,
Hello, how are you? I'm a Pisces with my Moon, Venus and Mars in Pisces and I understand exactly how you feel. First of all, yes, that is typical Libra behavior. They're flakes in their way of just talking a good game and then flake out later on. I've experienced this with Libra Suns and the Mercury Placements as well. As for being super-sensitive? I use to be that way when I was much younger, but I've learned my lesson in sifting out the good eggs from the bad. My love does not come easy anymore because actions speaks louder that words. I've have had people tell me that they love me, yet they treat me in the opposite manner. So you want to know what I've done? My walls went up towards them to shut them out and I don't get caught up in the games of dysfunction anymore. I even gotten better at scoping it out waay before it even begins. You just got to be about to discern like a Virgo and I've met alot of them in my lifetime to learn that lesson. One thing that I do warn you, is to not let past disappointments thicken your walls because you don't want to miss out and shut out someone who's genuinely good. You just need to sharpen your perceptions to avoid and eliminate the games and dysfunction. Good luck.

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I am well SoStellar,

posted January 18, 2013 09:49 AM            

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Originally posted by 12thhouser:
Hi,

I also have Aqua sun and Venus in Pisces. Which houses are you sun and Venus in exactly? And, what sign is your Mercury and where is it?

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Hi 12thouser... My Aquarius Sun is in the 9th house (27.27 degrees), Venus in Pisces is in the 10th house (22.21 degrees), and my Mercury is Aquarius and it is also in the 10th house (2.52 degrees.

posted January 18, 2013 08:07 PM            

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Originally posted by akua16:
I hope this all makes sense.....Venus in Pisces LOVES ALL people but we need to find one who is worthy of us. (I saw this quote in an astrology book).....We have a lot to give to others, but with the opposite of Virgo we learn discernment in matters of the heart.....

Cynn, Thank you for your kind words and reflections. It's nice to know someone else has faced this issue and moved beyond it. You are so correct, discernment in matters of the heart is especially important for pple with venus in pisces. And although I don't open up for everyone, I am sure that I open up far to quickly and long before the object of my desire has proven themselves worthy... tending to make the misktake of falling for the idea of who someone is, prior to knowing who they authentically are. I've read before that pple with Venus in Pisces must learn the "art of self- ptotection", but my attempts at self-protection have simply been to forge walls. And they have failed me too. I will learn these lessons, all is NEVER lost... Thank You!!!

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You're very welcome.

posted January 18, 2013 08:41 PM            

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Originally posted by akua16:
Hey world out there... 1st question: I am Aquarius by sun sign and a have a venus in pisces, and I am one of the strongest "wusses" I know. I am super sensitive when I genuinely like someone (which is rare... Maybe twice a year) and when things go wrong, even if me and that person aren't "official" my heart is literally destroyed and it takes a massive amount of internal work to pick myself up again... This scares me, because each time I build myself back, my walls get thicker, so high that I can barely see over them... I'm almost at a lost of how to bring them down, and I want to love without fear and regardless of the the outcome I trully do?
Does anyone with a Venus in Pisces experience this?

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