posted January 18, 2013 01:20 AM            

Her: Cancer ASC, Pisces Sun, Libra Moon, Mercury in Pisces, Venus in Aquarius, Mars in Taurus

Basically - I'm upset because I haven't known her that long (maybe/just barely a year) and she already acts like she knows me in and out, and that she's right about these assumptions despite my repeated cues that she isn't. In combination with that I'm upset because she gives me advice I don't ask for (tells me how I need to act with guys, what I need to say... no, I don't date a lot but I'm certainly not socially inept. I don't like leading people on, but I'm not mean about it.)

Anyways, when I told spoke my mind tonight she tried getting mad at me back. I don't really want to have a friend (nor do I need one) who sees me that way. It makes me feel like a charity case.

posted January 18, 2013 11:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Lava Flower:
One of my best guy friends who has Pisces Sun and Mercury does similar. He usually approaches me with questions and gives me opportunity for expression, but there are times when he takes a phrase/expression/reaction of mine and runs with it. And no matter what I say, he seems to know best. It doesn't help that his mercury is trine my Moon 1*, sexile my Merc and Sun 1*, sexile my Uranus 0* and Saturn 1*. It doesn't happen often, and I just let it slide because our relationship is overall very healthy and supportive. Unlike the one you're describing Sorry to hear that.

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Thanks Lava I'm glad your relationship is healthy with your guy friend!

posted January 18, 2013 12:30 PM            

You two will probably always have these issues as she is a lot more sensitive and conflict averse than you are.

She has her Moon trining Venus and
both both the Moon and Mars are in Venus-ruled Libra and Taurus respectively.

Your two moons may not be compatible, but very agreeable and there is a nice trine between her Venus and your Mars to counter that nasty double opposition of your Venus, Mercury to her Libra Moon.

The push/pull is likely; You have an Aries Sun opposing her Libra Moon and this tends to occur quite frequently with signs in opposition.

The "thinking that she knows you" is the Mercury in 9th(probably).

posted January 18, 2013 12:57 PM            

Depending on which house system you use I would have Mars in the 1st, but using Placidus, I have it in the 12th. I can keep my patience for a long time with someone, and I can be understanding in knowing some people just have their quirks. Most of the time I am a peace keeper, believe it or not.

She didn't really start anything - this kind of behavior has been coming from her for awhile now and I was tired of it. It's frustrating always getting shut down and told what you should be doing from someone you've tried being patient with, especially when their view is all wrong anyway.

Ah yes, Libra moon. Not only that but she's a Libra moon with Mercury in Pisces! So is my Aries mother and her and I butt heads quite often too. I am normally attracted to Libra moons in general, but I don't know why since they oppose my Sun, Mercury, and Venus! Maybe my Uranus in the 7th.