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Topic: Approaching a pisc/aqua guy over facebook?!
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CountablyInfinite
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Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 18, 2013 02:14 PM
  
Sorry for the long post ahead, I just can't express myself + my problem in a short text. Must be my burnt Mercury :POkay, so there's this pisces guy (with his Lilith, Mars, Saturn, Moon and Venus all conjunct in Aquarius), he's two years younger than me and I met him almost two years ago while I was on vacation. He was working at the hotel I was staying in. The moment I saw him, I was mesmerized by him but somehow we never got over the usual small talk with a little flirting. Idk, it was a really bad time for me back then, I was only staying for a short time and the last thing I was looking for/expecting to find was love, lmao.
Even though I was so captivated by him I thought that starting sth would be stupid anyway since it would probably never be anymore than a summer fling. But well, the moment I left the hotel for my flight I instantly regretted not having initiated anything.. I realized I liked him more than I would admit back then since I simply started crying and couldn't stop (never happened to me before - crying over a person I've "known" for barely four days). Omg I was traveling with some friends and my sister and the crying thing was so embarrassing for me and I was desperately trying to hide that even though usually I have no problem showing my emotions (Scorpio Sun, Taurus Moon).
Well since the whole thing happened, I've been thinking abt him every single day (!). I've been with three guys since I met him but none of this was anything serious and even when I was with each of the guys I would never forgot that one particular guy.
Since a few weeks the thinking abt him is getting rlly intense and I feel like I need to get in touch with him or I'm gonna burst or sth. So yeah now my actual "problem": I don't have any number or mail or whatsoever to contact him, I only know his Facebook-profile but isn't this totally weird approaching someone over Facebook who probably can't remember you anyway?? I talked to a friend and she mentioned that she can image he would actually like that since he seems to be more of an Aquarian than a Pisces. Should I mention that I stayed at the hotel at all?? Argh, I'm so confused.. I really don't wanna f*ck things up this time, he's rlly important to me :/ How do you guys think he would react to that? I can also post his chart if it might help? Thanks everyone!  IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted January 18, 2013 07:16 PM
I wouldn't do it. Just be happy you interacted with him and focus on your life now....IP: Logged |
CountablyInfinite
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posted January 18, 2013 07:30 PM
And why is that? Because you think that what I'm about to do is unrealistic or what?IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 18, 2013 07:47 PM
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Originally posted by CountablyInfinite:
And why is that? Because you think that what I'm about to do is unrealistic or what?
For one, how are you going to find him on Facebook? If you only had small talk, how do you know he doesn't have a girlfriend? What do you expect to come from adding him on Facebook? It's creepy to say the least and unrealistic. IP: Logged |
Robin Goodfellow
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Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 18, 2013 07:58 PM
Get back with him on facebook immediately!IP: Logged |
Robin Goodfellow
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posted January 18, 2013 08:00 PM
Let him know how you feel, crush time!IP: Logged |
anonymidarkness
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posted January 18, 2013 09:34 PM
Approach him on facebook,tell him“hiii I am this girl,do you remember me blah blah blah”,if you are beautiful he will probably say yes even though he may not remember you.I dont know half of my friends on facebook but I have no problem interacting with strangers if they dont act like they know everything about me just by going through my profile.If he has girlfriend you should leave him alone,if he does not have you should tell him about your feelings after 1-2 weeks.Dont tell him straightaway,he will run away.I am a pisces/aqua myself.IP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 18, 2013 09:35 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Dont tell him straightaway,he will run away.I am a pisces/aqua myself.
Exactly. That's all I meant.
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Haplesschild*
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posted January 18, 2013 09:36 PM
Personally I wouldn't do it...It's a little random and ...Creepy. ._.IP: Logged |
Lioness
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posted January 18, 2013 10:09 PM
Just do it!From the words of a fire girl! Seriously what's the worst that could happen.. He doesn't reply...
So what at least u gave it a shot... If he doesnt reply.. Move on and forget abt it.. No shame in trying... IP: Logged |
stellar_moon
Knowflake Posts: 122
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 18, 2013 11:23 PM
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Originally posted by Lioness:
Just do it!From the words of a fire girl! Seriously what's the worst that could happen.. He doesn't reply...
So what at least u gave it a shot... If he doesnt reply.. Move on and forget abt it.. No shame in trying...
^Agree. And with all astrology aside, hopefully he is a decent enough human being to not be judgmental toward someone being interested in having further conversation. At least, I wouldn't be. If a guy did that to me, I wouldn't think less of him as a person.
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