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Topic: Sigh. And this is EXACTLY why I have issues with MOST Cancers..
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 02:23 PM
  
Cancer male: wanna go to movies Saturday? Don't know what time yet tho.Me: yes 5 hours later Cancer male: so....like I said, I'd be over your side later tomorrow but if you don't want to wait around, don't. Me: would you like me to wait? Cancer: it's totally up to you Me: FFS!!!! It's a yes/no question! 15 min later Cancer: Don't say things to make me say things so that you have a reason to fall in love with me. Me: I give up.
We have been friends for 2 years. It's been up and down thanks to his over-analyzing brain and sidestepping for no reason.
Damn exhausting Crabs are! And no, he's not joking around. IP: Logged |
chocogold
Knowflake Posts: 212
From: USA
Registered: Aug 2010
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posted January 19, 2013 02:40 PM
I understand.Emotionally, they drive me nuts, especially those cancer moons.
It is like they pick on anything you say or do, they run along with it and start doing some mental gymnastics to you, and you are like: "what is going on? what happened?" At least, the scorps will be direct, too direct sometimes.
The pisces folks will let you know, in a poetic/philosophical manner. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 19, 2013 07:01 PM
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Cancer: Don't say things to make me say things so that you have a reason to fall in love with me.
What was the point of saying this - when he is the one asking you out in the first place? Obviously since he wanted to go to the movies *with* you... he also wanted you to wait for him - so you can go together. I don't understand how saying "yes. please wait until I get there." - would make you fall in love with him.... Strange. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted January 19, 2013 07:02 PM
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And no, he's not joking around.
Are you sure? IP: Logged |
RunAroundScreaming
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posted January 19, 2013 07:20 PM
that's weird. i'm not like that. i'm straightforward and become overbearing if you're not being straightforward. must be my leo------------------
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anonymidarkness
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posted January 19, 2013 07:24 PM
Try dating one having half of the planets in leo.How many cancers do you know?IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 19, 2013 07:42 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Try dating one having half of the planets in leo
That's exactly the cancer I want. Mine had moon in Leo. Venus in gem. Year of the ox. IP: Logged |
Sorcha
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posted January 19, 2013 08:47 PM
Yeesh. I'm a Cancer Sun and Venus but I'm really very direct. In fact, when people are coy or vague, I find it frustrating. But my Mars is in Leo, Moon is in taurus, my ASC and Merc are in Gem and I have a strong Pluto.In any case, we're not all like that  Sounds to me like the work of some kind of Moon/Neptune thing. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 09:41 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
Are you sure?
Positive
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charlie
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 09:42 PM
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Originally posted by anonymidarkness:
Try dating one having half of the planets in leo.How many cancers do you know?
5 to be exact. 1 female and 4 males. The only one that's somewhat sane has an Aries Moon. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 09:46 PM
I ended up not going. I.....just couldn't. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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Registered: Nov 2011
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posted January 19, 2013 09:47 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
That's exactly the cancer I want. Mine had moon in Leo. Venus in gem. Year of the ox.
Oh god, that's my ex except he was year of the rabbit. IP: Logged |
pixieangel
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posted January 19, 2013 10:36 PM
I'm not like that. I am too direct because I like to be clear. Must be my Saggy moon and Mercury/Mars in Leo. hahaIP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 19, 2013 10:48 PM
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Originally posted by pixieangel:
I'm not like that. I am too direct because I like to be clear. Must be my Saggy moon and Mercury/Mars in Leo. haha
LOL he does have a Saggi moon!! Mars in Cancer......Merc in Virgo....
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RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 6277
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posted January 19, 2013 11:09 PM
^mars in cancer
my grandma is kinda like that and she has leo sun and, saggie moon, virgo rising
she is soooooooooooooo evasive. SO evasive.
it frustrates everyone. IP: Logged |
Lotis White
Knowflake Posts: 882
From: USA
Registered: Dec 2010
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posted January 19, 2013 11:13 PM
Weird. I've got a Cancer Moon, and Cancer Jupiter ruling my Sag stellium of Asc, Mercury, Venus, and Neptune. I couldn't imagine being that indirect about a movie date. Sun sign is Capricorn though, ruled by Saturn in Virgo. If we’ve agreed to go out I’m gonna hold you to it unless there’s some type of emergency. And for the record I’d expect to be clear why someone was asking me out. Like do you want to be my boyfriend or my friend? I wouldn’t go out with a guy if he didn’t seem sure which he wants to be.
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frankie2912
Knowflake Posts: 1028
From: yep,ks,usa
Registered: Apr 2011
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posted January 20, 2013 05:08 AM
Your Cancer sounds annoying.My boyfriend is a Cancer and he is very direct..no beating around the bush with him. But then again he does have Leo Venus and Gemini Moon..Virgo ASC. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 20, 2013 05:15 AM
It's not really a Cancer thing, it's a sign of insecurity. =SIP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon
Newflake Posts: 11
From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 20, 2013 06:19 AM
I'm a cancer with mars in Aries in the 1st house. I get so annoyed when people aren't direct with me.IP: Logged |
ScorpioMoon
Newflake Posts: 11
From: Atlanta. Georgia, United States
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 20, 2013 06:29 AM
Oh. And I'll add that I'm pretty direct as well. The only time I'm not upfront is when someone asks me a question that seems too personal.IP: Logged |
StacyLewis
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Registered: Oct 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 08:45 PM
Ohhh, that's totally not a 'Mars-in-Cancer-with-inner-planets-in-Leo' thing.Truly not. If anything I'm probably too direct with people. I wonder what this guy has going on his chart that's mutable. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 09:06 PM
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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
Ohhh, that's totally not a 'Mars-in-Cancer-with-inner-planets-in-Leo' thing.Truly not. If anything I'm probably too direct with people. I wonder what this guy has going on his chart that's mutable.
He has Jupiter, uranus, moon and neptune is Sag. :-/ Cannot believe that didn't register in my skull!!!! I love Saggis but not THAT much.. IP: Logged |
charlie
Knowflake Posts: 267
From: los angeles, ca, USA
Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 09:06 PM
dp and not THAT version.. IP: Logged |
Nine
Moderator Posts: 1358
From: The Cusp of Love
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 20, 2013 09:17 PM
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RunAroundScreaming
Knowflake Posts: 6277
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posted January 21, 2013 08:00 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
dp and not THAT version..
wtf. lol
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