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sand
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posted January 19, 2013 08:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wha iz ett?

I'm going with my moon sign. LEO. At least we do it with flair.

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posted January 19, 2013 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Hecate     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think these are the top 4

Saggy because they can charm the pants off anyone
Cancer they get too attached
Taurus charm , stubborn and attached
Pisces can be so soft and romantic

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posted January 19, 2013 08:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for chocogold     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just playing here, but I would say...

Scorpio and gemini.

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posted January 19, 2013 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 11nahyt     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
leo, aries,scorpio

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posted January 19, 2013 08:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bridgetostars23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Scorpio and Gemini sounds about right to me as well...
Usually I don't want anyone for any period of time or in fact can't decide and have tiny crushes on everyone. (Sun conjunct Neptune/Mars in Pisces, they must do something to activate that Pisces/Neptune energy to cause me to take action.)
(Once activated however, if I truly want someone or want them back I will usually have them for better or worse. That sounds kind of like a Capricorn/Scorpio thing now.
Scorpio moon conjunct pluto/scorpio venus
Capricorn sun/ascendant.)

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posted January 19, 2013 09:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Moonfish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think it's more about the aspects, like people who share Venus-Mercury or Venus-Jupiter.

My friend's mercury conjuncts her boyfriend's venus. No matter how much he lies and betrays her, he can always sweet-talk his way back into her heart.

and with Venus-Jupiter the two always give eachother the benefit of the doubt.

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posted January 19, 2013 11:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SaturnineMoth     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
depends... type of relationship... circumstances behind the split... or what have you...

Just going by sun sign...?

There's nobody that I can think of who has forgiven me more times, or that I would forgive infinite times, more than Cancer Sun friends that I've had by the dozens...

Though we're opposites... nobody has ever understood so well how I function like my Cancer sun girlfriends. So, when they do commit some minor (or the rare, grand) offense... there has never been an occasion that I was able to be at odds with any of them for longer than 3 months time... lol (all my very best friends since the age of 7 have been Cancers. I'm 11h Cancer~ Jup rules IC, Moon in the 9h! ~ it all factors in!) ^^

In a relationship (dating kind...?) Anyone who tried to come back to me would have had their work cut out for them... fairly stubborn creature when it comes to forgive/forget... I can only ever get the one right, and even then there's no telling how thoroughly I feel that way... sometimes it's only 40% forget... sometimes it's more of a 30% forgiven and 20% forgotten and the other 50% is still agonizing over the betrayal... so, then I don't allow them back, or at least not in the very same manner/with the same trust/opinion towards them... usually that's because they really have done some great wrong, to get a Capricorn sun to give up on them... it takes a lot. Capricorns are definitely one of the least deterring signs in the zodiac. Giving up on anything or anyone that we've put time and effort into somehow, has to be one of the hardest things to do of all... so we seldom A) put our faith in others B) give up when we are out to succeed C) relapse after someone has taken advantage of all that A/B stuff that has been given into them! ^^;

The most "forgivable" sign a partner could have, would be... for me... Taurus. not because I'm a Tauro-moon (9h) either! X__x
But, because the 3 suns I've known personally, since my premarital years, were the types (of partners) that had me facing many occasions were /they/ were in "need" of forgiveness for one thing or another... for something they'd either done/not done or said/not said (lol) usually enough... and generally... they'd have me utterly wrapped around their finger with their heartfelt charm and that "sincerity" that Taurus suns almost always have... so... that's what garners them my top vote.

Though as a very close 2nd and 3rd... it would be a toss up between Aries(8h) & Leo(11/12h) suns... Leo's can do no wrong by me (they end up being even more adorable to me when they get upset or get me upset so the feuds are always very short lived)... Aries... they just manage to get away with everything... idk... they just do... (there's little difference between a hot blooded ram and a cold blooded goat~ beyond the fact we approach the same things in different ways... once you realize you can work together, and how well... it's hard to just abandon that for good... at least for me it has been before. ^^) (of course they fall into both categories... friendship mishaps and lovers quarrels lol)

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posted January 20, 2013 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think a better question is what's the best SYNASTRY of winning someone back.

I'd say that conjunctions and soft aspects involving Jupiter, Venus, and Neptune (especially in aspect to the Sun or Moon) in synastry are the strongest indicatiors of being likely to forgive someone a wrong against you. With these it's like no matter what they did, you just can't help but still like them anyway. Not just in a romantic way, but also as your friend and a person who you care about.

With Neptune synastry we hate to see that person suffer, and feel a lot of compassion for them. We often want to do whatever we can sooth them, and whenever we see even the slightest hint of distress in them we melt.

With Jupiter synastry we find them so likable, exuberant, and positive, that it's just hard to stay mad at them not matter what they did. We find their smile infectious, and they can make us laugh. Which is often how they win us back, by getting us to see the situation from a humorous perspective.

With Venus synastry we feel so much affection and warmth for the person, that they can easily deflate our anger with simple things. Like a look, a gesture, a few sugar coated words. They have a way buttering us up with their sweetness, and when they turn on the charm we may feel helpless to resist. They're also so good at making themselves sound reasonable that we might start to wonder why we were mad at them in the first place.

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posted January 20, 2013 12:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
By the way, love that pic Sand. The movie 'Say Anything' has always been one of my favorites from the 80's.

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posted January 20, 2013 01:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VenusDiSirius     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
With Jupiter synastry we find them so likable, exuberant, and positive, that it's just hard to stay mad at them not matter what they did. We find their smile infectious, and they can make us laugh. Which is often how they win us back, by getting us to see the situation from a humorous perspective.

Yes,yes,yes!

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posted January 20, 2013 04:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Dreaming111     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
How are scorpios able to win them back?

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posted January 20, 2013 05:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Haplesschild*     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Usually Gems, Sags and Leos. They don't really mope. They go out and have alot of fun and of course when you're having fun and busy living life, that's how u get someone back.

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posted January 20, 2013 07:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
By the way, love that pic Sand. The movie 'Say Anything' has always been one of my favorites from the 80's.

Yes a kickboxer that just want to be wif teh woman he loves!

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posted January 20, 2013 06:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well Imma be honest I have never had a bf that did not return back to me rather he broke it off or I did... Pisces Sun Aqua moon..

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posted January 20, 2013 06:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for enchantress299     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I know it depends on circumstance, but...

I swear I've seen Aquariuses and Sagittariuses win people back so easily even after they've done some really heinous crap to people (and they've even won me back on occasion- unfortunately they also usually screwed up again later on).

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posted January 20, 2013 06:20 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sweet-scorpion     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'd say Scorpio - but often WITHOUT trying. Especially if you have Mars in Scorp, Mars-Pluto, and/or Venus in Scorp. These people can be sexual and romantic magnets. Many times his/her partner will easily be won over or come back after a fight or break-up and the Scorp will either shun them or accept them back. The Scorp will often hold dominance over the other person. He/she will not grovel, beg or use charm to get the person back... from what I've seen at least. I'm a Scorp dominant person and another Scorp dominant person I know is just like this. We're the 'like it or leave it' type and if our partners go away or want to break up, a lot of the time they say they regret it and come crawling back... LOL. I dunno how to better explain. Venus in Scorp is the ultimate romantic dominant. Haha.

But as for my Sun sign Libra... no way. We are very easy come, easy go. I feel my Sun sign makes it very easy for me to switch on and off about a partner. I can easily stop caring or having feelings about an ex and just never want them back.

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posted January 20, 2013 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"Aquariuses" I think these ppl wins hands down...The men are magnetic...They don't even have to try either..Oh and they are not easy to win back either, if they take you back they really love ya!!!

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posted January 21, 2013 04:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Well Imma be honest I have never had a bf that did not return back to me rather he broke it off or I did... Pisces Sun Aqua moon..

I was going to say this...my best friend is a Pisces sun, Aqua moon.

Every single guy who has ever broken up with her, has come back asking for another chance.

There isn't one exception.

Her current boyfriend broke up with her last year, and she was heartbroken...I kept reminding her, "This will be the first guy who didn't come back, if he doesn't come back..."

And guess what? Yes, he came back!

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posted January 21, 2013 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Faith: I believe you, I have not had one that did not come back yet...My bf now was someone I was involved wuth 20 years ago...I finally gave in and Im happy I did bc he turned out to be my soul mate..He says I have magic...lol

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posted January 23, 2013 07:53 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm gonna go with: The opposite of Sagittarius..... so I guess that leaves *Gemini* !!!

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posted January 23, 2013 07:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Odette     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Saggy because they can charm the pants off anyone

BOO!!!!!!!!!
*throws tomatoes*

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posted January 23, 2013 07:56 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for vickymadness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
P I S C E S

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posted January 23, 2013 10:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AriesKat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted January 24, 2013 12:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Insilver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Taurus, hands down. When my Venus/Uranus square says it's done, it's done... every single time.

Except where this irresistably persuasive bull is concerned.

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