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Topic: Who did you date after your ex? And vice versa.
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ElizabethO
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posted January 20, 2013 07:41 PM
  
My ex: Cancer Sun/Leo Moon.
New beau: Aries Sun/Aqua Moon.My ex's new gf: Aqua Sun/Aqua Moon. Interestingly enough, I have Gemini Venus/Pisces Mars and she has Pisces Venus/Gemini Mars! And to take this one more step, my new beau's ex is an Aquarius Sun... not sure what her moon is. It's either Capricorn or Aquarius. Sag Venus/Aries Mars. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted January 20, 2013 08:33 PM
His friend. IP: Logged |
StacyLewis
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posted January 20, 2013 08:42 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
His friend.
That's evil, but funny at the same time. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 20, 2013 08:49 PM
^ Aries is the Cancer's BEST friend. But we are all fine with everything.Seriously, I'm curious to see some sort of evolutionary pattern in what signs we date as we get older. The older I get, the more I tend to date guys with "fixed" charts. When I was younger, I was so into Sag and Pisces. I can't even remember the last Sag I dated. Maybe high school? IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted January 20, 2013 09:40 PM
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Originally posted by StacyLewis:
That's evil, but funny at the same time.
Yeah, it wasn't a good move and Karma came knocking after a while... And to stick to topic: ex is a Pisces/Scorpio/Cap asc and his friend is a Gem/Scorpio/Sag asc IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted January 20, 2013 09:42 PM
me: Cap Sun - Tauro Moon - Virgo Risingthe ex: Aqua Sun - Leo Moon - Taurus Rising
(w/ Air-Aquarius-Uranus dominant) - his Pisces Merc cnj my Dsc, his Cap Venus cnj my Sun, his Tau Mars cnj my Moon-tri my Sun, and his Dsc cnj my Scorp Mars-Plu, and is exact opp my Tauro Juno on his Asc at that - but our chemistry was violent to the nth degree) ~____~ (although squared by sign, his hardest exact aspect was Ura sq Ven - FWIW) ^^; his next victim was: Gemini or Cancer Sun
(I don't keep track of these things) =x My current - Sag Sun - Scorp Moon - Virgo Rising
(I should state we have much more in common - we are both Virgo rising, Merc/Jup dominant but he is more Mercury dominant than I am, I'm evenly Merc-Jup dominant... he is Water dominant, but by less of a margin than I am, but... then there are differences... he is Cardinal dominant, but not by much at all, he's almost equal in modes, whereas I'm mostly Mutable and then Cardinal... he is mostly Capricorn/Scorpio - then Gemini, I am mostly Sagittarius-Cancer/Cap-Gemini dominant... XD confusing... can be! ^^ we have pretty good synastry, as RAS has helped point out. But, we lack a decent composite... and are also - VOLATILE... and failing...) ^^
- aspect-wise we have his Plu-Sat (Lib/Scorp) cnj my Mars-Plu in Scorpio which oppose my Juno in Taurus, and then his Ven (part of his own Cap-Sag stellium) makes trine to Juno, sxt to our Mars-Plu-Plu-Sat combination while cnj my Nep-Merc-Jup stellium between Cap-Sag... (following? doesn't matter! hahaha) his Moon-Jup opp my Moon-Chiron, his Chiron is cnj my Moon/tri my Sun exact, and his Sun* is wide cnj my Ven/S.Node... to make matters worse... I mean better...? lol ~his BM Liliths/Juno cnj my sun... and his Mars cnj my Vertex... again, FWIW - he has very little hard aspects, but for Plu-Sat sq Mars exact
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(patterns everywhere)^^
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his ex - Pisces Sun
(again I don't know/ask for any details, nor would he give them... he doesn't like astrology one bit! I found something from her birthday in his old textbooks/notebooks otherwise I wouldn't even know her Sun... - he doesn't have many exes... heh~)  ----
the two of them had at least one major opposition (ex had a very wide opposition between his sun and moon, my current has this with moon and Chiron, both had one major squared aspect, ex had Ven sq Ura, my current has Plu-Sat sq Mars... both made strong aspects in synastry to one of my or their big three, and both had things in common to what my own placements would suggest are ideal for me... but, the ex had a GAT, and Tsquare, while, my current has everything clustered tightly between his 2nd, 3rd, 4th houses, even so far as that his IC is the focal point of his chart, and his NN is cnj his MC... everything is about family for him... which goes along better with our Sag-Cap stellium... lol (@___@ #) now I need a tylenol! IP: Logged |
Kerosene
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Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 20, 2013 09:46 PM
This was the latest, I'm single now
Ex Aries/aquarius
Rebound Aries/leoI have thing for aries, always... IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 20, 2013 10:09 PM
Her mom.IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted January 20, 2013 10:35 PM
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Originally posted by sand:
Her mom.
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sand
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posted January 20, 2013 10:43 PM
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
Her daughter.  Ok serious answer is Pisces after a Leo. IP: Logged |
Aquacheeka
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posted January 20, 2013 10:52 PM
My ex: Sun and moon in Sag, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Aquarius.Immediately after: Sun in Capricorn, moon in Sag, Venus in Capricorn, Mars in Scorpio.
Like night and day.
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Aquacheeka
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posted January 20, 2013 10:53 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
His friend.
lol
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Haplesschild*
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posted January 21, 2013 12:18 AM
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
^ Aries is the Cancer's BEST friend. But we are all fine with everything.Seriously, I'm curious to see some sort of evolutionary pattern in what signs we date as we get older. The older I get, the more I tend to date guys with "fixed" charts. When I was younger, I was so into Sag and Pisces. I can't even remember the last Sag I dated. Maybe high school?
Woah the Cancer didn't have a problem with that? I'd never date an ex's relative or close friend, it's ... Like there are so many other people I can date, I'd rather spare the awkwardness and the hurt.
I'm surprised the Cancer ex doesn't feel stabbed in the back? And what kind of best friend goes out with their ex's girl? Especially right after. =S
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beach_glass
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From: Toronto, ON, CA
Registered: Jan 2013
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posted January 21, 2013 12:28 AM
Me: Sun Pisces, Moon Scorpio, Asc Virgo, Venus CappyMy ex: Sun Cappy, moon Libra, Venus Sag My new beau: Sun Cappy, moon Virgo, Venus Scorpio. His Mars + Jupiter are in Pisces. My ex is still single and sending me "i love you" texts. I had another *stalker*ish Cappy fall for me a few years ago... Is this common for Cappies to act like this? Also, how come these guys don't like to tell me how they feel? IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
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posted January 21, 2013 01:18 AM
^ noCappie men/women are far from stalkerish -- but, a Libra Moon.... that could be your reasoning right there... especially if it is square to their sun... squares/oppositions involving Ven, Sun, or Moon aspects in a natal chart can cause this behavior....... I think. But, I don't and wouldn't consider it a typical trait of a Capricorn Sun... (We dwell on our mistakes, but seldom try to relive them... too practical for that.) And Cappies do not always or often share their feelings easily, or well... we're insecure and hypercritical... tbh... *Cap Sun/Merc - with lots of Cappy male dating experience* >.<; Pisces is my dsc - I've only dated one maybe two... I would say that could be why... that you or some of your placements have fallen into their descendant... but tell the truth, I walked away from the ones I had fall there without ever even thinking to look back... meh~
~___~ it depends I suppose! ^^; it's all in the aspects... :/ IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 21, 2013 01:31 AM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Woah the Cancer didn't have a problem with that? I'd never date an ex's relative or close friend, it's ...Like there are so many other people I can date, I'd rather spare the awkwardness and the hurt.
I'm surprised the Cancer ex doesn't feel stabbed in the back? And what kind of best friend goes out with their ex's girl? Especially right after. =S
I wouldn't be so quick to judge. I say what I mean and mean what I say: all parties are okay with the situation, especially the Cancer. He really doesn't give a damn either way. The Cancer ex broke up with me. I'll spare the details, but he did a lot of shady **** that I have forgiven him for. He started dating a new girl before I even moved my stuff out of our apartment, and she moved in a week after I moved it all out. He knew the girl for about, oh I don't know... two months? The Cancer and I broke up in March 2012. It is January 2013 and the Aries and I have just started to date. The Cancer doesn't care what I do. As long as we are happy, he's given his blessing. Plus, the Cancer has no claim on my life. That's just archaic and immature. We've all found a way to be adults about the situation because quite frankly he has absolutely NO RIGHT to give a damn who I date or if his best friend dates me. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 21, 2013 02:56 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Her daughter. Ok serious answer is Pisces after a Leo.
You went from a Lion to a Fish? Elaborate! I feel like this is interesting, as you always are 
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Haplesschild*
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posted January 21, 2013 03:03 AM
Hey Elizabeth, what were your ex's placements? I dated a Cancer sun with Gemini and Pisces placements and it was a disaster, he was really shady too.IP: Logged |
sand
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posted January 21, 2013 03:16 AM
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Originally posted by ElizabethO:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by sand:
[b] Her daughter. Ok serious answer is Pisces after a Leo.
You went from a Lion to a Fish? Elaborate! I feel like this is interesting, as you always are [/B][/QUOTE]Don't u think Pisces are leonine? My mom is a Pisces sun and moon. Loves purple. Password to most things is HRH= her royal highness! they are also rather lazy. Well my mom and bro at least. I actually have never seen a lazy Leo. A Pisces would hit my fifth. A Leo possibly my moon. IP: Logged |
ElizabethO
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posted January 21, 2013 12:42 PM
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Originally posted by Haplesschild*:
Hey Elizabeth, what were your ex's placements? I dated a Cancer sun with Gemini and Pisces placements and it was a disaster, he was really shady too.
Cancer Sun
Leo Moon
Cancer Mercury
Gemini Venus
Cancer Mars
Aries Jupiter
Sag Saturn
Sag Uranus
Cap Neptune
Scorpio Pluto
Virgo Rising
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its_aqua
Knowflake Posts: 107
From: Mars
Registered: Nov 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 12:48 PM
Ugh, it's always the same with me..water guys again and again!  ex no1:
Cancer Sun
Gemini Moon
Gemini Venus ex no2:
Scorpio Sun
Gemini Moon
Scorpio Venus current:
Cancer Sun
Scorpio Moon
Gemini Venus
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peachbeigeblue
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posted January 21, 2013 01:46 PM
(From 16 - on, although I also dated 2 when I was 12+13)
First bf Leo Sun/Leo Moon/Pisces Rising
2nd: Scorpio/Aqua/Taurus
3rd: Gemini/Cancer/Cancer - cheater!
4th: Capricorn/Scorpio/Virgo
5th: Libra/Cancer/Libra - Cheater!
6th: Leo/Cancer/PiscesAnd I briefly liked a Aqua/Virgo/Aqua after sixth. I know #1, 2, and 6 never really moved on.
3 is with a Leo with Taurus moon (like me)
4 is with a Scorpio, I forget moon
5 is with a Libra/Aqua I'm a Leo/Taurus/Scorpio Rising
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mir
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posted January 21, 2013 07:10 PM
Me: Leo-Sun, Virgo-Asc, Scorp-MoonEx: Pisces-Sun, Leo-Asc, Taurus-Moon Now: Cap-Sun, Aries-Asc, Pisces-Moon Water/Fire/Earth combined in all cases. IP: Logged |
Lazyscarecrow
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posted January 21, 2013 07:39 PM
Lazy: Leo Sun square Aries Moon, Leo Mercury conjunct Leo Venus both trine Sagittarius ASC, opposite Saturn and square Pluto, Taurus Mars sextile SunEx:
Virgo/Libra rising (not 100%) Sagittarius Sun (no aspects), Pisces Moon (or Aries if birth time is wrong) sq Capricorn Venus, Venus conjunct Sat/Nep/Ura, Scorpio Mars conjunct Pluto Ex who is not really an ex because it never materialized:
(Gem rising a guess, not accurate) Gemini Sun conjunct Jupiter, Cancer Moon (or Leo Moon, no birth time), Cancer Venus and Mars(not conjunct), don't remember many aspects except his Venus was opposite Sat/Nep/Ura I'm keeping the current guy's placements to myself, but he has lotsa fire to keep up with my own . I am never ever ever getting back together...... with another Water dominant person. Just no. Both two exes, dunno if it was the mutability of their Suns or their halfway submerged charts, but they could not be straightforward. Then again it could be a "he wasn't that into you" type deal. IP: Logged |
Haplesschild*
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posted January 21, 2013 08:02 PM
Guys I've had relationships with, not in any particular order (notice how there's a definite pattern?):Leo/Taurus/Cancer V/Sag mars/Leo rising
Capricorn/Aries/Sag V/Scorpio/Not sure about rising
Capricorn/Cancer/Sag V/Aries/Scorpio rising
Taurus/Gemini(if I remember)/Aries V/Taurus or Gemini M/Not sure about rising
Cancer/Scorpio/Gemini/Aries rising
Taurus/Scorpio/Taurus/Aries rising Guys I've dated and had short relationships with (all approx 1-2 month each) Leo/Leo/Leo V/Virgo M/Leo rising
Leo/Pisces/Cancer v
Pisces/Libra/Aries v/Gemini rising Weird aye, almost all of them have something Aries, Scorpio or Plutonian energy. I'm a Virgo/Libra/Libra IP: Logged |
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