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Topic: how many moon square venus people chose to just abstain from relationships
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sand
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Registered: May 2011
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posted January 21, 2013 01:26 AM
  
just curious..i don't think i'm the type but it does make for a smoother life lol! i suppose if things don't work out with my current partner, which have always been rocky ever since anyway, i could see myself completely avoiding relationships/ dating/ sex. mostly coz all those three mean the same thing to me.  IP: Logged |
11nahyt
Knowflake Posts: 454
From: the future
Registered: Feb 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 01:47 AM
for the past 3 years i have, and still am avoiding relationships. i am just not ready for anything like that.im also celibate too. i'm too focused on school and work... and flirting lol. sometimes whenever i'm feeling really *cough* "lonely", i call or hang out with a guy i like (not truly like) and fell comfortable flirting with, and that's all i need to quench my thirst lol. i can't deal with being romantically involved with anyone yet. this could have something to do with my progressions thoughIP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5329
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 01:51 AM
i've recently decided to take that path..its been nothing but a headache for me. maybe i'll just move to a country where prostitution is legal and say to hell with dating.  IP: Logged |
SaturnineMoth
Knowflake Posts: 1595
From: *The Land of Oz*
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 01:58 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i've recently decided to take that path..its been nothing but a headache for me. maybe i'll just move to a country where prostitution is legal and say to hell with dating.
IDK your bday is coming up young Mister Aqua~
I think you are ready for Vegas~ lol mehbe.... road trip = bunnyranch!!! <333 *wouldsocomeiwth* you don't need to leave the country there are several in the states already! IP: Logged |
andstuff
Knowflake Posts: 1083
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Registered: Jun 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 02:37 AM
I haven't really been on the market lately, following a crazy love story. guess I just want someone who will feel right. So far I'm not interested in anyone, their fault not mine.Know quite at least 2 people w this placement who have no trouble finding new stuff and actually take steps in between. Having said that, I defo would never date a guy with a hard Venus aspect, the fewer deficiencies the better! IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 9853
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Registered: May 2011
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posted January 21, 2013 03:13 AM
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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
i've recently decided to take that path..its been nothing but a headache for me. maybe i'll just move to a country where prostitution is legal and say to hell with dating.
Omg I'm aquaguy in disguise! IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 9853
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posted January 21, 2013 03:20 AM
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Originally posted by SaturnineMoth:
IDK your bday is coming up young Mister Aqua~
I think you are ready for Vegas~ lol mehbe.... road trip = bunnyranch!!! <333 *wouldsocomeiwth* you don't need to leave the country there are several in the states already!
Bunny ranch! Y don't u just offer money to random strangers so at least it's understandable when they call you rude.  what'll it be a 5 or a 10. #boogienights Agree though u r young. And it seems that ur problem is only in the initial phase. I keep wanting these shiny things.  IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5329
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 03:21 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Omg I'm aquaguy in disguise!
huh? IP: Logged |
sand
Knowflake Posts: 9853
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Registered: May 2011
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posted January 21, 2013 03:39 AM
Same issues different clothes! IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
Moderator Posts: 5329
From: tennessee
Registered: Jan 2012
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posted January 21, 2013 04:01 AM
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Originally posted by sand:
Same issues different clothes!
maybe it doesnt matter that we are different colors, as long as we practice the same religion.  IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 7725
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 21, 2013 02:02 PM
Raises hand. I have that placement and feel similarly.When I was younger I went through a phase that many girls do, obssessing over finding my soulmate, but I got over that nonsense. It's not because of relationships that didnt work out, that i don't want one either. Just right now (and for awhile now) and probably for a long time to come, I am not interested in romantic relationships. There is just no desire to have one anymore. IP: Logged |
RedScorp
Knowflake Posts: 4783
From: The Sun
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted January 21, 2013 02:15 PM
Sometimes I do because I'm just lazy. For 2012, my resolution was no relationships, and that was easy as hell, IP: Logged |
freebrainstorms
Knowflake Posts: 730
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Registered: Sep 2010
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posted January 21, 2013 02:31 PM
i definitely went through that and am now finally at a point where i feel ready for one. it's a journey to find yourself when those two are square, so for some it's hard to be so intimately connected with someone when your own self is hard enough to understand.IP: Logged |
T
Knowflake Posts: 7725
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 21, 2013 03:05 PM
I can relate to this one:Moon square or opposition Venus Because these people value harmony, they may find themselves giving in to others too easily, especially in the first half of life. Resentment is possible, as they feel that they are the ones who seem to do all the acquiescing. There can be a distinct tendency to become friends (and lovers) with people too readily, simply because there is a strong need for approval and a hunger for receiving affection. As such, these people may get involved with people who seem to really like them, and they don't consider whether they actually like them back! It's somewhat of a weakness, as these people are very charmed by the idea that someone seems to really like them and appreciate them. Generally, one of life's lessons for these people is to learn to discriminate more and to get in touch with what they truly want and need. The functions of the Moon (which rules the emotions and feelings, amongst other things) and the functions of Venus (which rules social relationships, harmony, and partnership, amongst other things) are at cross-purposes. When these people attempt to feed the needs of one function, it is often at the expense of the other, until they find some sort of balance. This can play out in a variety of ways. For example, there can be conflicts in partnerships about parenting or whether or not to have a family. They can find themselves compromising their own emotional needs in order to find and keep love. Peace and harmony are important to these people--perhaps too much so, as they can easily be taken advantage of. Insecurity is something that these people need to deal with at some point in their lives. Very sensual, people with Moon in hard aspect to Venus sometimes replace love with food or shopping! They are also usually quite sexually active and sometimes quite lustful. They are usually skilled in the arts. There is a distinct lazy streak. Most are able to work hard, but they truly appreciate luxuriating and enjoying as many pleasures as possible, and self-discipline simply isn't always at their disposal!
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/moonvenusaspects.html All true - at least at some point or another. It's "me time" now.  IP: Logged |
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