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From: england
Registered: Jan 2013

posted January 21, 2013 09:40 AM            

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Well i first met him couple of months ago,had loads in common he was always contacting me but nothing happened as that sweetness turned quick to rudeness he became very argumentative and basically told me to eerase his number and never contact him again.was stunned to say at least really liked a guy,and we havent been intimate ( was in first stages) so cant say he used me and dumped me.a week ago out of the blue,he mesaages me apologizing profusely asking to start over.was very sceptical but agreed to go out as he kept promising it will be better and it was just stress. Give it few days he starts ignoring me,only texts as a reply when i contact him first. All sorts of excuses,extremely busy( personally i think u can always spare 20,sec to text if u really like someone) leading to day we wer suppose to go out .there had to be slight change so his first reaction was postpone for few weeks then says we will meet but hes so " busy" it cant be long,and in the end stands me up with a lame excuse. I call his bs and end up in argument he sends me on guilt trip and turns it round like my fault.next day try and arrange to meet another evening( he asked again) and then says ill have to check if free. I had to contact him next day to see if wer meeting as he " had his kid over and didnt get a chqnce to txt and cancel " .ha ! I got a 2 y old and alwaya text people back. I have tried giving him benefit of a doubt but that was too much and just started ignoring him. His ignoring has really hurt me and dont think thatshow a guy acts when interested. As a sag i like to know where i stand but cant help feeling i been given a rinaround. Sorry about long post but can someone please tell me am i going crazy or the guy has just been trying to string me along ??it sucks because i really liked him at first but not gonna be chasing him ,its not right.

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From: england
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posted January 21, 2013 05:29 PM            

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Not one reply wow cheers guys lol im dying here

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posted January 21, 2013 05:33 PM            

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Follow your gut. You are getting the run around. I don't give guys who stand me up second chances, no ma'm.

When a Scorpio (or any guy for that matter) wants to spend time with you, they'll make it happen. You could cancel on them (granted genuinely canceling and not just testing them because they'll see that) and their interest won't waver.

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posted January 21, 2013 05:44 PM            

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He's seeing someone else. Abort mission!

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posted January 21, 2013 05:51 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
He's seeing someone else. Abort mission!

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YES. Especially if you don't hear from him on the weekends. This is reminding me of Bridget Jones' Diary for some reason.

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posted January 21, 2013 08:09 PM            

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in your account/question, you jump from "he was always contacting me" to "that sweetness turned quick to rudeness he became very argumentative"

is it because nothing happened as you say or because of another reason?
if it is because nothing happened, then may be he wasn't looking for a longterm thing (and there can be lots of reasons). it may be better that you didn't get more involved with him, since you'd have been disapointed further.

good luck sag_

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